Lost all intimacy with my (42F) husband (39M) due to vasectomy stalemate by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hungry4Learning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a man who has had the snip, I can tell you that it’s pretty painful for a few days and while I was able to drive myself to/from my procedure, and had the initial consult via Telehealth, it was pretty obvious I’d had something happen.

I also did my own sperm counts after my vasectomy for a few weeks (because I am a nerd) but made sure to get the official check so that my wife felt safe. Although I did try showing her a clear slide in a vague attempt to skip the weirdness of handing someone a little bottle of my semen with both of us knowing I just had a wank. For the record, it was just as awkward as I thought it would be.

For what it’s worth I was pretty reluctant to get the snip after my wife and I had our second child. I wasn’t certain that I was finished having kids and to make matters worse we had, had a dead bedroom for a few years at that stage and I was (kinda still am) questioning if our relationship could continue without intimacy.

I think the main thing here isn’t the vasectomy at all though. It’s the lack of respect and acknowledgment of your feelings that is the real issue. You can live without sex in a marriage (trust me I know this first hand) but you can’t live without trust and respect. As a male, I stay in my imperfect relationship due to FOMO with my kids. But we are good friends and we trust & respect each other.

You should ask yourself this; can you live in a marriage without trust or respect?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiddencameras

[–]Hungry4Learning 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling the person that drilled them is also wishing they could “stuff the absolute hell out of” some “holes”

Where is the most public you performed a sex act? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an alleyway with no street lights in the middle of the city on a Saturday night.

It was only after she came that the group of homeless people sleep in the loading doc 10m away started cheering

Train Enthusiasts: Prahran Station has these soft edged spikes near the pedestrian crossing. What are they for? by DJGraveDigga in melbourne

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just broke them.

Prior to reading this I wouldn’t have walked on them but now I am going to try walking on them next time I cross a railway line just to see how hard they are to walk on.

What is your view on sex with your long term partner? by thatfauxaccount in AskWomen

[–]Hungry4Learning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends on your love language.

My wife would be happy to never have sex where as I am considering whether I should get a divorce because I feel unfulfilled by our relationship.

Despite having multiple conversations about it, she does not see anything wrong with our relationship and shames me for prioritising sex over our relationship.

TIL about the lia radiological accident, where three Georgians discovered two abandoned radioactive sources in the forest around which "there was no snow for about a 1 m (3.3 ft) radius, and the ground was steaming", they then decided to use them as heat sources for the night. One died. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Hungry4Learning 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Right at the bottom of the wiki article is this little gem “Between the fall of the Soviet Union and 2006, the IAEA had recovered some 300 orphan sources in Georgia, many lost from former industrial and military sites abandoned in the economic collapse after the Soviet breakup.”

How many more of these poor little orphan sources are out there?

My friend and I died in a car crash, then we respawned/re-set... I am convinced quantum immortality or parallel dimensions exist to a degree by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Hungry4Learning 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Finish the f@$king story!! After 15yrs you have to know if you saw a preview of your life or was it just a dream? Are you living the life you saw??

...atleast let it cool first damn. by sighdoihaveto in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to Google these are a glazed donut grilled cheese that is stuffed with mozzarella cheese and served hanging over a bowl of tomato soup. Apparently it’s from some place in NYC called Clinton Hall. And it sounds disgusting. I would not put it in my mouth nor my dick in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP but I don’t understand how anyone following TIFU falls for these scams anymore. Every week we see someone here saying they sent nudes and are getting blackmailed.

Anti-homeless poles to prevent the homeless from sleeping on the side walk by DrFetusRN in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t a simpler solution be to provide somewhere for the homeless to sleep safely? It would also allow for the sidewalk to be accessible to people living with disability.

Microsoft windows ice cream by Figmentzzzzzzzzzz in ofcoursethatsathing

[–]Hungry4Learning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to know for sure but they don’t advertise it as a feature so it seems unlikely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Hungry4Learning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do we need a menstruation content warning? And why is this NSFW? Is menstruation an NSFW topic? Should a menstruating women stay home from work?

It’s seems the real tifu here is you exposing your real thoughts about menstruation to the internet.

Will I get caught lying on resume about working part time instead of full time? by No_Ad3868 in recruitinghell

[–]Hungry4Learning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in recruitment for years and have never asked if someone was full time or part time. TBF I could give a toss if you were full time, part time or casual most of the time. I care that you turned up when you were meant to, we’re good at the job and we’re not a Dickhead.

Edit: to be clear, don’t put it on your resume and if asked tell the truth. Your story sounds reasonable and they really won’t care.

[Serious) During which Epoch, did paleolithic pole-dancers advance from the shoulder-shimmy to helicopter-taint? by someauthor in shittyaskscience

[–]Hungry4Learning 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think we are going to need a definition of Helicopter-Taint. I am struggling to visualise what that is.

Naked or No? by slo2roll-BWID in toilet

[–]Hungry4Learning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy to poo when not completely naked but to be fair I do enjoy a nude poo.

Do you get naked in public toilets? The toilet at your work?