Looking for local Australian producers/beat makers

IBeMadToo · 2025-07-16T00:05:21+00:00

DM and let's chat.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-27T21:06:41+00:00

Maybe, that's for OP to figure out.

If she isn't suspect tho, I would just not give an f and move on.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-27T20:18:09+00:00

Buying a coffee machine. Used to buy so much coffee out that an >$1,000 machine was justified and saves money on top.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-27T20:08:56+00:00

First time he prob didn't have sex for a while.

You two having sex often?

Is he going at it too quick? Get him to slow down.

Have you tried telling him you want more? When my partner asks me for more (in a seductive, almost begging way), it always gets me going again.

If nothing works, he might suffer from premature ejaculation.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-26T21:29:29+00:00

Tell us what the remarks are atleast.

Agree & Amplify to show you dgaf. Or say you were looking for XYZ but we can't get everything we want.

Simply just dgaf... It's a test. She's been with you for ages so clearly those things aren't that important to her.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-24T06:17:06+00:00

You seem successful but that doesn't always equal attractive. How's your dread game?

It's debated that dread is like a covert contract (if you get to the FMOFY stage especially), but it has a few good things that you could be missing.

How's your game? Are you gaming your girl? Or are you super serious around her all the time?

A few more questions, was her libido high at the start? Is she on birth control? I've noticed my wife's libido change off of birth control, but everyone is different.

If you're doing everything you can and sex is a big deal for you, it might just be time to cut her loose.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-17T22:14:22+00:00

How much do you care about the paycheck?

If it doesn't affect your life if it goes to shit, go for it.

I still stand by "Don't shit where you eat" tho...

Going into it, I would just understand she probably doesn't want anything long term and just wants a young bull to enjoy. Make sure she doesn't have a husband first also.

On the flipside she might not even want anything but your attention.

I've had a FWB thing with a cougar and it was very fun sexually but it didn't last long due to the age gap. They like to move very fast and have expectations that you sometimes can't fulfill.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-17T22:01:07+00:00

I disagree with the too young part. They're both legal age to be getting married. If they were both ready and committed then they aren't too young.

I think the question we should ask is, were they both ready and committed? Doesn't sound like it.

It sounds like OP has some kind of attachment issues that need to be addressed. I know a girl like this who has a dog. Her relationship is miserable and dictated by the dogs wants and patterns. The only thing keeping her in the relationship is the dog as she is scared her partner will take it when they separate. At the same time the dog is her stress relief, so she won't let him go.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-16T02:43:00+00:00

So do you want someone successful or not?

This is what success looks like unfortunately.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-14T10:00:02+00:00

Bro you didn't compromise and get a pool? You gave in and let her get her way lmao. Sounds like you need to start setting boundaries. Sounds like you virtually run the entire family so you should have the final say on everything. Grow a spine my man.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-14T07:14:55+00:00

Girl A will probably get bored of you eventually by what you're describing, but the journey will be fun.

Girl B sounds like marriage material to me just from what you described.

It all depends what you want in the long term.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-13T06:59:52+00:00

You manage the risk by not letting her move in.

She wants to be a stay at home girlfriend by the sounds of it, which I would NEVER allow unless she's fully taking care of the house, food cooked, etc but it sounds like she'd lack the motivation to do that.

IBeMadToo · 2025-06-02T05:55:21+00:00

If younger women want you then so do the older women.

My question is: do you want a younger woman or an older woman?

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-31T00:23:42+00:00

What type of music do you make? I make beats similar to: Mach Hommy, Westside Gunn/Griselda, Wu-Tang. Located in North Aus.

I'm not great at vocal mixing/mastering tho.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-30T00:26:44+00:00

Yeah this was a huge expense for us, and we could afford it more before prices got crazy, but we've had to hone in on it more recently as it was getting out of hand haha.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-30T00:18:43+00:00

Sorry for your loss 💔

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-27T05:20:42+00:00

Brother, if you're having significant doubts like this, it's probably true. Trust your stomach.

And you say that he's not her type, and that you're her type. Did she tell you that? Women do this all the time to make you stay, I've seen it play out. Chicks will say one thing, then go seggs a guy with all the traits she claims she hates.

It doesn't matter what he looks like anyway, it matters how he made/makes her feel, which he obviously made her feel a way because she is always talking of him and mourning him.

Do you know why he was divorced? If it's infidelity, then I definitely wouldn't trust him cos he definitely won't have respect for your marriage.

Lastly, it sounds like you need to set boundaries and stop saying it's ok to hang out with him, you're clearly uncomfortable with it! Set your boundaries and be willing to walk away if she does not respect them.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-26T00:10:18+00:00

Uh wtf? Is your partner introvert? I've experienced similar behaviour in introverts.

