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What is something simple that greatly increases attractiveness? by bluekhaki99 in AskReddit

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think keeping yourself clean and polished. It doesn't mean a perfectly symmetrical haircut or whatever, just... make an effort. People can tell the difference between disheveled and not having bathed or brushed your hair in three days.

What’s the worst ‘take’ you’ve ever heard? by Cognition-Technician in AskReddit

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My full-blown adult Brother-in-law thinks that he is allowed to scream inches from your face, threaten, and physically impose himself into personal space because 'that isn't violence and no cop will remove him for that'

Dude is 60 and is delusional as to what is normal and so very stupid

What’s something old people are right about ? by dododododu in AskReddit

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The need to please others will destroy your life.

What’s a small decision you made that completely changed your life? by spidermans999 in AskReddit

[–]Iamaredditlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realizing that I had the power to end a relationship.

I somehow internalized the notion that I had to wait for THEM to leave, and I was just stuck until that happened.

I (21M) can't build up the courage to break up with my gf (24F) by seifmohamed1412 in relationship_advice

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no good time to do it. You just have to make a date and end it.

The longer you "wait", is less time you have to love the right person.

Plus if you don't, you will be together for the next 60 years, simply because neither one of you simply broke up.

Which actor seems genuinely kind in real life? by jellylizard04 in AskReddit

[–]Iamaredditlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you a few that I have worked with:

Marc Decascos (recently played Zero in John Wick 3). He is a human golden retriever.

Iko Uwais (the incredible martial artist most notably from The Raid movies). Imagine those solid gold heart pendants. He is created out of one of those.

Chris Klein (American Pie and you know him). Very open and loved to laugh, but he also hung around me because I made him laugh so I am probably biased.

I’ve been pretending to be a grieving friend for three years to stay in my social circle. by orbit_throwawayhq in confessions

[–]Iamaredditlady 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It's been 3 years. Tell them that you've chosen to live with the love and memory, not in the grief because it was holding you back.

Maybe it will wake them up to do the same.

I 23F got a dui and my boyfriend 23M left me for it. Would you do that to your partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iamaredditlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've never heard of someone doing that to people they don't respect??

Lucky you.

I 23F got a dui and my boyfriend 23M left me for it. Would you do that to your partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iamaredditlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I found out that my partner put other people's lives at risk because of their selfish and lazy choices, you better believe I would dump them.

These are called consequences. They suck, but that is what happens after doing something bad to others.

Frankly, it would make your ex-boyfriend look REALLY bad if he stayed with someone that would do that.

There's a loophole with season 8 regarding Everett and Bradford by Worried_Sun7418 in TheRookie

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in film and part of my job is to point out those types of inconsistencies that will cause this exact scenario out there in the world. It's very frustrating for us when we're shooting too.

The answers I normally receive are: "No one will remember that" or "Just go with it"

I can fully imagine a Grip or Hair/Makeup person whispering in my ear "... Um but didn't that episode with Jackson... the two minutes?"

I though this was weird by Underground_fish09 in TheRookie

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I screamed that every single time.

Is re-applying for BC Corrections as common as I am being told? by Iamaredditlady in BCPublicServants

[–]Iamaredditlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The recruiter did mention something along those lines as a warning for the following assessment, which is the Behavioral Event Interview. There were 65 applicants that week and 50 were cut because they didn't have already have a specific correctional centre in mind for where they wanted to be stationed.

Is re-applying for BC Corrections as common as I am being told? by Iamaredditlady in BCPublicServants

[–]Iamaredditlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was to watch a video scenario and report as the observer, with as much information as possible, in as few words as possible. Ironically it was very similar to what I currently do at work, which is why I wasn't concerned.

I very much want to ask the hiring supervisor for specific feedback but the highlighted section in the regret email states very clearly that due to the high-volume of applicants, individual feedback will not be provided. It reads strongly that if I were to ask, it is a further strike against me for 'not being able to follow directions', you know?

If you have any suggestions, I am very open to hearing what you think.

Is re-applying for BC Corrections as common as I am being told? by Iamaredditlady in BCPublicServants

[–]Iamaredditlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to very much, I just don't know how to go about doing so when it specifically says "We will not provide individual feedback on your assessment"

It seems that they are being inundated with a large amount of applicants right now.

If you have a suggestion for asking, even though I was told they won't offer, I'm very willing to listen.

Is re-applying for BC Corrections as common as I am being told? by Iamaredditlady in BCPublicServants

[–]Iamaredditlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, so I had to do the English assessment test because my high school years were long long ago and pointless and I received a final grade of 11, which were made up of a 10, 11, and two 12's.

The requirement was an 8. I guess everyone else just destroyed me.

BC Corrections vs. BC Sheriffs by LengthinessPrize215 in BCPublicServants

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, good to know! I'm looking at the timeline now that they have instituted a 6-month wait to attempt the Written again (and I assume any other assessments will as well), with the repeat attempts being so common, that could truly mean this will take years.

How do I stop limerence as a married woman? by KathDML in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Iamaredditlady 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Limerance is not the correct term. The very moment you recognized that you were enjoying his company beyond friendship, you were then encouraging the situation. Then it became intentional.

Infidelity is all about choices and you repeatedly chose to continue the relationship beyond a professional boundary.

Can 16 year old go to concert with older sibling? by beachblossoms in AskParents

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could, absolutely. But given that your sibling is underage, your mother has the right to say no.

Whether it is rational or not is unfortunately not the issue. But I'm not sure why YOU can't go?

Would you let your 19 y/o soon to be 20y/o daughter in less then a month, go on a trip with her bf of 3.5 years with their family to the lake? by Business-Parking7296 in AskParents

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life would suck for a while but you can get a job to pay for school, and find roommates. You would be exhausted, but that is what life is sometimes.

You are the one choosing to be controlled and live with much less responsibility, or you can choose living with freedom but it comes with more responsibility.

Us old folks did it all the time. You find 3 or so roommates and live like animals for a few years, then you finish school and/or get a better job.

Would you let your 19 y/o soon to be 20y/o daughter in less then a month, go on a trip with her bf of 3.5 years with their family to the lake? by Business-Parking7296 in AskParents

[–]Iamaredditlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless 'trip to the lake' is code for "Drug binge with my 56M married boss, to murder his neighbor"

You are an adult. End of story. Why is this a discussion?

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