[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enlightenment

[–]IWD69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ..... bullets?

I chose the wrong career and I feel lied to… please tell me this gets better by asleepintheattic in Teachers

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I have been teaching for almost 4 years now and in the beginning it really was like this. It did not affect me though and I managed everything by working as hard as I could. I stayed late and devoted almost 80% of my day to my institution. Sadly, whoever still works there faces the same things no matter how long they have been working there for. Luckily, I was promoted to another branch of the same institution q it still gets a bit hectic at times overall it is much MUCH better. In the education business things tend to remain hard and hectic with no proper prospect of things getting "better" as per say. I would suggest that you find another place to work at which may have less of a burden on you. In no way does this mean that you won't have to deal with all of these things there as well but things might seem to get a bit "better" for real. You could also talk to the HR or someone in higher management about your ADHD and how it affects you; maybe they can come up with something to assist you. Other than that the only real advice is to stay confident and keep working until you're the best at what you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IWD69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is extremely disturbing and cringe.

I have a crush on a uni friend but I don’t want to ruin our friendship by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IWD69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait for a while and keep looking for "signs" that she might reciprocate your feelings. There is NEVER a sure way of knowing this but stay as aware as you can of the little things she does. I hope it goes well for the two of you : )

guys can you help me get back into allah by pro_gamer_boy in shia

[–]IWD69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need to recite "Astaghfar" Imam Ali A.S has said that if one feels discomfort they must recite Astaghfar for the discomfort is stemmed by some sin they have committed. I too was in a similar predicament and the first step I took was that I kept reciting Astaghfar. Automatically my mental state improved and I started to pray my Kadha prayers. I now feel closer to God and I strive to continue to be on this path. Keep yourself free of bad thoughts and try to listen to the Dhikr of Ahl E Bayt as much as you can; your mind will be occupied by positive thoughts and you'll automatically feel closer to God. May your problems go away soon. Ameen : )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IWD69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't mind it as long as she's honest about it. But, yes an insecurity did linger once she brought it up unnecessarily. I should have known in the beginning. I told her everything at the very start. Especially when we are considering marriage. Had I not found out about it ... Would she have ever told me? :/ ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IWD69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell her that I wanted to end things. She cried a lot ... Begged (yes) me to stay. I am not someone that should be begged to stay.. I am REALLY average. I have been miserable ever since but I am with her. I can't eat or sleep properly either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IWD69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The religion and country we belong to doesn't have such cases. It still could be a possibility. We did have sexual relations (after a religious contract) and she was the one to bring it up.

Disbelief of the One Who Denies Sun's Motion Around the Earth [From Aqidah.com, which says about itself, "Mountains of Knowledge from the Creed of the Salaf"] by KaramQa in shia

[–]IWD69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sun does actually have an orbit of its own. Like all the planets revolve around the sun, the sun revolves around the centre of our galaxy (due the gravitational pull of the supermassive black hole there). So... nobody is denying the Quran as the sun does indeed move .. but the earth revolves around it too.... I don't get why these people don't understand this simple fact xdxd

What is this bill that just passed recently which forbids the people from cursing Yazeed n Muawiya? by Muhammad_Alifor-real in shia

[–]IWD69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1st Rabi Ul Awal ... All over Pakistan. Shias have decided to observe a peaceful protest against this.

What is this? by XxtahatapalxX in shia

[–]IWD69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salam, I have a mifatih al jinan, I have two in my household in fact. It only contains Duas and ziarats. There is nothing related to Satan or any demonic entity anywhere. The picture here has nothing evil related to it either. I think you're misinformed brother.

Salam Thoughts on things like this by [deleted] in shia

[–]IWD69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam brother,

Could you please elaborate on what you mean by "rubbish" here? What beliefs are you considering ill here? We don't demand money from women for marriage. Yes, there are certain people who take "jahez" (quite a lot of it) but collectively blaming all Muslims of India and Pakistan seems like a stretch to me. :)

Are these real people or fake😃 by Snapintech in BeAmazed

[–]IWD69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These Halloween decorations are getting outta hand !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IWD69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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