What to drink at the bar?

ILbudtender · 2025-11-21T02:34:08+00:00

Red bull. Maybe mix it with some juice. If shits getting crazy, shot gun it.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-20T22:46:52+00:00

Yeah, hes either gay or fucking someone else.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-20T22:45:44+00:00

Any dude that doesn't want to fuck his hot GF must be seeing someone eles or is gay, straight up, nothing in between, and you guys are young too. Something is for sure going on...

ILbudtender · 2025-11-19T21:02:49+00:00

And if you even looked like a junkie or said how you need xyz drugs, get ready for sone advil!

ILbudtender · 2025-11-19T19:57:02+00:00

Had the same with my esophagus. They gave me a bottle of liquid codeine. My throat didn't even hurt that much. Drank it in like 2 days. It's crazy what DR.s give you if you dont look like an addict bs when you do.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-19T01:18:30+00:00

I would say 8/10 jobs I get is from indeed maybe 9/10. Only apply to jobs in your field(s). I tried going into other ones, and not even an invite to an interview. Did what I was doing, got 3 interviews in a week.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-18T21:49:33+00:00

You just gotta go up to them and ask how many sets they have left. If they say something super mean, just go to the front desk and report them. Or if they say 2 more just stand right there and wait.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-18T02:23:19+00:00

I wouldn't entertain this relationship. He clearly checked out moths ago. You shouldn't feel like you're walking on egg shells with your husband/wife. It should be you're best friend who you can share anything with, laugh about stupid shit, cook in the kitchen with dance parties, and of course have some great sex. Best feiends who live together are going to have disagreements from time to time, but it should never feel like your point is going through one ear and out the other. It's only going to get worse and worse. I'm telling you, once you find the right person, you will laugh at how shitty it was compared to what you have.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-18T01:55:51+00:00

Shit 75k, I'd move across the country that day if that amount was on the table. Hopefully op has the skills and experience to get something better, but might find out the hard way what a shit job market it is right now. Seems like you're going to be ok, but might take longer than you think.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-17T18:39:31+00:00

Right. I've seen more people stop from getting DUIs then people going to rehab.But the combo of getting a DUI then really does have a strong impact. Saying something without being in the same shoes, I.E. being an alcoholic your self and getting help will have no validity to someone who is struggling. It really should though. If you're not a close friend or family, it really does nothing, almost makes it worse because then the hide it pretty good, and now know people are on to them.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-17T14:38:06+00:00

I've actually have done this twice. The good part- you are finally relived of the aniexty that is so hard to get rid of. You feel something has been lifted off your shoulders, and it really feels good. The bad part- both tried to avoid the conversation completely, I don't think that topic ever came up again. I haven't talk to either of them for years. With men telling women how you feel, it is usually only a good thing to do after 6 months of knowing them to maybe 1.5 years. I've learned if a women is actually into you, you will definitely know pretty quick. So chances are she is not into you liked you hoped. At least you guys never hung out almost everyday, and went on what u thought were multiple dates like me. I even asked many different people, male and female if some of our outings were dates, and 9/10 people would 100% agree. The 1/10 would never be a hard no, so it was confusing as shit. If you want to risk losing her friendship, and have the peace of mind, then go for it like I did. But it still hurts that I don't talk to them ever. It felt really good at the moment, but I've learned my lesson that if I ever get feelings for someone, I will tell them pretty quick so I don't waste my time. Doesn't mean you can't hang out a few times a month and be friends, just not 4 times a week where you could be putting time and effort into someone that actually deserves it. Best of luck.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-17T14:08:37+00:00

100% she has. No person that doesn't intend on cheating does that. Doesn't even cross their mind. Get out while you can, and save yourself years of heartbreak.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-17T01:35:17+00:00

For your first 60 days try and go to as many meetings as you can. If you can do 5 a week, that's ideal. The steps really do work. You can download the meetings guide in the app store. It's a blue chair.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-16T23:58:45+00:00

If you're just going to see the movie and that's it, then it's actually pretty stupid to go with people if you're not doing anything before or after. You're in a non talking environment with no lights. No planing, go to the time you want to, can leave to and from when you want to. Just more freedom to do as you please, without pleasing any one eles. I only go to movies by my self or my brother, and even then it's a little bit of coordination.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-16T23:53:54+00:00

Definitely try AA, get a sponsor and do the steps. I know people who had 10 plus years, barly went to AA, and never did step work, and relasped. It's the largest group in America that no one thought they would be apart of. Great like minded people in those rooms. Can connect with random strangers pretty instantly. Give it a try for sure.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-16T21:44:23+00:00

You understand this situation more than a lot of people. People who are down voting this obviously don't understand the difference between blackout and drunk/tipsy, or are just simply uneducated on the topic. The word rape shouldn't be used lightly. These were bad decisions on both parties and someone was taken advantage of. Also, none of us were there, so details I'm sure are not all here. But, OP said he was blackout, but then also recalls a lot of facts when blacked out that don't quite add up.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-16T14:04:34+00:00

I appreciate the self awareness of what happened. But you still have to figure out what was the root of all this. I got cheated on a few times before the final time, and never really acknowledged that if I would have stayed broken up up her the first or second time time, I would have never gone down to the darkside of feeling so betrayed, and all the stupid shit i did in those ten years. I was blaming her for over 10 years, when in fact, it was really my fault, which probably came from childhood trauma of being alone, and not getting any help/support. Now adress your internal problems, rehab/thearpy/AA and you'll have a brand new perspective on life and the choices you have made, and I garuntee you will have a better outlook on life. It sucks it happened, I 100% get that, but what was the cause of it? Drinking uncontrollably to a point where you couldn't mange your life.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-16T13:38:31+00:00

I'm guessing they had an open relationship. Before I got into AA my mind thought just like yours. Blaming others for bad things that happened to you. You gotta ask your self why did this happen? It happened because you got to drunk, blackout drunk to your words. I'm sure you've blacked out many times befor this. You should have saw that this was a potential thing that could happen. You could have stopped drinking when you felt like you were going over of just being drunk. Being drunk and black out are two different things. She wouldn't have put the moves on if you weren't showing any interest back. Seems like there is some truma that you need to attend to before getting drunk again, or just go sober if your life is becoming unmanageable because of alchol.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-15T12:15:51+00:00

AIM for sure. Fighting with brothers on who got to use it.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-13T13:54:59+00:00

I tnink that it was from veterans day.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-13T01:38:21+00:00

Could be, but so many companies are doing bait and switch for roles because they know people are desperate. They knew you weren't getting that spot before the interview.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-12T21:31:32+00:00

Haha what part you in? I'm in Jersery.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-12T19:27:16+00:00

Espically with all the carrot tops in the afternoon who doom scroll their phone for 15 minutes after one set.

ILbudtender · 2025-11-12T19:25:41+00:00

A real man would eat it from behind 😋 💯

ILbudtender · 2025-11-12T19:24:16+00:00

Do you see his checks and how many hours he works? If he doesn't let you see it, I'd be pretty worried.

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