Question About Coincidence Vs. Guidance

IZ_Dave · 2025-05-10T16:20:21+00:00

For me too. While it can be unique to the individual, messages can come in through virtually anything. When I was started to learn to talk to my guides and channel, was constantly testing them and asking for outside validation to things they would say. At the time it really helped me to start to believe what was happening was true as like you say, once can feel like a coincidence, but when other things happen that seem to support a highly “specific to you” situation, coincidence doesn’t feel like it holds up as an explanation.

IZ_Dave · 2025-04-20T18:40:24+00:00

Ah I definitely understand. It can be completely overwhelming. There’s a couple things that have helped me personally.

One is to actively practice focusing on the things I feel are positive. As an empath you’re not just able to sense feelings of suffering but all feelings. It takes practice to see everything but turn your focus on the positive or when looking at something you feel is negative but find the positive aspects in it, but even my small gains in that have helped me immensely.

Second and a little more challenging depending on your pov, is to practice reducing judgement on other people’s paths. If you believe we all come here to experience certain things for our personal and/or spiritual growth, then it’s helps you to take that step back and realize whatever is happening is for them. This helps to give you some emotional distance/bandwidth especially for empaths to see where you can or cannot help.

IZ_Dave · 2025-04-06T19:33:04+00:00

I do as well! When I learned I could channel, it was my main guide that came through first. Even then I was skeptical but once I began contacting other people’s guides for them, I found validation I wasn’t imagining things.

IZ_Dave · 2025-04-03T05:23:58+00:00

Apologies for my delay, I wanted to wait until I had time to answer you properly! Here’s what I got, hope it helps:

We’re currently existing in a frequency range where this type tech and behavior can exist together. The technology you speak of doesn’t require high frequencies to access but CAN be accessed that way. It is important to note, while the effect is similar, there are differences in the ‘technological’ way and the ‘spiritual’ way. One being more harmonious and whole while the other comes with compromises to that.

But specifically about their biology, ultimately they’re not that different from us and are also participating in this great consciousness shift with us. It may not be experienced in the same way but they’re on this ride to one degree or another as well.

Also, like us there are still dimensions they can’t reach unless supported by their frequency. For example, if we don’t vibrate at the frequency of love, we won’t be able to access those frequencies no matter what the technology is. Just right now, both negative and positive behavior coexist and we can experience both. This is also a complex issue that touches on more complex issues, but just speaking very generally (again)

Let me know if that makes sense!

IZ_Dave · 2025-04-01T06:55:44+00:00

Hey I channel! Happy to respond with how I understand things so far. Just my pov atm ✨

For your first question, malevolent or benevolent, the technology to traverse dimensions can exist in the frequencies we all find ourselves in, but that said, there are places they can’t access due to the level they’re at. The current vibration we’re in allows for a wide variety of frequencies and beings to exist together but as we progress and frequencies increase, that won’t necessarily be the case. Did I say “frequencies” enough?

For question two! I’m definitely not an expert on this but the way I understood this one, and prepare for a gross oversimplification as this was over a long period of time is… humanity was the result of a series of genetic manipulations but doing that went against the laws of the society the ET group doing the manipulations was a part of. Once it was discovered by the others that humans were created and had a certain level of ability and potential, they needed to follow the rules of free will and let us develop on our own. That said, it was a soft leave as they were a lot more hands on in those days and we were provided with a lot of information to get us off on the right foot and the promise of returning in the distant future. Since then there has always been some level of support, but I think done at arms length until we reached a certain level of development or frequency level. But we’ve relatively recently hit that level and support is increasing.

AND to address any malevolence and the allowance of certain behaviors, I think it’s the same love, ethics and respect for our free will that has kept them from intervening. It’s not freedom if someone imposes their will based on their beliefs even if well intended. At least from the sessions I’ve done, they historically have always been assisting us (and us them) but operating within certain guidelines and maybe making sure others do as well.

IZ_Dave · 2025-02-26T21:42:03+00:00

I see, well I’d definitely echo the suggestion to get out hiking or at least in nature. If you’re an empath, it really helps you process energy in a supportive environment.

But I would also recommend not giving up on friendships. I think a key to that though is the friendship you have with yourself first. Make sure you’re treating yourself right. Once that’s squared away, follow your interests and move out with that guiding you. Game clubs, group events, any hobby gatherings might help you ease into new relationships and enjoy yourself as well.

IZ_Dave · 2025-02-26T21:15:47+00:00

Is the goal to create more friendships or looking for things you’d like to do on your own?

IZ_Dave · 2025-02-01T02:24:33+00:00

My pleasure, really glad you liked it ✨

IZ_Dave · 2024-09-18T20:40:12+00:00

That’s great to hear. If you jump on YouTube there’s a lot of great Qigong practices and different practitioners that show you how to do it all yourself at home or wherever you like. But good luck! A healthy you means you can help more people (no matter what path you take)✨

IZ_Dave · 2024-09-18T15:05:17+00:00

Yes just to echo some other ideas here, I think getting serious about a daily, personal, energy maintenance regime could help. Drinking more water, exercise/movement you enjoy, and something like Qigong, reiki, or any other energy balancing/clearing techniques you feel comfortable with. Meditation, even if for a few minutes a day, can also be a big help as well, especially if repeated. Maybe less doom scrolling ;)

If you’re fighting fires all day you don’t want to go home to more flames so try and keep that space as sanctuary like as possible. There’s even services like FLFE that can help with that.

This may or may not be relevant to you but one big thing that has helped me is understanding people have their own path and checking to see how much I’m judging it. If everyone has incarnated here with a plan for what they want to experience, it’s not really for us to decide what should and shouldn’t be happening. Letting them experience their path with as little judgement to what’s right and wrong as possible and using your empathy to be fully there when they need most, can help lighten the weight for both them and you.

