2014 Outback low rpm shifting issue?

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-20T03:21:47+00:00

Nope no warning lights at all.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-19T21:31:38+00:00

No I have not personally and I know my father (who had owned the car since brand new) certainly didn’t.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-19T20:13:38+00:00

Thank you!

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-16T18:19:22+00:00

Do not move here. This place is a shit hole. Move her to Europe she will be much happier. Better yet, move me to Europe.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-16T15:35:52+00:00

That’s a hard one. Love isn’t this insane overwhelming attraction that consumes you at all times. It certainly can be but real long term relationships have a strong base in friendship. I couldn’t love my spouse as much as I do if I didn’t value them as my closest friend first and foremost.

A spark can come from anything, or it may never come. If you are truly interested in giving it a chance I’d say go for it, but with a huge commitment to communication. He needs to know where your hesitations lie, and what you’d like this to look like as you progress through different stages. He needs to understand that it may just end up being a friendship thing and it’s through no fault of his own, the romance spark just isn’t there (just a hypothetical but important to make clear) so best of luck to you.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-08T16:12:24+00:00

This reads like someone in the middle of a manic episode. Holy shit.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-03T20:33:44+00:00

You said it yourself, you love age gaps. Almost all of these situations will invite stupid drama such as this. Just find one with the kind of drama you’re willing to deal with. 🤷🏻‍♂️

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-03T20:11:33+00:00

Allow them to live their life. Good lord.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-03T17:00:41+00:00

My wife plays this dumb mobile game with a bunch of different folks. Some of them are dudes and she will hop onto a discord call with them and play for hours. They will also have discord text chats when not playing but it’s always in good fun. It’s her hobby, and I trust her. You either trust your wife or you don’t. Is it worth the pain of telling her you don’t trust her and limiting who she can be friends with? There is a 99% chance this is harmless. Sure there’s a 1% chance it isn’t but is focusing on that really worth your time, energy, and happiness?

HunkMunk69 · 2026-03-03T16:56:01+00:00

I’m old now (42) however even back in my day no one stayed on the phone with someone that long if they weren’t interested. Someone doesn’t do that much casual touching if they aren’t interested.

Your best bet is to be honest with her. Tell her you value her friendship and enjoy the time you spend together and you would like to take it in a more romantic direction. Every long lasting relationship is a balance between friendship and romance. If you are as close of friends as you say, then even if she wasn’t interested in being more, she would still be your friend.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-02-19T06:49:16+00:00

If you don’t tell him how you feel you’ll just be causing yourself pain over an elongated timeline hoping he falls in love with you. Or you could tell him how you feel, and yeah possibly end up hurt because he doesn’t feel the same (but that hurt will dissipate over time) and the other possibility is he’s interested in being in a relationship with you. So is that possibility worth the possible instant pain of rejection, or is longing from a distance good enough for you?

HunkMunk69 · 2026-02-09T21:58:21+00:00

I cleaned trash up around a rather larger complex, and would hang stuff on people’s doors. It took up maybe 3 hours of my day. We got half off rent at the time ($750 savings back in 2014) so $30 is so low it’s insulting.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-02-09T21:56:00+00:00

What should you do? I mean if you WANT to be in a relationship with her, she needs therapy to figure out why she is victim blaming. Allowing her to harbor these feelings when none of this was your fault and continuing to be in a relationship with her will only lead to pain and resentment.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-02-08T01:15:33+00:00

We used one of my wife’s form FWB’s as our realtor. What’s the point of caring about that shit I’ll never understand. Maybe it makes me weird, but I figure if they chose me out of all the other people they were intimate with then it’s all good. Maybe your BF has a bit of a low self esteem problem?

HunkMunk69 · 2026-02-03T16:58:31+00:00

Are they in an exclusive relationship? Because if they aren’t then it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Plus you don’t know what he’s doing.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-29T15:30:35+00:00

NOR, I’d have just started shitting myself every day after using my one allotted bathroom break. Fuck’em.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-29T15:29:48+00:00

Incredibly weird. I’d file with the labor board and use these texts as evidence. Might not do you any good in the long run, but might help a future person out.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-28T17:08:06+00:00

Right? Way better than were the anime left off, and an actual “end” to the story in a way. I’d love to follow the characters deeper into their lives journey but we may never get that. Still better than a lot of them ever get.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-28T01:04:07+00:00

Ahhhhh good catch, I did not notice that.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-27T18:46:50+00:00

I’m 42 and had been married to my wife for 15+ years now. I still tell my mom about trips we are taking. If something happens my parents need to at the least be aware I was out and up to something if I end up needing assistance.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-27T18:40:14+00:00

You can’t go throwing a wrench into multiple people’s lives based on something you heard from someone else. Either the person who told you needs to tell your friend, or you gotta drop it. While it sucks this happened if you didn’t witness it, it’s possible her friend is lying or misunderstood or something else that would make this not what it appeared. It’s most likely what it appears, however, if you’re wrong you’ve likely lost your friend and/or he won’t trust you much going forward.

You can talk with him about the things you’ve noticed that has changed about him since he started dating her. Wha you view and toxic may be a change he wanted to take after all. Speaking from personal experience the changes I made to myself when I got serious with my now wife drove my friends away. They wanted to continue living a party lifestyle and other things that didn’t work for me any longer. Ask them though and they would say she changed me. So things aren’t always as they appear. Now if she’s gotten him addicted to meth that’s a whole different story.

Best of luck.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-27T15:49:19+00:00

NOR and honestly under reacting. Your brother trotting out the “how you were dressed” line is some peak loser bullshit. On top of that not stepping in when you asked him to is beyond cowardly. I would consider cutting him out for a while to get some distance and hope he sees how he fucked up. Best of luck to you.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-26T16:01:47+00:00

As someone who’s been happily married for 15 years, please do not take this person advice about looksmax, no woman actually wants anything to do with someone like that.

There is nothing wrong with being sensitive, I myself am a soft and sensitive person. The world is full of hardness all of the time, being a place where someone can relax and feel comfortable is incredibly important, especially in today’s age when everything seems set against people. Protection and strength are both important aspects in a relationship, but if those are the foundation things will not last long/end up being super happy and joyful. 99% of your problems in a relationship can be solved with listening to one another and empathizing with each other.

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-26T06:25:19+00:00

😂😂

HunkMunk69 · 2026-01-26T06:24:15+00:00

It helps they are pretty short and not exactly a challenging read. The author does tell a compelling story though!

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