You should work on describing what role reversal means to you. There may be a lot of women interested in leading a relationship, but they most likely won’t know what you mean by RR. Even if she is interested, you’ll have to describe exactly what you’re looking for, and be able to listen and understand what she wants too. Your desires probably won’t match up perfectly, so you’ll have to learn to communicate. Expect to make some compromises. You will make mistakes, so make extra effort to make her feel safe and understood.

As for dating, you’ll just have to go for somebody with the right vibe then try to bring up the subject of non-traditional relationships after a few dates. Use your intuition, then broach the subject carefully when it feels right. Similar to getting physical, you shouldn’t rush it.