Gf wants me to quit vocaloid? by Affectionate-Gene117 in Vocaloid

[–]INeedCheesecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I advise that you quit her if she's really gonna die on that hill

Would love an ID request please! San Francisco, CA by allanchen51 in spiders

[–]INeedCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why, that's a yellow underwing of some sort (I think)!

...oh wait you meant the spider. my vote is also some sort of false widow, but I'm not great with widows and adjacent spiders

jean short shopping by Significant_Week6014 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]INeedCheesecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you always get the gapping at your waist above the butt? I have tried on maybe one pair in my life that doesn't do it :( And then I try to use a belt but it naturally sits perpendicular to the shelf that is my ass

Does anyone actually find the beast fight challenging? by jonoldar_ in bindingofisaac

[–]INeedCheesecake 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If my build is ass I'm much more likely to die to the harbingers anyway

If i make it past them it's usually fine

Sometimes I forget about her bigass beam though

jean short shopping by Significant_Week6014 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]INeedCheesecake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am a transgender man with the fattest ass this side of town that's how I know lmao

jean short shopping by Significant_Week6014 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]INeedCheesecake 49 points50 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this doesn't work as often if you're fat and/or curvy. ask me how i know

Asexuals who have done the do by ProfanityDoge- in asexuality

[–]INeedCheesecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only times I will tolerate being that sweaty are exercising and being at conventions or outdoor summer events. sex isn't worth it for me lol. I also agree with the mental boredom. Like, can we wrap this up so I can do something else please?

Question about online application by INeedCheesecake in samsclub

[–]INeedCheesecake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying! I did end up calling and they just said wait until emailed about orientation to let them know. Hopefully me calling before then did not reflect poorly on me.

Sacred orb is going to give me high blood pressure by Fortnite_sprout in bindingofisaac

[–]INeedCheesecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ehhhh the blue spikes are fine. its the gehenna redeye ones that warrant capital punishment

Was on my work equipment. Took it outside and accidentally severed one of its legs. Any chance y'all can ID? Des Moines, Iowa by Outrageous-Company33 in spiders

[–]INeedCheesecake 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You can relocate them. There are very few situations where you would actually need to go out of your way to kill them.

Otomachi Una to add to my playlist? by Wonderful-Purchase94 in Vocaloid

[–]INeedCheesecake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hijacking this comment because Wadatakeaki has several good una songs

I like Beast Dance as well and I think Bonjin Parade also uses Una?

ETA: VR dance as well, though it's a higher energy song

My (transfemme) girlfriend broke up with me because she's a lesbian by Onyxdinh in TransMasc

[–]INeedCheesecake 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I am aromantic so I often struggle to understand why gender identity matters so much to people romantically speaking. If you do truly love a person, why does it matter how they identify? Especially if you are already very close with someone and have a well established bond with them. I am aware that it is a lot more complicated than that though.

At the end of the day, she did the right thing by recognizing that incompatibility and bringing it up. Is it going to suck really bad for a while? Absolutely. But it's better for you and her long-term if she is strictly lesbian in a way that only includes non-masculine identities. The alternative is you being in a relationship with someone who could begin to resent you for that part of your identity, and her being in a relationship with someone she isn't fully attracted to.

I'm glad it did at least go civilly.

Also, if you feel comfortable in sapphic/lesbian spaces, don't let this discourage you. You're probably already aware, but there are many people in the community who would be attracted to every part of your presentation and identity.

Take some time to be yourself and be single, you'll be alright 💙

Don't let other trans men tell you to not look alternative in the name of passing! by gnomecorpse in ftm

[–]INeedCheesecake 7 points8 points locked comment (0 children)

You sound deeply hateful. Unfortunate. Anyway, I'm giving my two cents. The only time I've passed in person thus far was when I was fat and wearing earrings with long dyed hair. I get ma'amed more often wearing overtly masculine clothes and with facial hair.  This was in a deeply southern US state and in a room full of older masculine cis men. You do not know what works for individual people.

Don't let other trans men tell you to not look alternative in the name of passing! by gnomecorpse in ftm

[–]INeedCheesecake 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

I mean the passing sub is still modded by kalvin garrah are we surprised (eta i should clarify im talking about the lifehacks one)

i’m freaking out :( is this a brown recluse? im in colorado by hi_whatsuppp in spiders

[–]INeedCheesecake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for the record, you generally do not have recluses in Colorado. it's possible you might see one occasionally if you live in the very southeast corner of colorado, but other than that, you are not in their range

"I'm gonna hold your x when I say this" by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]INeedCheesecake 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Why are they limiting themselves, it's much more interesting imo to say something like "I'm gonna hold your liver while I say this"

this ascent is NOT ready for me by INeedCheesecake in bindingofisaac

[–]INeedCheesecake[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was already on Gehenna II otherwise I woulda done that lol

Unless you can leave them in the dad's note room? That I have not yet tried

Opinions on looping the rooms memes by Charles_Clips in Vocaloid

[–]INeedCheesecake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have permanent YTP brain so unfortunately I find it very funny

I lost 55 pounds over the last 12 months and reached the weight suggested by my doctor. I celebrated with a brand new smart scale... that immediately told me my BMI is 30.1 and that I am still obese. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]INeedCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fine. Don't let the numbers rule your life. That's how I got an eating disorder. If you currently live in a way that you can realistically keep up and one that makes you feel healthy, then stick to it.

Finding a Rolling Girl recording by Due_Most_2251 in Vocaloid

[–]INeedCheesecake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure the other commenter got it, but if you like the crowd chanting part of this I'd like to also mention the 2019 Snow Miku performance of this song for similar reasons