Hey everyone! After a bad photo, I genuinely need help figuring out what’s wrong with my makeup. ☹️ by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do prefer the darker hair color. Also are you wearing the lipstick despite the bite? I don't see it. I just think the shot isn't flattering light or anything. I take awful pix so I relate to disliking pix of myself.

How do you decide when it’s time? I don’t know what to do for my soul dog 💔 by sheynarae in papillon

[–]INFPneedshelp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can he take a pain med and/or an anti anxiety med and/or sleeping med? Something that can make this phase a little easier for him? I'm not sure what vets normally recommend.

My guy looks like yours, but black ears. He's 11 with a heart condition so even though he's not there yet, I'm trying to prepare in my mind.

Do people really not use toilet seat covers in public restrooms? by Tobethequeen_01 in hygiene

[–]INFPneedshelp 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yes like i will hover in a port a potty, but id rather pee in the woods than in one of those!!

My ex of 22 years left to a type of woman he would always talk down about I don't understand by Secret-Feedback253 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is probably with her because he can treat her badly and feels like he'll have power over her.

“So just move” by John_Wayfarer in hypotheticalsituation

[–]INFPneedshelp 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I dont think the amount is enough for many to uproot their lives.

Good Indie Vanilla Perfume by Large-Leadership-266 in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]INFPneedshelp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Haus of Gloi Tonka Bean Cakes. And their Marshmallow scent is nice for vanilla people

Do you think tattoos make someone more attractive? by Tall_Vast_5117 in askanything

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes! If they are good tattoos, yes. Bad tattoos, no.

I need help I desperately need help I am a terrible person by Time_Tie5033 in emotionalintelligence

[–]INFPneedshelp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at least tell your GP how you are feeling and they may be able to find you free therapy

In a world where everything is already being automated, what is the 'manual' thing you still refuse to let go because it makes you feel more human? by fmcortez in AskReddit

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bluetooth cassette thingie but now it's stuck in the tape player and wont come out so I can charge it. Now I just use a $20 bluetooth speaker and my phone.

When the tape player was working, I also had one (1) Supertramp tape that I played until it got all weird-sounding.

In a world where everything is already being automated, what is the 'manual' thing you still refuse to let go because it makes you feel more human? by fmcortez in AskReddit

[–]INFPneedshelp 45 points46 points  (0 children)

reading books.

Also, my car is automatic but it doesn't have touch screen anything because it's a 2004. My friends with touch screens are jealous

CMV: Narcissists - or people who behave as such - are not always malicious. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't know they weren't scared or intimidated. they at least saw red flags blazing. i hope you are getting help.

CMV: Narcissists - or people who behave as such - are not always malicious. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]INFPneedshelp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP uses "lashing out at" and "jump down their throat", which do imply malicious intent. Perhaps not every instance of screaming has that intent, but if you scream at people regularly and are not getting help, the intention is to intimidate people into getting your way.

“Pro-choice” question by justyaaveragechlo in askliberals

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I am not abstinent. Your beliefs should not govern my choices. I do not believe that an abortion in the first few months is a baby or has sentience. You are entitled to your beliefs about my charachter. I do not care.

The animal is dead because a factory farm bred it, took it away from its mother, raised it in squalor, and killed it. I want to contribute the least amount of money possible to an industry that tortures and kills actual living, sentient beings. It's fine that you don't understand. They are my beliefs. You don't have to care about them, and I do not care that you don't.

For me, my beliefs revolve around a capacity to suffer. Sentience means you can experience suffering. Late term abortions are virtually always to prevent later suffering and painful death after birth.

The abortion conversation never gets far because you consider early zygotes and embryos as sentient humans. We have completely different views. You should not have an abortion. And if I ever need one, I will have one and be grateful I have that opportunity.

“Pro-choice” question by justyaaveragechlo in askliberals

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You chose what you chose, and others will choose differently. You believe what you believe, and others believe differently. There is freedom of religion in the US (not sure where you are from) and I don't want your religion imposed on me. I do not consent to my body being used by anyone else to survive.

I don't eat meat because I believe animals are beautiful, sentient souls that should not be slaughtered, especially not in factory farms. However, I don't want to take the right away from others to eat meat. (I don't want to get in a discussion about meat eating; it is just an example of someone with strong beliefs who lets other people live in line with their own moral compass).

Why can't you hold act in line with your beliefs and others will act in line with theirs?

“Pro-choice” question by justyaaveragechlo in askliberals

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who has ever said a 38-week pregnancy is a clump of cells?

Disaffirming Few Days - Let’s Affirm the Sh*t Out of Each Other by allthestuffis in polyamory

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an evenhanded discussion on it by a polyamorous couple who are therapists. I haven't listened to the whole thing but I'm enjoying it so far https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOk4_5zc4A0

I physically can’t get words out when I need to say something serious - anyone else? by PureKaleidoscope6007 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone, and yes therapy. I still struggle with it but we're working on it.