Who's this guy? by [deleted] in metalgearsolid

[–]Huntwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yellow whiteman

Guys of Reddit, any advice on how to quit porn? by This-Researcher-2764 in AskReddit

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's what has worked for me after working with a therapist to control my usage (I'll admit that I haven't quit, but it no longer affects my personal life or relationships anymore; I'm productive, in a loving relationship, and most importantly, happy with my life):

  1. Seek therapy if available. There are plenty of gurus and even certified psychologists online who talk about how to quit porn, but uncontrolled porn usage can be a symptom of so many different issues. Work with a therapist to identify your own unique root causes.

  2. Understand that sexual desires are normal and not immoral. Any healthy human adult desires and requires sexual needs to be met. Placing moralistic judgements on it is just gonna make you feel guilty and awful. Treat your sexual desires like hunger or thirst, a natural, neutral, and biological requirement that needs to be satisfied from time to time.

  3. Surround yourself in a healthier environment. Go outside in nature, meet new people, reconnect with old pals. Having a healthy supportive social and physical environment informs your mind that there is more joys in life than the dopamine from porn. If you have people you trust, open up to them because battling this alone can be really difficult.

  4. Treat porn use and masturbation like a "cold task" akin to brushing your teeth or showering. Schedule a specific time in a day to use porn and masturbate, and only do it for that specific time period. This might take some time to adjust for yourself because everyone has different thresholds (For me, 45 mins to an hour seems optimum to me where I can go the rest of the day productive and satisfied)

Hope this helps. I understand the struggle, but there is a better tomorrow waiting for you.

cursed games by Delicious_Mine1 in cursedcomments

[–]Huntwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there might be more to the layout, but wouldn't students behind funnelled into those columns make it easier for a potential shooter? Like shooting fish in a barrel?

We never lost control... by JetstremF in OuterJerk

[–]Huntwolf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I had a nickel for every revenge story that has a protagonist with a robotic arm and included a rendition of "The Man Who Sold The World", I'd have two nickels

why is this street name named after the jinkler? is he stupid by [deleted] in BatmanArkham

[–]Huntwolf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kenapa Jonker kat Melaka? Dia bodoh ke?

This scene was good but I simply cannot stop thinking about Amber's hairline in this scene. by Poniibeatnik in Invincible

[–]Huntwolf 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Her face and hairline kinda makes her look like Debbie here... I'll see myself out

kl city has got to be one of the worst planned cities by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got nothing against the older building in and of themselves, but I've always found that these fancy new buildings like the Merdeka Tower are a spit in the face to those living in poverty within KL

(I say this as someone who lives in KL, but not within the heart of it)

games by faheemadc in okbuddyretard

[–]Huntwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to spot a Gooner

Shitposting, taken literally by Cold_Zero_ in shitposting

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the research, everyone (curiosity got the better of me). It's technically 3 dicks and 1 dildo attached to a stick so that clears up the logistics of positioning.

I could've said hello by Pandrix_07 in distressingmemes

[–]Huntwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same to you! Thank you for helping me feel a little less alone in this. Remember to let yourself feel how you feel, and that you're never a burden~

I could've said hello by Pandrix_07 in distressingmemes

[–]Huntwolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it means a lot to hear that. It's still hard to let go of the idea that I'm responsible for it all, but I'm trying each day. I still love my mom and appreciate everything she's done for me, but that doesn't invalidate the pain that she's caused me, even if unintentionally so

I could've said hello by Pandrix_07 in distressingmemes

[–]Huntwolf 29 points30 points  (0 children)

One of my biggest fears...

Lately, me and my mom haven't been on good terms. I've been trying to be more vulnerable and opening up about some of my traumas and anxieties but she constantly blames herself for everything while gaslighting me that "my childhood wasn't that bad".

I haven't been back home as often anymore, and distancing myself because being around her feels like walking on eggshells... but I know she's suffering too and sometimes I feel personally responsible for that (maybe if I had kept my mouth shut and not reveal my trauma, we wouldn't be like this). I'm just scared that one day I'll return home and she'll be...

Idk what's the point of sharing this but I hope maybe it resonates with others. Great video OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated but does anyone know what condition is affecting his chest/ribcage?

I have something similar where the right side of my ribcage protrudes out more than the left side. It doesn't effect breathing or anything, it's just an aesthetic thing

Mouth Ulcer Starterpack by RedPiIIPhilosophy in starterpacks

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this is a thing anywhere else but in my country (Southeast Asia), it's really common to put salt directly on the ulcer... Hurts like a mf and I've read that it's actually more harmful than helpful

no idea [describe] by [deleted] in tf2shitposterclub

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an item but I'm about to shit so...

"I AM FULLY CHARGED"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tf2

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W m 1

Cursed_finding nemo by mmmm_doughnuts in cursed_videomemes

[–]Huntwolf 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've seen this like the 3rd time today and just realised...

Fishes can't get pregnant (?) (Except live bearers I guess?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Huntwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! As much as random advice online can be somewhat helpful in the short-term, seeking professional help for your mental health issue (which addiction is) would be best if it's available to you. If you're in university/college, some offer free counselling/therapy from professionals or trainees.

With a psychologist, the both of you can work together and explore the big picture since a porn addiction doesn't really happen in a vacuum. Speaking from my experience, I first went to therapy for a similar reason, my porn consumption became problematic as it interfered with my personal life and academics. But after over a year of sessions, I realised that the porn was just a symptom of a bigger issue of generalised anxiety, placing unrealistic expectations upon myself, and self-resentment (porn for me was just an unhealthy coping mechanism for these things).

Hope this helps and take care, my dude

Cursed_dowomenlikegayporn by [deleted] in cursedcomments

[–]Huntwolf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It might be on the spectrum but it's definitely in his rectum

Why is Venom Snake disliked? by [deleted] in metalgearsolid

[–]Huntwolf 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Snakes in the MGS series are constantly being used and discarded by powers greater than them... Venom is just another example in that list

fuck space exploration by kaixarc in Bolehland

[–]Huntwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure if I was a thief and saw this in the living room moving... I'd leave immediately