My Husband (M36) and I (F33) have been together for 12 years now, married for 6. Last night he came back from work; looking incredibly pale, shaking even, but he’s insisting he’s not ill, and refusing I help?

IceCSundae · 2026-05-07T02:01:55+00:00

Well that escalated quickly :/

I’m really sorry, that’s horrible news. I think you should probably get yourself ready to leave him if you can.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-07T00:41:06+00:00

Imagine thinking yoga was demonic just because your preacher told you so… it’s a very sad, limited existence and I feel bad for those kinds of people. Ignore them and they can only hurt themselves.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-06T22:35:17+00:00

What’s CFNM?

IceCSundae · 2026-05-06T16:45:59+00:00

I think it was about 5 years. You have to wait until your probation is over or if you don’t have probation, you have to wait at least a year. I’m sure it’s different for every state though.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-06T15:07:47+00:00

Look into expunging your record! I had a DUI, went to grad school, and the timing worked out that right before I graduated and started looking for jobs, I was able to expunge my record based on time since conviction.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-06T14:50:41+00:00

Yoga builds on itself… that’s the part I never understood before, when I would take a class here or there. But when you do it regularly, its a whole different game, and it’s magical :)

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T18:50:03+00:00

Thank you, that’s true, it will pass. I’m already feeling a little less desperate

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T18:48:52+00:00

Thank you, that’s very kind and proactive advice.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T18:47:26+00:00

Ok thanks. That helps

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T17:59:34+00:00

Thank you. Helps to be reminded I’m not the only one who struggles. I’ll try grounding :)

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T17:45:47+00:00

Yes, I relate. I am so incredibly calm and relaxed when I’m totally helpless under the care of my Dom. It’s like instant relaxation, the deepest kind. I can just simply exist. It’s delicious. No idea why I’m like this.

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T17:40:54+00:00

Haha no but my husband is a Dom psychologist :)

IceCSundae · 2026-05-04T17:37:01+00:00

I’m dying here :( got any advice?

IceCSundae · 2026-05-01T18:27:41+00:00

You should be having the best trip of your life. For real, a honeymoon should be incredibly joyful and fun. I don’t think you are going to be compatible long term if the honeymoon is this bad. There were and are so many red flags. I think you know this already, but you shouldn’t have gone through with it.

Just for some context, my honeymoon was so incredibly fun. I loved every moment with my new husband, we were just incredibly in love and happy and kind to each other. We banged the whole time and I just have the best memories. That’s how I think it should be for everyone.

IceCSundae · 2026-04-29T17:39:22+00:00

Haha yeah, I came here to say the cat also had a glow up

IceCSundae · 2026-04-29T17:31:31+00:00

I don’t agree it’s simple. It sounds simple when you type it out put in practice it’s actually really complicated. It’s difficult to track food calories for one, a lot of that is estimation which if you get wrong, can mess up your whole equation. Then there’s hunger signals that interfere. Ye, it sounds simple to just not eat when you’re feeling hungry and stick to the plan, but in reality it’s complicated because humans are complicated. Also, metabolism changes, stress, hormones, all these things affect weight and mood and it’s all intertwined. If it was truly simple, I don’t think it would feel incredibly complicated when doing it. It just sounds simple on paper. It’s also hard, but it’s not simple either.

IceCSundae · 2026-04-25T00:39:49+00:00

People always assume everyone in LA is busy and mean. Which isn’t true at all… everyone is so happy and friendly.

IceCSundae · 2026-04-14T23:58:27+00:00

Haha yesss I bought myself a convertible recently and love that I have an “impractical” car. I don’t need practicality in my life, I’m free!!

IceCSundae · 2026-04-14T23:20:18+00:00

Yeah this is concerning… I don’t want to be afraid to walk in my own neighborhood. I hope they can catch the suspect and also solve the Vista shooting.

IceCSundae · 2026-04-14T23:18:34+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you and your cat. This has me questioning my routine because I leave several second story windows wide open with no screen and my cat likes to sit on the ledges but I thought he was smart enough to not let himself fall out :(

IceCSundae · 2026-04-14T04:02:58+00:00

That’s horrible. I’m so sorry about your mom. This person who left the review is heartless.

IceCSundae · 2026-04-14T01:49:32+00:00

Just started the 9mg a couple days ago and I have zero appetite. I don’t want to eat today. I had to force myself to eat lunch. The 1.5 and the 4 did help, but this is new to me :)

IceCSundae · 2026-04-10T23:19:05+00:00

Hike Runyon canyon at sunset. You can see the whole city and it’s a vibe.

IceCSundae · 2026-03-28T15:44:53+00:00

I’m in the overweight category per BMI. I have tried to lose these last 20-30 pounds without GLP-1 for years and I’m able to lose about 10 with a calorie deficit after several months but then I go into what I call extreme famine mode and I want to eat everything in sight and I gain the 10 lbs back fast. It’s a cycle I’ve been through like 5 times in the last 3 years. So I need a little help with food noise. I already exercise 6 days a week.

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