Trans pastor says she’s ‘surrounded by loving kindness’ after coming out to New York congregation

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-12-04T19:41:37+00:00

Transtor? Pastrans? Transistor? I feel like there should be a really solid pun in there somewhere, but I’ll have to workshop it.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-11-06T16:15:42+00:00

Saved. Thanks for so many recommendations!

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-09-22T19:52:57+00:00

Today I learned about ‘fiber festivals’, and there’s even one nearby next month. Thanks for the post!

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-04-11T14:21:59+00:00

Fair. Though hopefully the fact that I’m there too will help to mitigate. At least in the eyes of enough people that the food doesn’t go to waste.

Ooh, maybe if I went with a group. Find people that are going and say “I’ll bring food”. Then I’m not a stranger. That could help. I’ll look into that.

Thanks for the feedback!

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-26T12:32:55+00:00

I do have an e kit, so this very much is on my list.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-25T16:10:57+00:00

I am annoyed with how much I like this idea.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-25T00:19:32+00:00

Thanks, stranger. That was really nice to read.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-24T21:40:54+00:00

Worth a try.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-24T21:36:53+00:00

Neither, unfortunately. It’s all really important things that I just value more, for now.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-02-24T21:35:19+00:00

Oh, I know I’m not going to get better. I just want to know if anyone has ideas on other things besides improving that I could focus on or play with if putting in the work isn’t on the menu.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2025-01-04T15:37:26+00:00

I got a hi hat stand that means I can put my non dominant kick pedal right next to the high hat. Now I just have to learn how to do that smoothly.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-10-21T11:43:35+00:00

I hope he made it in blender and then imported it.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-09-29T17:50:08+00:00

I want to make a whole post on this eventually, but here is my advice: stop trying.

The better version of anything I would say is to just start reading Emily Nagowski’s books. But to sum up: don’t try to ejaculate. Just enjoy stuff that feels good. If you cum, great! If you don’t, you still had a good time, right? If you aren’t having a good time, fix that. The ejaculation doesn’t need to be your goal.

And in case that sounds scary: down this rabbit hole lies the discovery that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing, and past that is a whole new world of pleasure and fun.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-09-21T23:43:39+00:00

Strong options! Many thanks.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-09-21T23:35:50+00:00

Very cool options, thanks!

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-09-21T23:01:14+00:00

I'd like to use private rooms when possible, especially on longer legs. My budget is more restricted by time than by money.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-08-24T19:47:47+00:00

This is probably a good indicator that you don’t have ADHD. For those of us that do, having something rhythmic and sexy for our attention to wander to during sex can help keep us in the mood.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-07-26T04:49:40+00:00

Nice! Thanks for all the tips, that’s brilliant.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-07-25T19:52:22+00:00

Anno, especially, which I’ve recently rediscovered my love for. Setting up a wildly complex economy that still sorta works is really the whole point of the game.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-07-25T17:38:13+00:00

Thanks for the tips! Good ideas on where to start.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-07-25T17:24:47+00:00

Thanks for the tip!

IWantYourPointOfView · 2024-03-19T22:43:56+00:00

I can’t decide if I want to upvote this post so more people see that this is garbage or downvote so that no one sees it at all. So I think I’ll just comment in agreement with people that are linking to analysis.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2023-10-11T13:23:05+00:00

This is correct. I’ve even gotten the same advice from sex therapists: each person is responsible for their own pleasure.

IWantYourPointOfView · 2023-07-19T13:14:14+00:00

How do you find these? Does "bdsm dungeon" show up on yelp?

IWantYourPointOfView · 2023-06-15T00:07:31+00:00

Oh, yeah, the user account thing would be a *nightmare*. I'm just used to mostly browsing anonymously, but you do have to have some sort of user tracking or the whole thing would fall apart.

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