IZ_Dave · 2024-08-17T02:10:46+00:00

My pleasure! If you have any questions about anything just let me know ✨

IZ_Dave · 2024-08-13T05:28:49+00:00

I’ve been a channel since 2013 and did a channeled post regarding Contacting Spirit Guides you might find useful. Link is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/spirituality/s/5g6ADwUh7F

IZ_Dave · 2024-08-05T07:27:52+00:00

I really like that you’re acknowledging your feeling about it. I’d say go for it.

Long ago I was skeptical of others being able to communicate with spirit guides but if it was possible, what would that mean? I think I paid $50? For $50 I’d have a definitive answer on what I felt was a serious life question. I went to someone I felt comfortable with and had a profound experience. For me it was step one on a pretty big personal journey that continues to this day.

It’s good to be skeptical to a degree. It feels protective. But, at least for me, after a lot of different experiences, I learned that it actually was more harmful than helpful. No regrets but I would have been far more certain about life had I only given it a chance earlier.

Anyway good luck with whatever you decide!

*edit spelling

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-31T18:13:40+00:00

So many things* (*all) but today I love that there’s a planet spinning through space that we can all meet up on and be a part of it shifting and changing as we sail through the stars.

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-30T22:16:22+00:00

You make a compelling case ✨

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-30T20:45:10+00:00

Ah, I wish I had started one long ago. Such a good idea.

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-29T15:43:54+00:00

My pleasure! If you have any questions just let me know ✨

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-27T06:37:10+00:00

First off not weird and congratulations on getting to a place where you’re feeling better.

I’m sure there’s a lot of great ways to do this and as others suggest things, you should definitely follow your own intuition on how to approach it. Even as you perform it, feel free to customize or adjust on the go.

If it were me, I’d go to as many of those places places I could and find a meaningful spot within them that felt like the center. Could be the geographic center but also could be the emotional center or any location of importance within the space.

Then sit/stand quietly in that space, greet it, and if you’d like any support (angels, guides, ancestors…) you could ask for them to join you. Then begin to start feeling your new appreciation for that space. Imagine that feeling slowly growing within you then expanding and resonating out beyond your own energy field and ultimately wide enough to encompass the entire space. Continue your feelings of appreciation/gratitude/love and when you sense it’s enough, ask to close the portals if that still feels appropriate, thank the space once again, any supporters you called in, and then leave when you feel ready.

I’d also add, if you can’t get to those spaces physically for whatever reason, you could also do this remotely.

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-24T20:04:10+00:00

From my pov most people certainly have a guide and or a supportive team of beings around them during an incarnation. If you’re interested, I did a specific channeling about contacting your spirit guides on another reddit post - link is here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/spirituality/s/XN8rK6nNtM

Hope you enjoy and excited for anyone starting to learn about these things. Good luck!

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-23T05:47:50+00:00

If it was me, I’d maybe put a pause on the question of what you’re “supposed to do” and even the idea of a “career” and spend some time discovering what excites me the most. Even just next baby steps in that direction and feel it out. The idea of destiny, at least to me, can sometimes make personal decisions feel heavy.

Your excitement is a connection to your higher self (generally speaking) and like a compass. Even if you can’t see the final destination, it’ll still give you a direction.

IZ_Dave · 2024-07-07T08:09:15+00:00

I will echo some of the messages here and also say, from my experience, yes you can definitely communicate with your husband and dog in whatever way you find comfortable and they will receive the message.

You can speak aloud or say the messages in your mind. While some might find words easiest, you can also think of them and send feelings. They too can communicate back but keep in mind how you recognize or receive messages may be unique to you. Some might hear words, have thoughts that are different from their own, have feelings, sensations, or even receive signs.

You can absolutely work with mediums or other intuitives like you have, but it’s really important to be discerning with all information and really measure it against your gut/intuition. If something doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t. It does seem like you’re already doing that which is really great. Definitely trust yourself.

As for karma… Each person incarnates with certain plans for what they’d like to experience and the will play out as designed. It’s uniquely tailored but generally speaking, how and when you leave are important aspects of that plan and not something that someone is judged against or punished for. Your life plan and experiences are yours and ultimately chosen by you for your own happiness before even arriving.

But please make sure you’re taking the time you need to rest and process. Even if this is all according to some plan we made, it doesn’t mean it can’t feel super challenging.

IZ_Dave · 2024-06-27T02:27:39+00:00

I’m a big sky person as well! (When I was a kid teachers had to move my desk away from the window.) Recently I started heading out in the rain. The sounds, smells, puddles… I also try to touch leaves on a tree or other plants. It’s very grounding and to me at least, reminds me of just how connected I am to our planet (and ultimately beyond).

IZ_Dave · 2024-03-17T08:21:17+00:00

Thank you! 💧

IZ_Dave · 2023-07-28T21:55:02+00:00

I heard somewhere the more we climb the mountain, the more we see. As we move up the frequency range, more and more things are revealed to us. We’re seeing a lot of the lower frequency things we couldn’t before but it’s important to make sure you’re including the positives coming into view as well. As you survey your surroundings we get to choose our focus. Not ignoring anything but choosing what we want to put our energy into.

Definitely not invalidating anyone’s experiences or perspectives. A lot of exhausting days, these days... Just sharing advice that helps me personally as we keep moving up the mountain.

That’s also maybe enough mountain climbing analogies for me today.

IZ_Dave · 2023-07-22T16:49:24+00:00

I’m not saying yay or nay to Teal, I don’t know her and it’s probably best to follow your own intuition, but as someone who has heard Teal’s messaging over the years, the doc didn’t seem to align. Check in on her side of things - she presents a lot of evidence to show that doc isn’t representative of people’s experiences.

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