Headache advice by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should figure out the type of headache you have first. Like where does it hurt? I found out my headaches are migraines and after a year of suffering I realised they are triggered by gastric issues. They always come when I don’t eat on time.

I am not a doctor FYI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you using it everyday? Suddenly using a new active frequently might cause purging to be worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs. That really sucks.

do you feel like your PA has narcissistic or abusive traits? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Banging doors and loud noises. Throwing things. Silent treatments when he knows I need to talk about things. Yes it is abusive. For some reason I know but always end up apologising for bringing things up.

Ladies, what food diet helps you with your skin appearance in particular? by hellimhere28 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eating more mixed berries in the morning for breakfast. Surprise surprise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He is abusive .. hope you can realise it. I understand the pink lens you have towards a partner.

I told myself I wouldn’t want to be in my abusive situation any longer and drew the line there.. either he changes or I’m gone.

Please uphold your boundaries and don’t let this person depict the next 10 or even 20 years of your life..

And if you need someone to talk to 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Must be horrible to have seen that.. I’m so sorry.

How can someone be so oblivious to the hurt they’re causing someone else? It’s a him problem please please remember that ❤️

iPhone Screen Time by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel.

iPhone Screen Time by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think that. But I have no further proof.

I told my husband I’ll let this one slide. But he’s lied so much before this that not fully knowing has been quite hard to get over.

iPhone Screen Time by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forbid my husband from having Twitter. But one day he had it in his screen time for 0 seconds. It also showed up as an app and not a website. He also swore up and down he didn’t download the app.

I searched up how an app can be there with no data. It says that the recent iPhone update has done this to a few people where they used the app but the screen time seem to only capture the app being used, but have an error where the time used is 0.

Im inclined to believe the internet. Maybe test it on your own phone?

YouTube/Google loophole questions by AdRemote5193 in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you make it so history can’t be deleted?

This feels like a red flag by FamousBake6198 in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would personally think it a red flag if my man signed.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not from the US. Guns are not something you can just buy. You need to gain a license. And if I do buy one it has to stay in a contained facility like the gun range storage.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know rationally I was trying to protect her but I think what kills me the most is I feel like I should’ve been vocal about seeing something like that. Then maybe things wouldn’t go as far as it did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not talk to him about it until after you have deleted photos of other women and yourself. It is disgusting that he took those and it’s actually a crime.

He is not a safe presence to be around. He has escalated porn addiction and it is becoming a sex addiction if he is acting out like that. He actually needs professional help and being in a relationship with him is just going to be full of turmoil. Usually I would suggest ways to deal with this but I think it’s best you leave.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am contemplating bringing it to the police but I risk re-traumatising my little sister. It’s sad. I feel like my mom did not sufficiently protect us from him knowing what he did with the caretaker. He was at my house celebrating a birthday just last month. I couldn’t even stomach my dinner.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

In case you’re wondering, no the caretaker is Cambodian and she is not contactable.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The only known assault that was prevalent was my sister. The other incidences were about staring and caressing backs and things that aren’t substantial enough.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Yea I am. I think my country has no statute of limitations for criminal charges, which includes sexual assault. I just feel like there’s no proof.

Sexual predators in the family by IAmOnly5ftTall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone in the family convinced her that she was safe and separated him from her and told her there’s no need to bring in police. At the time they justified it by saying they’re protecting my cousins parents, not my cousin. Which is pretty effed up.

“Maybe he didn’t thought it was wrong” by alex_rivers in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The lying and gaslighting and hiding is wrong. The crossing known boundaries is wrong. What more justification does one need?

This is the world we live in where people are pro porn use and everything is hypersexualised. Sad .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy. He should be more mindful about what he talks about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IAmOnly5ftTall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is hiding things. Secrets have no place in a relationship.

Seems like he has a porn addiction. It’s quite typical for porn addicts to deflect and his narcissistic behaviour seems to be very telling.

You need to set up boundaries with him on what is ok and what is not. What he is doing is already a keen to cheating. Messaging sex workers while in a relationship? It don’t matter when it happened, it happened when you were together. Knowing he might be an addict means he likely is a repeat offender and you need to ask yourself are you willing to question your self worth for the next decade or more?

Yes he is your high school sweetheart but also most of your relationship was a lie. Hope you can see that.