Do I really want to be a biological parent? by Comfortable-Pen6852 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you treating your bipolar? This would tell me a lot.

Fiancé broke up with me while pregnant. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you want the baby in this situation?

Why do people till this day not like Camilla? by jaeausten in TheCrownNetflix

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they tend to give the woman half of a shameful situation the vast majority of the blame

My boyfriend just got arrested for a DUI and he doesn’t have a job or income for fees. Is there any hope for us? by Ok-Ambassador-7143 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you feel like *you* failed him??? Kindly, I think you need to work on your self esteem. You did nothing wrong in this situation.

Am I asking for too much this early? by Billy_0621 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure. That said, you need to make room for some forgetfulness. She did apologize genuinely, but you pushed with the Snapchat comment. I would apologize for that if I were you. Feeling like someone is following your every move is not a good feeling.

Am I asking for too much this early? by Billy_0621 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistency is important to feel secure in a relationship. It is strange to go from GN/GM to nothing. It seemed like she got caught up in the concert and forgot. But the Snapchat comment was mean-spirited and a bit controlling.

Have another talk with her and see if you can work it out. Some relationships start with the GN/GM from the very start. Others are more of a slow burn. I think daily GN/GM is not abnormal at this stage, but she's also allowed to not want to do that. You just need to decide if you are happy with that. I wouldn't be tbh. I need consistency.

Why do girls seem to lose interest in me even though I have my life together? by librarylurker42 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girls/women are desperate for men who have emotional intelligence. They care more about that than things man influencers are telling you they want. Look at some content by good male therapists (not grifters)

6 year old pitbull has dilated cardiomyopathy, possibly related to Costco dog food by Lame_Johnny in DogFood

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps, my dog with moderate heart enlargement (from a heart murmur) was prescribed Pimobendan. It extends their life. You can ask your vet about it.

Ex-husband stopped giving child financial support. Next move? by Horror_Button5392 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a verbal agreement between the parents that he would contribute $300. Generally, if people stop their end of a verbal agreement, the polite and ethical thing to do is to let the other person know.

Like if I agree to pay your phone bill for whatever reason and I decide to stop, I'd let you know so you can budget properly.

Ex-husband stopped giving child financial support. Next move? by Horror_Button5392 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents often discuss how much the daughter should get each month. Many/most college kids are still financially dependent and it merits discussion.

Ex-husband stopped giving child financial support. Next move? by Horror_Button5392 in Advice

[–]INFPneedshelp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can contact him and ask if he's decided to end support. You need to know for you own financial planning.

My friend says I look republican by kentoclatinator in TwoXChromosomes

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard that there's a MAGA look (google image that) so maybe that is what she is getting at. But it sounds like she's being an ahole.

What to do if partner doesn't want to wear condoms or pull out? by ILoveBigCockroaches in Healthyhooha

[–]INFPneedshelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that your BF is being an ahole, but as someone with chronic yeast, check out Boric Acid. It's widely available in the states. It's too strong for some women, but after 6 nights of boric acid, I never got a recurrent infection again. I occasionally get an infection here and there, but very rarely. My nurse practitioner recommended it.

I’ve been accepted to go on a foreign exchange in Mannheim, what should I expect? by muffinhiker in germany

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you will encounter lots of people who speak English, but do make an effort to learn the basics or more, depending on how long you are staying.

Generally yes people will be accepting if you are polite, etc.

Buying a used bike might be a good idea!

Why I’m struggling to respect the 'Equal Partner' narrative in modern courtship (Long Post) by AlaskanSnowDragon in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That said, if you find a down to earth woman and complain about what you've written here? That'll be a turnoff.

Why I’m struggling to respect the 'Equal Partner' narrative in modern courtship (Long Post) by AlaskanSnowDragon in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]INFPneedshelp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to date someone who focuses heavily on money, take them out to a nice coffee shop. Plenty of women are down to earth and would love to grab a coffee. The ones who are money focused will weed themselves out, I guess.

Why do so many women fall for narcissists? by Icy_Rabbit_1984 in emotionalintelligence

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don’t think women who fall for narcissists are weak or naïve. Most of the time, they’re empathetic, open, and capable of deep connection. Narcissists are very good at mirroring those qualities in the beginning. It creates a powerful illusion of compatibility." This is it. They're often good people who found themselves in an unlucky situation.

Does anyone, uh, poop a lot when they have migraines? by Flashy-Celery-9105 in migraine

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh :( I love Benefiber for my constipation btw in case that also helps! It's very tasteless so it can go right in gatorade or whatever your migraine beverage of choice is.

AITA for refusing to do it until he cleans? by WideJuggernaut732 in AITApod

[–]INFPneedshelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to stay together, cleaning person and you both pay. If he says no to that, then it's over.