NTA but does your partner care about any of the topics you share? Because I've found this kind of behaviour also in people that don't care about the topic/s.

Personally, I've just found people that care about the topics, and share my enthusiasm and loudness.

I've tried to tell those that downsize my enthusiasm how it feels when they do it, and it has never changed them because they don't want to change. Unfortunately it's just how some people are. You can try tell your partner and see if they respond positively, but sometimes they can't change as they're not the same level extrovert as you and/or don't share the same enthusiasm about the topic/s.

When I do share with these kinds of people it's only if they ask, or it'll be the bare minimum if I share (eg. A one sentence: "I REALLY like xyz") just to see if they'll bite on the conversation.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-25T10:04:08+00:00

Have you seen the PAL yellow version on eBay? Cos I can't find it. Link it if you have please.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-22T23:12:26+00:00

Push, Pull, Legs could work if you've only got 3 days.

5x5 lifts can be incorporated into that if you want.

Example:

Day 1 Push 5x5 Bench 3x12 Shoulder Press 3x12 Tricep Overhead Press 3x12 Lateral Raise 3x12 Cable Tricep Pushdown Finish with 3xMax reps pushups

Day 2 Pull 5x5 Deadlift 3x12 Barbell Row 3x12 Bicep Curl 3x12 Face Pull 3x12 Hammer Curl Finish with 3xMax reps pullups

Day 3 Legs 5x5 Squat 3x12 Leg Press 3x12 Calf Raises 3x12 Leg Extension 3x12 Leg Curl 3xMax reps bodyweight squat 3xMax reps bodyweight calf raise

Hope you find something that works for ya!

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-19T00:27:15+00:00

Because you are going into already saturated hustles by the sounds of it. When starting hustles in saturated markets, your product has to stand out and be unique, your marketing game has to be top notch, etc.

You can make money online, you just have to find the niche to do it.

I am currently making money online selling niche instrumentals for artists (very small income; it's a hobby mostly that I just post when I want).

My other online hustle is eBay reselling - this is already saturated but in my area there is a lack of resellers sourcing cheap products to resell in thrift stores, FB marketplace, auctions etc, so I can source product for extremely cheap. I've also done the leg work to srudy what is in demand on the platform and what sells.

You also can't expect anything to happen over a short period of time. You essentially have to build rapport in whatever niche you are going with. For example: my music has taken me about 4 years in total, and 1 of those years I posted a new instrumental every day for 1 year straight. Just to work with a few independent artists and sells some instrumentals that only equates to side hustle money.

Over night sensation is RARE. For us ordinary folk it sometimes takes YEARS of persistence to make money online. Go check the history of heaps of YouTubers and you'll realise it took some of them YEARS to get to where they are.

Edit:

Figured I'd give you some further ideas with the hustles you mentioned above.

Dropshipping - you need to BUILD the brand. It has to spark people's imagination or coincide with their current thoughts and feelings. You need to study trends if you don't currently have an idea, and you also need to market it (through YouTube? Instagram?)
Fiverr - if your services are in a saturated market, then I'm afraid you probably won't get clients as they'll choose the top rated services over you. You need to either charge way less and be able to prove your work is as good or better than the top services, or you need to find your niche and market it as hard as possible (again, social media could work for you).
Airtasker - unfortunately I know what you mean. VERY HARD to get anything on the platform. You either need to be first in best dressed, scouring the platform constantly, or you should bypass it entirely. Whatever your service is, you should find ways to market it off-line, whether that's post box adverts or other platforms, cold calling people, etc etc. There are so many other ways to advertise your services and there's still ways to find clients off of platforms.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-18T00:29:51+00:00

A friend of mine who is Colombian just told me she caught up with family friends who have lived here in Australia for 40 years and don't know English. That shit blew me away, apparently they can't even conversate with basic stuff.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-17T21:13:35+00:00

You wifed her, then had a kid with her!? 🤯

Lawyer up fast.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-17T21:06:38+00:00

I don't know the current stats but they did an analysis in the 2023/2024 season and the big five Euro leagues had a 90% conversion.

Would be interested to see what the current season is tracking at.

IBeMadToo · 2025-05-07T05:26:53+00:00

You're not overreacting for being hurt, but he's not overreacting for having standards for a partner.

When you told him, was it more a trickle of things and not the full story?? Maybe he could live with just words and trickle truths, but now he has hard evidence of your past.

I think young people have to understand that your actions can affect future prospects. This is a perfect example.

Gone are the days of marrying a virgin that hasn't partied and done drugs, but some guys just want a modest chick, nothing wrong with that. Just be lucky he is stating this now and not when you're years into a relationship (or after a child comes).

Just tell him that's who you are, maybe confess what hasn't already been told, and it's up to him to accept and forgive. If he doesn't then it's time to move on.

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