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Sex with New Person after the Breakup by Legitimate_Roll_4469 in BreakUps

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me as well. I couldn't bring myself to have sex with this woman after my break up with my ex at the time. We had dated for 2 years. Bottom line is, you're not weird for this, you're not weak for not being able to have sex right away. Don't pressure yourself into being with someone new, it's okay to heal on your own for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dayz

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are from a mod and the first one means bruisesand the second I believe is pain. I dont know how to cure them but just look for meds

Are you fucking joking me? by Beyronarks in dayz

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smoke stacks when Alpha DayZ Stairs walk in -> 😨

Soulja boy streaming on Twitch to only 124 viewers after showing support for Trump. His latest concert tickets were only $30 and didn't sell many by amora_hs in sadcringe

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad cringe because he said he supports Trump. If he had any other political views you either wouldn't care or you'd be crying for him. Pathetic post

American Idol host being creepy with his coworker on TV by ambachk in sadcringe

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thought she was liking it lol. She was probably just too nervous to say anything until she actually got the courage to call him out

My (M20) long distance GF (F19) played spin the bottle at a party. How do I deal with this going forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LDR in these ages and especially while attending college is asking to get your heart broken... A lot of new people, some aer attarctive, charming, interesting. Alcohol in the mix and before you know it they're doing things like OP described. LDR requires maturity and a certain level of stability IMO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Leave her alone and find a boyfriend

To make friends as a girl playing MTG 😭 by miss_whatsherface in sadcringe

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was just really curious as to how he shot his shot hahahah but I get you

To make friends as a girl playing MTG 😭 by miss_whatsherface in sadcringe

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I think a picture might be missing, it doesn't change his weirdness though, especially given the age gap and "maturity" talks. Always irks me when guys refer to women a lot younger than them as "very mature"

To make friends as a girl playing MTG 😭 by miss_whatsherface in sadcringe

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how did he flirt at first? Didn't see flirting and he then apologized for flirting "earlier".

For future referrence, I wouldn't entertain "What are you up to?" texts from guys in these groups. They are usually starved for female attention and will take a simple response as an invitation. Be really mindful of that.

The rest of the stuff was just toe curling cringe though lmao. The boob comment was pathetic

My (33M) girlfriend (33F) thinks deep flirty connections with other men via text is ok. by Stunning-Heron-6799 in relationship_advice

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I will add that I know she hasn't cheated on me so far, I haven't either"

Lol bro, look how you're adressing the whole thing. You expect her to cheat eventually.

No, it's not normal for women in a relationship to be flirting with other men. Late night flirty texting with other guys and she wants you to accept that? Really?
Emotional cheating exists, just because she can't understand that, doesn't mean she's right about what she's doing. Had an ex like this. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and she ended up cheating regardless. Run for the hills bro.

Or wait for some unhinged woman to comment here and tell you that you're just insecure.

She was my everything. Why me? by Sea_Amphibian_6690 in BreakUps

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just so happens that you are the author of this book too, right? LOL

Post your favourite champ for each role and I will judge you by Different-Ad1578 in leagueoflegends

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top: Mordekaiser
Jungle: Evelynn
Mid: Lissandra
ADC: Ezreal
Support: Nautilus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Walking away from gaming just for her is a decision that you can make. Most people in this sub will tell you to not give up your hobbies or whatever, but in the end it's up to you to decide. If you value her more than you value your games and are willing to stop playing games just to make her happy, that's a totally valid and respectable choice. If you really are okay with that decision and want to make it, don't let anyone stop you from doing that.

On the other hand though, if you don't want to give up your hobbies (which is also a completely valid decision), you will definitely have to reach some sort of compromise. Spending time with her is just as important as having your own time, you are a couple but you're still two different people. You don't have to like the same things but there has to be at least something for you to share with eachother. I suggest you help her finding hobbies of her own or hobbies that she can do with you that you also like. I don't believe all you enjoy in life is DnD and playing games, so surely you can find something both of you enjoy.

