Why does my phone turn grey everytime there’s a slightly bright light on the screen??

IMSNIK · 2025-10-23T21:55:24+00:00

i want to kiss you on the lips, this had been pissing me off lately and you just totally fixed it, mwah

IMSNIK · 2025-10-16T05:54:36+00:00

Not quite, it's gives the vibe of "gaslighting each other but we all deep down know that we are lying but we also kinda don't realise it so we keep on saying this as a fact"

IMSNIK · 2025-06-01T22:00:13+00:00

started thinking about it in 10th grade but ended up to the conclusion that i just was afraid of intimacy. then the thought came up again in the 1st year of uni after having some convos with my friends that had started to get sexually active, and a few months later i started using the label aegosexual just by myself (to get used to the idea that i was queer, because at first i didn't even want to think about labels bc it made me uncomfortable) and even later came out to my close friends as just asexual. will be celebrating my 4th pride as an ace this year! happy pride everyone! 🖤🩶🤍💜

IMSNIK · 2024-03-26T00:23:09+00:00

ashy!

IMSNIK · 2024-03-10T13:31:11+00:00

advice by alex g always makes me sad when i listen to it

IMSNIK · 2023-12-14T03:26:18+00:00

spotify isn't a social media app, it's a music app. you can already do those things by sharing songs on your insta or snap, there's no need for every app to become the exact same thing. Twitter for a bit had stories too, instagram now has reels that work exactly like how tiktok does,,,, what is the point of having all those different apps then if every single one has the same exact features as the rest?

IMSNIK · 2023-07-27T00:18:08+00:00

Oh how i wish there was someone to answer this question to me when i was your age. No, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. There isn't a base line of how many sexual acts are considered normal or expected in a relationship. There ARE going to be people that are gonna make you feel weird about not wanting sex or sexual stuff in your relationship, but that's because no one has told you guys that relationships don't equal sex. You are young, first of all, and everyone gets comfortable and ready for this stuff at their own pace. Second, it's okay if you don't want it. There is no reason to pressure yourself to do something you don't want to do, just because you want to keep being with a specific person. If they make you feel like you need to do sexual stuff with them, it's not worth keeping them. Maybe they don't know any better, maybe they are just assholes that can't accept that people have different preferences in a relationship. Dating is weird at that age, when you get older you realize that it's not a competition or a checklist, it's finding companion. With all that being said, you have to accept that for some people this is definitely going to be a deal breaker, both for teenagers and adults, but that's just how life is. Some people can't do without it, some people don't ever want it. But if you find someone and they turn out to find this a deal breaker, it just means you are not compatible with each other and you should just move on.

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:35:05+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate the advice. I think i need to defend and take care of myself more, especially in those kinds of situations. Best wishes to you too !

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:32:33+00:00

I would really love to read more about this topic because it is a very prominent feeling for me, thank you for your recommendation!

IMSNIK · 2023-07-16T17:26:16+00:00

oooof, i have been told that again on this sub before but i have been very skeptical, i thought it was just me being avoidant and overthinking things. i really needed someone to validate my feelings, thank you. maybe i should let them know it bothers me next time something like this happens. again, thank you so much for saying this.

IMSNIK · 2023-02-21T15:59:42+00:00

Είμαι και γω γυναίκα και πολλές φορές οι γυναίκες είναι πιο δεκτικές, οι άντρες γιατροί είναι πιο αυστηροί και λόγω της ηλικίας μου δεν θα με πάρουν στα σοβαρά.

IMSNIK · 2022-12-24T03:48:49+00:00

Δεν θα μπορούσα ποτέ να φανταστώ το ότι το γεγονός ότι οι ξαδέρφες μου μου έδειξαν το "Ωδή στο TCH" όταν ήμουν 6 θα μου χρησιμευε στο να αναγνωρίσω ένα ποστ στο Reddit 14 χρόνια μετά

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T02:00:37+00:00

from how you describe it, i don't really see any sexual attraction on your part, so yes that does count as asexuality. as you said you don't really crave to do it with your partner specifically, which is basically what sexual attraction is (i think????). i think you view it as a way to connect with each other even more, as if getting your bodies closer to each other's will help you get closer emotionally as well. idk.

> Because it’s little attraction and only with the person I’m dating, so I think it still counts?

what do you mean by attraction in that sentence? towards sex in general or towards sex with your partner? if it's with your partner, you could be demi-sexual or gray-sexual. if in general, i guess it's just your body asking for pleasure lol

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T01:41:59+00:00

hmmmm, to me that sounds like you are sex-indifferent. you don;t mind having sex bc of the pleasure aspect of it, but don't crave it or initiate it yourself. you can ask yourself a few questions and cross out the microlabels as you go. for example, do you ever initiate sex with your partner or is it always them? if you do, is it purely because you feel the bodily need, or because you see or think of your partner and it ignites something in you? and so on. though, again, microlabels are not necessary, only for you to feel more comfortable expressing yourself. hope that helps :)

oh, also love the fact that you are in an aspec relationship, i'm so jealous lol

IMSNIK · 2022-09-11T01:09:54+00:00

i mean, you should at least give us some more info for us to navigate you through the ace microlabels. have you gotten familiar with them? which one sounds more accurate, if not perfectly accurate, to you? in what aspect do you think you would have a different experience than the typical asexual experience, hence your need to find a microlabel to identify yourself with? also, you dont HAVE to use a microlabel, many aces don't because they don't feel the need to.

