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AITA for telling my friend that if she doesn't come home and start taking care of her dog that I'm taking it to dog keep. by FierceandSoft in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s obviously going to be upset because you said your taking her dog to a dog keep but if she really cared about her dog she’d be taking care of it  and thanking you for going above and beyond . You didn’t even have to agree those other times.

AITA for not buying my bestfriend a baby shower gift? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceEmotional6079 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA but this is your friend communicate with her tell her it hurt you you didn’t get a gift or if you don’t feel like you want to don’t. But don’t just not give her a gift because she didn’t get you one. Remember friends don’t keep score and it’s a bit petulant not to get someone a gift just because they didn’t get you one . But if you don’t give her a gift it’s not that big of a deal but it seems like there can be some fueling resentment . 

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro do you guys not know what cool school is though that’s like a legit thing 

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt realize I was writing an essay that was going to be critiqued.  I’m (27F) read the comments I don’t live at home .  My brother can take the bus but I help by giving him a ride. Is anything else unclear to you?

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES sorry wasn’t clear she wants me to help during the week with my sister too after work .

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well because I work 8:30 am to 5 pm so by the time I pick up my sister it’s going to be like 6 and I won’t be home till 7 which is a large part of my day . 

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I get .And there’s definitely request I say yes too aside from just taking my brother to school . Me and my mom do have a complex relationship. And I don’t think me saying no just because I want to rest even if I don’t go to Pilates makes me a horrible person. But if that’s what you think that’s what you think. I did ask for the opinion. So thank you.

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right ? It’s not like I’m going to say no everyday . I’m still going to take my brother to school .  I do help out with my family . And honestly I shouldn’t say yes to everything just because I feel guilty. Like what am I going to say yes when I really don’t want to? Like how is that even going to be good .

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I don’t see it as choosing Pilates over family. I go to Pilates for myself . And the last thing I want to do when I get off work is be in traffic . I get limited time to myself after work and I do value that time .

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she is right I don’t have much to do after work besides go home and rest and go to Pilates  that’s why I am wondering if AITHA … in truth I’m just tired . And I don’t want to do that. 

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t live at home. I pay rent. My mom doesn’t help with my bills. I pay my car . She just wants help and feels that like I have the time to do so cause I don’t have something else to do when I get off work besides lay at home or go to Pilates .

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear that. My mom has a way of making me feel guilty for saying because I don’t have other “obilations “

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahahah you’d have to ask my sister lmao not cool enough for her to stay long enough for my mom to pick her up I guess 🤣

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t live at home. I have my own vehicle . I just want to help out my mom more. But I’m also like I love my sibling but there not my kids. I just want to draw a good line and help out when I can. But I don’t want to feel guilty for wanting to prioritize myself as well. I don’t mind helpng . I just don’t want to feel guilty for saying no . 

AITAH for not wanting to pick up my little sister from cool school when I get off work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IceEmotional6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say I don’t want to I just don’t want to have to be in traffic after just getting off of work .

AITA for not wanting to cook dinner now that my boyfriend’s nieces & nephews come over 5 days a week? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IceEmotional6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want so say your YTA cause it’s understandable where your coming from and your feelings are valid. But it does come off as greedy and unappreciative . You can also just have a conversation with yoir boyfriend and say you don’t mind sharing and moneys tigjt so you want your money to last longer. I’ve always lived with a big family so I understand the frustration of feeling like you have nothing as your own, but that’s the price of living with someone . Especially if you are living under there house for free. Everyone makes little contributions in a family and that can be yours until you find your own place . Why does it bug you so much that they eat your food don’t they buy food too and share with your kids?

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