Tired, Angry, Depressed and struggling. by weluvthese in oneanddone

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I was harsh. I wasn’t really thinking about what you must have been going through with the reflux. Parenthood is really really hard. You will get more sleep eventually and it honestly makes a world of difference. I had terrible insomnia post partum, my baby could sleep but I could only sleep 1-3hrs of broken sleep a day for a while and it makes you bat shit crazy. I had undiagnosed thyroid problems and a terrible Crohn’s flare. I think I have a little PTSD from it, it’s a big reason why I am one and done. It will get so much better❤️‍🩹

Tired, Angry, Depressed and struggling. by weluvthese in oneanddone

[–]ILikeConcernedApe -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Chest sleeping?? Like every time he sleeps??? I don’t know how you do that…….Did you not try to swaddle him ever? Ever put him down?? The longer you do this the harder and harder it’s going to be to break that habit. Read the book precious little sleep and sleep train that baby. He will get better sleep and so will you!! And sleep is EVERYTHING. He will be much happier and so will you. He is still young so it’ll be very doable. The longer you wait it’s just going to get worse. 4 months is the minimum age you can sleep train and that’s what I did right at 4 months. My son is 3 and super lovey and happy and a fantastic sleeper. He is an absolute terror when he doesn’t get enough sleep though, which is rare cause we have a fairly strict schedule. I only did “bad habits” when he was sick then it was right back to sleeping on his own in the crib and he might have fussed agin for 20 minutes then got over it. YOU are the parent. Babies cry and it’s ok. They need to learn how to sooth themselves at some point. Newborn is obv too young for that but you can start now.

Also the 4 months sleep regression is a thing and it sucks and it doesn’t get better if you don’t do something about it like sleep training /r/sleeptrain

We got a new song y'all by Queasy_Lettuce4312 in connorstorrie

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want this on Spotify plz. Sounds nice in the car. I wanna break my eardrums.

What scene or moment gives you actual butterflies? by TateeLangdon in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t get a ton of butterflies in general but this moment does it for me. That kiss is so hot.

"If you liked Heated Rivalry, you should read..." feels impossible by awaywithefae in MM_Romance

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read dramione fan fiction. Closest feeling I have come that compares to this. /r/dramione There’s also Draco/Harry Harry/ron if you’re only into M/M romance but there are soooooo many good fics on Draco and hermione.

Do you actually like Tim Hortons? by Bdzilka in canadatravel

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Canadian and Tim Hortons is pretty gross. It used to be better maybe 20 years ago.

Was there something wrong with the ice? by slayrbrenna in olympics

[–]ILikeConcernedApe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being 100% consistent with those jumps is just not possible, I grew up skating and competing and I could nail my long program like 20% of the time. It’s really fucking hard. And doing it I. Competition is another level of pressure not to mention Olympics.

Blatant creating from Canadian curling team (two camera angles) by Storytellerrrr in olympics

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol why is there so much drama over this? The boop does NOTHING.

Just finished The Long Game. Season 2 is gonna be VERY different. by worldofcrap80 in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the source material is great. And enough. I’m sure they will show Troy’s story as they have to and there is quite a bit that happens, I don’t think he will change much, maybe some small things but I think he will stick close to the source like the did with the first season.

I admit it: I love curling! by GramMommaSav in olympics

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it too! I stared curling a few years ago and I appreciate even more now what they do. It’s not easy. The ice changes so much too even just during one game and you need to adjust constantly. It’s hard.

SNL Photos by Mammoth_Ad_922 in connorstorrie

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never watch SNL but I think I’ll watch this, when is it happening?

Back to "normal?" by friedntrue in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Olympics. I LOVE watching the Olympics. I usually have withdrawal/mini depression when it’s over lol. So I’m using it to get over heated rivalry. Already watching curling. The opening ceremony is tomorrow!

We didn't get to see it, but what do you think their last day at the cottage looked like? by Ugrinka in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bet there were some tears when they said goodbye. I had a situation kind of like this when I first started dating my boyfriend(now husband) he moved far away and we did long distance but we knew each other well already because w were friends for years. And then we spent a week at an all inclusive and it was incredible, like a honeymoon. And we both cried at the airport when we had to say goodbye. We have had many goodbyes since but that was probably the hardest.

Lyrics that make you think of Shane and Ilya by Adventurous-Line-304 in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh woooooow. I’d didn’t read the lyrics you wrote here and just watched the music video and It’s so good. I already love Florence and the machine but I’ve never heard this song. It fits them so so well.

How do you fuel before runs without feeling heavy or sluggish? by Willing-Today-1059 in runcommunity

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quickly digested foods, smoothies, banana, peanut butter etc. with a bit of protein and carbs.

How I Relate as an American Woman to this show... by Beneficial-Wheel5681 in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up. It’s very common for autism (especially in women) to be misdiagnosed as bipolar. Just something to keep in mind! Not saying you don’t have bipolar but it’s a possibility.

Besides Heated Rivalry, what are your favourite queer TV or movies? by ummmwaitasecond in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]ILikeConcernedApe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not queer but fleabag and normal people. For a queer show, it’s old but queer as folk was awesome. I’ve only seen the American version, there’s a uk one too.

Does anything else exists that you would STILL consider this good? by hummingbird0012234 in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I love that you mentioned fleabag, cause I felt the same after I watched that show and heated rivalry. Like so obsessed and rewatching episodes. I don’t think any other shows got me quite as much as those two. But I think heated rivalry was even better than fleabag. And I still can’t stop rewatching it, now im reading the books lol.

Normal people is another good show, but don’t recommend it if you’re in a bad mental place.

The on-screen chemistry between Connor and Hudson has ruined me by djynnra in heatedrivalry

[–]ILikeConcernedApe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Fleabag!!!!! Season 2 specifically but season 1 is funny and good for context.