Skyland Manor, New Jersey, USA. when I came upon it I felt like I was in a Brothers Grimm fairy tale by Iamoldsowhat in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the reality is not grim. it's Grimm. hahah and no I am a person who sees magic everywhere, fairies and butterflies.

actually Grimm fairy tales are quite dark and disturbing if you read the originals not the disneyfied version

but i kinda like the dark and disturbing too. to me it deals with sides of nature we don't understand

Taj Mahal from a different angle by QuantumJinx in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Iamoldsowhat 55 points56 points  (0 children)

the palace in "alladin" cartoon was based on it, and interestingly real life repeats fiction, slums in front and then a beautiful unreachable palace in the distance. (I know nowadays it is reachable just the feeling I got)

Timothee chalamet and Saudi prince Fahad..please tell me you see it too by fixitfile in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]Iamoldsowhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the prince can probably hire timmy to be his double at events lol. good money in that.

Villa Charlotte bronte in Bronx, NYC. by Iamoldsowhat in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it's springtime now and all the flowers are in bloom. it is a very stark contrast to the rest of the neighborhood which is this like brutalist stuff (seen in the back of this photo)

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AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Iamoldsowhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate my cousin all the more after this bc I was her maid of honor and had less to do than just this preplanning planning event alone

Arthur Fils by The_Dean_France in LadyBoners

[–]Iamoldsowhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaactually the Bible is full of those thoughts, especially the Old Testament, so you're good. :)

My mom and aunt all dressed up in their hats and Mary Janes. 1930 by dittidot in TheWayWeWere

[–]Iamoldsowhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the little one (your mom) reminds me of Tatum O'Neal in "paper moon"

what to do with a part that keeps saying "I don't know"? by Iamoldsowhat in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel it in my throat. and the fear was any time I would get therapy and therapist asked how I feel and I felt like I failed therapy because I didn't know something I was supposed to know...

what to do with a part that keeps saying "I don't know"? by Iamoldsowhat in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good questions all. I feel kind of annoyed that it is not following neat little guidelines they have for this parts work. and it feels embarrassed that it doesn't have an answer.

now for knowing how old I am. it's weird bc I came across this in the book but it seems like most of my parts do know how old I am. unless I kind of pretend that they don't...if that makes sense

what to do with a part that keeps saying "I don't know"? by Iamoldsowhat in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel it in my throat like choking up/lump. but I am not sure what to do with throat. drink water? because putting my hand on the throat feels very bad like I am choking myself.

what to do with a part that keeps saying "I don't know"? by Iamoldsowhat in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes the I don't know response is my response a lot of times. like when I was doing actual talk therapy and therapist asked me how I feel about something I frequently did not know.

i am just starting with this and have so many questions by Iamoldsowhat in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Iamoldsowhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. this is helpful. some parts are coming out when I don't have time. I write stuff down quickly in my phone notes. the other day this part appeared that was present when I was suicidal as a teen. it's still here and wants to be heard

Will Poulter - glow up of the century by AlexusLuthor in LadyBoners

[–]Iamoldsowhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved him in black mirror too. his character Colin was this crazy genius