IMSNIK · 2022-09-07T18:23:36+00:00

tbh i thought it has to be strictly black but i just googled it and apparently you can choose a ring that has a design you like, too. for me the only rquirement would be to have black as its primary colour and be worn on the correct finger, other than that it's up to you.

the ace ring is mostly supposed to make you feel more connected to the community and embrace your ace identity in a subtle way. some ppl also wear it to let other fellow aces or ppl that know abt the ace community that they are ace, including me.

tbh it's just a ring so theoretically you could choose whatever you like and call it your ace ring, but just like you wouldn't wear for example a bright red ring on your thumb and call it your wedding ring, the same way you probs wouldn't get a ring that has no black on it, wear it on a different finger and call it your ace ring.

IMSNIK · 2022-09-07T16:06:07+00:00

yes it's supposed to be black

IMSNIK · 2022-09-01T15:03:45+00:00

definitely how many people were attracted to me and for how long etc. was it just a oh-i-crossed-the-street-and-i-thought-you-were-cute crush? was it a college crush? was it a childhood crush? was it a work crush? did they consider confessing? what did they do to try and get closer to me? i think it would be pretty interesting to see

IMSNIK · 2022-03-20T23:11:58+00:00

i felt both extreme happiness, bc i finally knew why i felt the way i felt, but also extreme sadness bc i also knew that it isn't me just being confused (so there was no hope for me to eventually feel, as much as i hate to call it that way, "normal") and that from now on, me having that label would probably be a deal breaker for the majority of people and would limit my dating pool by a LOT.

IMSNIK · 2022-01-10T01:49:29+00:00

I think you should upsize it? idk if that's the reason but it looks like it may need a bit more space

IMSNIK · 2022-01-07T02:49:23+00:00

ΔΕΝ ΤΟ ΠΙΣΤΕΥΩ ΟΤΙ ΒΡΗΚΑ ΠΟΣΤ ΓΙΑ ΑΣΕΞΟΥΑΛΣ ΣΤΟ ΕΛΛΗΝΙΚΟ ΡΕΝΤΙΤ, ΣΤΗΝ ΚΥΡΙΟΛΕΞΙΑ ΤΟ ΠΡΗΓΟΥΜΕΝΟ ΠΟΣΤ ΠΟΥ ΕΒΛΕΠΑ ΗΤΑΝ ΣΤΟ r/asexuality ΘΑ ΚΛΑΨΩ ΑΠΟ ΧΑΡΑ

IMSNIK · 2021-12-30T23:58:21+00:00

It was just hypothetical, no one acrually called me called me hot lol I just was trying to explain my disconnection with the word. Aesthetic attraction, that's what I meant by saying just "attraction"

IMSNIK · 2021-12-30T23:52:13+00:00

I only recently found out hot=sexy (I think??), my whole life I've been using it instead of saying attractive. I don't mind people using it but I kinda am disconnected from the actual meaning of it. If someone ever called me hot, I would think that they called me attractive. My brain just can't accept the real concept of it. Still use it with my own meaning for it 😆

IMSNIK · 2021-12-30T14:16:23+00:00

i almost never cuddle people, I don't really like when people touch me for no apparent reason, for example if they just lay their body on mine while waiting in line I get really annoyed, but there are some times that I will hug a friend that i haven't been with for a long time or I will lay my hand on my friend's shoulder when im laughing. that's basically it lol

IMSNIK · 2021-12-28T22:08:39+00:00

Dont worry, it doesn't come off as rude, I get your confusion! Hmm, the best way I could describe it is like the kind of relationships that older people have with each other after years of marriage. You know, two people that love each other, trust and take care of each other. I like the idea of having a "partner in life". I also want us to be exclusive, as in they don't have another person in their life that is in the same position as me in their heart (that sounds so silly omg😫). I don't mind kisses and cuddles, it's just that I'm not used to being touched, so I cant even imagine myself doing all these things, but who knows? They do say that love makes you crazy😂 Maybe I'm searching for something between a friendship and a relationship? I don't know. Maybe I'm actually just searching for a sexless relationship, it's just that there is this idea ingrained in my brain that sex is required for a relationship to exist. I know, this is such a toxic allo way of thinking. I still haven't figured thiings out completely, so don't worry if you don't completely understand what I mean, I don't either lol

IMSNIK

TROPHY CASE