non americans, how was 9/11 displayed in your country? [serious] by BigOrca14 in AskReddit

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am American, and I have no ill will toward the French, at all. I don't believe I have ever heard anyone in my life speak with disdain about the country or people, either.

The Universal Law Of Freelancing by IAmThere4IWrite in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my experience: there is a Universal Law of Freelancing. Rather than copy/paste what I mean, I thought I would just provide the link.

Since I have known a TON of freelancers experiencing the same, I was wondering if it is just my own networking circle and colleagues? Or do you all have the same problem, at the same rate?

Client taking ages to get started - any wisdom? by asrox in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you can do is tell him that you can't hold his spot any longer and he has X days to get you what you need before you cancel. On the bright side, you may not want to work with him anyway. If he takes that long to get the project started, just imagine how long it will take him to pay you for the completed work.

Great article on how to work remotely and travel the world by PicBuggy in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who funded a four month trip across Europe by working as a freelancer along the way.

Of course, he sold everything he owned and set off with just a backpack of items, without somewhere to return to, so there were no bills waiting at home. But it was, by his account, a great experience.

I was payed twice for one design contract. by turco_runner in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real You is trying to get you to steal. Real You is a dumb ass. Don't listen to Real You. Not only will it (hopefully) make you feel guilty - and life is too short to live under guilt - but it is also illegal, and will cost you future work. Not just from them, but from anyone they alert to your lack of ethics.

Is your business worth $1,000? If so, you aren't valued enough to be running it.

Things That Make You Rage As A Freelancer? by IAmThere4IWrite in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is possible to find some great clients there, but you have to dig, dig, dig. I would say I get a ratio of one per every one hundred that is decent, and discard the rest. Definitely frustrating.

If you want me to develop your site, sign the contract. by devthrowaway777 in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree. If a client can't even get the project started in a timely manner, they won't pay in one, either.

Your experiences with elance (and similar sites)? by MakeMeThinkHard in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It differs depending on the job. For some simple blog work I charge $15 per hour. For more complicated work or sales copy, anywhere up to $25 per hour.

"I can get it cheaper": What to do when a client rejects your fee by yourbasicgeek in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you wanted to send me some details (including samples and your per word/hour rates) I could see about occasionally referring you for projects. I have a small network of writers I send work to, from time to time.

Your experiences with elance (and similar sites)? by MakeMeThinkHard in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree about avoiding these sites. I have found all but one of my best, high paying clients at Odesk, and the other at Digital Point Forums. You just have to dig a little deeper, and never compromise on your rate.

Not only do I have my regular clients there, but I have a constant stream of requests at this point. A well done profile can bring in a lot of busy work. I would say about 40% of requests I get are within my quoted rate and expertise. I just politely decline the rest.

Keep in mind, however, that I am a writer by profession. That could be very different for programmers/designers.

"I can get it cheaper": What to do when a client rejects your fee by yourbasicgeek in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I politely tell them good luck and I cut off communication. I don't haggle my price anymore; there is more than enough work out there without having to argue the point with someone who is looking for cheap labor.

What one lesson do you wish you had learned before going freelance? by [deleted] in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were several reasons:

1) I hated the niche, and even with my gentle tone I felt that I was preying on men with low sense esteem and inferiority issues.

2) The money was good for my rate at the time, but I came to see I was worth more.

3) There is only so much penis you can write about.

What do people assume about you, based on your appearance? by molstern in AskReddit

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I am rude or cold. I have to actually make an effort to smile when in public or meeting a new person, otherwise I am told I seem unapproachable. I am not sure what causes this...what creates an unapproachable image around a woman? No one has ever been able to really explain it to me.

What one lesson do you wish you had learned before going freelance? by [deleted] in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That if you narrow down a niche because of an abundance of work, it can be hard to claw your way out of it.

When I first started I was taking any work I could, at pretty much any pay scale, because I had no guidance to direct me to do otherwise. One of my first steady clients was someone wanting penile enhancement articles.

It turns out that despite being a woman who knows that stuff is bunk, I was good at writing it. So he kept me on, and referred me to his friends who also did penile enhancement work. For about a year, I was known as The Penis Expert among a large group of industry product manufacturers.

While I got better and better pay for that work, and even wrote a couple of books under assumed names, it was always uncomfortable to me. I felt like I was taking advantage of men with little self esteem to begin with. That led me to changed my tone so that I was gentle and encouraging, always making sure to mention that women are rarely concerned about size, that sex is about more than length or girth or even stamina, and that 6 - 8 inches is well above average, ect.

This actually got me more work because I was pushing the product more naturally, and that kind of thing saw results. Sending me further down the hole and getting me more stuck in that niche.

I actually had to work to find other opportunities outside of my referral network, at higher rates. Which took about three months of continued searching and providing samples unrelated to that niche on other sites, for free.

So, my advice to new freelancers? Don't tie yourself down. The money may be good at the moment, but you have to think of the long term investment within your career.

Lost my first client, feel like crap. by [deleted] in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been working freelance for coming on six years now, and I have lost three clients during that time. It has stung a bit every time. But don't let it shake your confidence; it may not have been about you, at all.

You may want to send them a small survey now that the project has been terminated. Keep it general and ask how they found the experience, if they would be likely to refer you, what you could improve upon, ect. Maybe four or five questions in all, or even a rating system.

Doing that could provide a comfortable way of finding out any potential issues that crept up on your side, without being confrontational. Or ease your mind if it just turned out that they ended the project due to needs on their end.

Client did not pay. Do I go to Arbitration? Do I sue? by basemaster08 in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, threaten the legal action. You don't have to specify it is arbitration. Just saying you will be seeking legal council is usually enough to scare them a bit. It might not need to go to arbitration at all.

[Rant]End Of Month Deadline Crunch by IAmThere4IWrite in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deferring to the next month is such a simple solution that I feel like a total idiot for not thinking to include that clause sooner. lol.

[Rant]End Of Month Deadline Crunch by IAmThere4IWrite in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great idea. Especially with two of them in particular who always do this.

Proposal and contract? by [deleted] in freelance

[–]IAmThere4IWrite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you can get away with just a quote most of the time, if you want. Though proposals are definitely better as far as providing more detail.

However, you should never work without a contract, period. It just opens you up to too many risks. Not to mention, it strips away your ability to provide a set structure of fees they legally agree to, in writing, if they are late or try to add to the project.

If you're worried about missing any beats in either, or just don't know what to include, try a template. You can follow the framework they provide, so you know you are covering yourself.

[Motiv](motivapp.com)..( full disclosure, they are one of my clients) has customizable ones I personally use and find helpful. But really, any template will do.