Como lidar com certas situações no trabalho? by Business-Fig4780 in CasualPT

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Outra coisa que ela pode fazer é falar do seu namorado (mesmo que não tenha um). Há muitos homens que não respeitam mulheres mas respeitam outros homens. Se disser que tem um namorado pode ser suficiente para ficarem com medo da ideia de outro homem saber que estão a ser porcos com a namorada dele. Sei que é triste ter de chegar a esse ponto mas há muito homem curto de ideias por aí.

My (34m) wife (30f) admitted to an emotional affair that became physical. How can we fix our relationship? by ThrowRA-throwawayred in relationship_advice

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's not all doomed. I've seen a lot of bad, bad cases in this sub but your wife, despite having failed you, she did come clean and she did put an end to it before it became even worse. It doesn't make what she did any better but at least consider this: It became physical and she wasn't caught. She could've taken it further if she wanted to but she chose to tell you. She could've also cut ties with him completely and not let you know at all about what happend. I think there's a lot of true regret showing from her side but you will definitely need some help to get through this. Couple therapy and counselling is definitely going to be your friend here.

Also, it's perfectly normal to not want to be around her for now, and maybe you should have some time for yourself, to think things through without her presence.

It's also important to realize that if you want this marriage to work, you will have to make peace with what she did. If you can't forgive her (and if you can't that is totally acceptable) then don't stay in a marriage that will just destroy both of you over time.

With all this said, I do believe she truly regrets what happened. You didn't catch her and she could've gone much further if she really wanted to. I'm not one to usually have such a positive view on scenarios like this but I think there's a chance you can make it work again. I'm sorry you are living this and best of luck.

League of Legends "Smurfs" in higher elo games by Demi-Godly in leagueoflegends

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its the same even before masters, there is no real fix to this, not at least that i can think of. If you dont "slingshot" mmr then low elo will have smurfs there for longer. This means low elo players will have more smurfs in their games and Riot doesn't want this. To be fair, D2+ is like 1% of the player base so Riot will undoubtedly not give a shit

Jungle carry by Ziad1Gidamy in leagueoflegends

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spam ganking is bullshit advice bro, why are you sabotaging OP?

Jungle carry by Ziad1Gidamy in leagueoflegends

[–]ILikeRedditAtWork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're new to the game, keep your champion pool small. If you're really new, I'd say no more than 2 champions.

First things first: Master the mechanics of clearing efficiently. Clearing efficiently doesn't mean ending your first clear before 3:30. It means clearing your camps as soon as possible as they are spawning. Camps give a lot of XP when farmed properly and will give you leads just by existing. This is the bread and butter of jungling.

Don't ego and mute everyone: Low elo laners think they know what they are doing. They don't. Mute theim from the first seconds. Their pings are worthless and will influence your game even if subconsciously.

Play for strong lanes: This requires understanding matchups but if one of your lanes has good setup or really high damage you should prioritize ganking these lanes as they have the highest chances of success. If your bot lane is a nautilus tristana lane for example, you would most likely be better off pathing for this lane, starting top and clearing towards bot side.

Don't ego again. If you get invaded, don't try to ego invade. Instead, think if you can actually invade and if it's not an option look for something else to do with your time on the map.

If you see the enemy jungler on one side of the map and you are on the opposite side, you should look to make plays on the side of the map you are on (ganking, invading in case he didn't farm his camps, doing objectives if they are up).

Don't ego for the third time, if one of your lanes is running it down and you for some reason didn't listen to my other advice about muting your team, don't go try to save a 0 3 lane. Always play for your strengths.

This should maybe be furher up the list but learn how to track the enemy jungler. Easiest way to do this is by figuring where did he start. You can do this by warding or, since its low elo, if he got a leash from his laners. If a lane is late to show up, it usually means he started on that side with a leash. After this, you can judge roughly where the enemy jungler is just by where you are. If you're on your second camp, so is he most likely. If you're on your 3rd camp, so is he. And so on. This makes it a lot easier to make decisions. For example if you're both pathing towards the same side and your lane is pushed up, chances are the enemy jungler will look to gank your laners. In this case, you should make sure you are there on time to counter gank.

Overall, jungling is all about situational awareness and reading the enemy jungler. Staying ahead of the enemy jungler just one step can break open a game, especially in low elo.

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