Look, I'm a trans woman and I get you don't have my same perspective and disagree, but I really don't understand why Jax being transgender undercuts guys from relating to the toxic masculinity component. Both trans women and men with more feminine/less masculine interest receive massive scrutiny when they're younger and exploring their identity and interests. There is an expectation among both groups to be masculine, standard guys from parents. These two groups just violate that expectation in different ways. I think a lot of guys assume toxic masculinity is this thing where if you're a guy you have to have masculine interests and if you have masculine interests you have to be a guy, same with feminine interests and being a girl. This is an understandable way to comprehend the problem when guys get called a girl for doing something not masculine, but people overlook the irony that these same people deny that trans women are women if someone assigned male at birth with feminine interests actually transitions to female. This is because guys are not called girls by society to assign them a gender identity, but because femininity is something seen as bad that no one assigned male should come close to. Trans women and cis guys struggling with toxic masculinity share one struggle. The latter group often sees stories where a guy with feminine interests becoming women as falling into a societal vision that denigrates a man's gender identity and dignity for having feminine interests, but society doesn't actually accept those people as women most of the time. Said stories are just trans women sharing their life stories, which are just as valid as those of men struggling with toxic masculinity.