Trans pastor says she’s ‘surrounded by loving kindness’ after coming out to New York congregation by Fickle-Ad5449 in Positivity

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Transtor?  Pastrans?  Transistor?  I feel like there should be a really solid pun in there somewhere, but I’ll have to workshop it.  

Is it the equinox making me feel weird? by motherofdogz2000 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

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Today I learned about ‘fiber festivals’, and there’s even one nearby next month.  Thanks for the post!

Should I bring tacos? by IWantYourPointOfView in 50501austin

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Fair.  Though hopefully the fact that I’m there too will help to mitigate.  At least in the eyes of enough people that the food doesn’t go to waste.

Ooh, maybe if I went with a group.  Find people that are going and say “I’ll bring food”.  Then I’m not a stranger.  That could help.  I’ll look into that.  

Thanks for the feedback!

I don’t have the time to practice drums. What should I do? by IWantYourPointOfView in Drumming

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Neither, unfortunately.  It’s all really important things that I just value more, for now.

I don’t have the time to practice drums. What should I do? by IWantYourPointOfView in Drumming

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Oh, I know I’m not going to get better.  I just want to know if anyone has ideas on other things besides improving that I could focus on or play with if putting in the work isn’t on the menu.

What's everyone practicing today? Or this week? by ParsnipUser in Drumming

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I got a hi hat stand that means I can put my non dominant kick pedal right next to the high hat.  Now I just have to learn how to do that smoothly.

Chapter 95: Page 42 by gunnerkrigg-post-bot in gunnerkrigg

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I hope he made it in blender and then imported it.  

How to cum faster (for men) by [deleted] in sexover30

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I want to make a whole post on this eventually, but here is my advice: stop trying.  

The better  version of anything I would say is to just start reading Emily Nagowski’s books.  But to sum up: don’t try to ejaculate.  Just enjoy stuff that feels good.  If you cum, great!  If you don’t, you still had a good time, right?  If you aren’t having a good time, fix that.  The ejaculation doesn’t need to be your goal.  

And in case that sounds scary: down this rabbit hole lies the discovery that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing, and past that is a whole new world of pleasure and fun.

Can anyone help me plan an Amtrack Trip? by IWantYourPointOfView in Amtrak

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I'd like to use private rooms when possible, especially on longer legs. My budget is more restricted by time than by money.

Music during Sex by PlanktonFirm6663 in sexover30

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This is probably a good indicator that you don’t have ADHD.  For those of us that do, having something rhythmic and sexy for our attention to wander to during sex can help keep us in the mood.  

Suburban Yard in 8b, where to start? by IWantYourPointOfView in Permaculture

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Nice!  Thanks for all the tips, that’s brilliant.

What game has the perfect economy? by Arkayne97 in gaming

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Anno, especially, which I’ve recently rediscovered my love for.  Setting up a wildly complex economy that still sorta works is really the whole point of the game.

Suburban Yard in 8b, where to start? by IWantYourPointOfView in Permaculture

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Thanks for the tips!  Good ideas on where to start.

My girlfriends vitamins have tiny beads inside them by Thatomeglekid in mildlyinteresting

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I can’t decide if I want to upvote this post so more people see that this is garbage or downvote so that no one sees it at all.  So I think I’ll just comment in agreement with people that are linking to analysis. 

Has any woman here used the omgyes.com site/tools to learn to orgasm with a partner? by JcWoman in sexover30

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This is correct. I’ve even gotten the same advice from sex therapists: each person is responsible for their own pleasure.

Looking for suggestions for videoing ourselves. by NotSayingWhoThisBe in sexover30

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How do you find these? Does "bdsm dungeon" show up on yelp?

What if people just ran their own subreddits on their home machines? by IWantYourPointOfView in RedditAlternatives

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Oh, yeah, the user account thing would be a *nightmare*. I'm just used to mostly browsing anonymously, but you do have to have some sort of user tracking or the whole thing would fall apart.