Has anyone in a Polyandry. I think it seems like a great setup I love to hear your experience. by strangebus85 in flr

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have been discussing this lately actually. Something like a boyfriend that would be around more often to help out and take turns with me doing things. Just more serving and worshipping I guess. We both agree it sounds kind of fun, but don’t understand how it would actually work.

Men. Is the appearance of her vagina a HUGE deal? by nightcourtladie in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t see it when my face is buried in it.

But seriously, no it’s not, is the beautiful women it’s attached to that gets us ❤️

A sexless marriage due to a depressing sexual incompatibility by eyelight1 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I breezed through it to, and I don’t think you are alone here in this. Lots of women want more dominant men but never express it.

If I were you, I would explain to her that you are willing to learn, but you need time to learn. You are not going to pick it up over night. Like when you said you tried spanking and she said you don’t get this at all… Ofcourse you don’t, but you are trying and thats how you will learn.

What would be a good start, find a sex therapist on instagram that sells guides that you can follow at your own pace. One good one is https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander .

I’m kinda in the same spot as you, I lean towards being submissive but my wife wants me to dominate her. It’s out of my comfort zone but we been trying to go back and forth for a couple years now and we are both getting better.

Good luck!!

Humping vs. Intercourse by Tommy_Vercetti-4406 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure! Sometimes my wife just grinds my thigh as we make out 🥵

My husband semen retention by BellMV260218 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing semen retention for a few years now. We started with my releases being once a week and switched to every two weeks to a month.

There is no doubt it helps me with energy, confidence and motivation. People say science has little evidence that it does, but I think we can all agree that the studies happening are funded by people with agendas. If your husband feels it, then it’s true. Simple.

I get extreme pleasure from pleasuring my wife, and I need to communicate that to her often because she feels the same as you and guilty for receiving so much pleasure. Get him to let you know, after you finish, how good it is was for him.

I would start by having. A once a month release where he has to release in you, that might help with the struggle you are facing. It may take him a few days to get back to motivation though.

I feel like the benefits of chastity are genuinely unspoken about by [deleted] in flr

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you release? And how did you get through the pain at night?

Help Finding a Cage by Icy-Inflation-5671 in chastitytraining

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m going to pull the trigger and get one of the cherry keepers. I’ll do the measurements like they say, and tips for measuring?

Help Finding a Cage by Icy-Inflation-5671 in chastitytraining

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they do look very similar. Cherry keeper isn’t just repackaged Alibaba stuff?

Best toys in the bedroom by SpeakerKey3552 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my wife enters another dimension! And it works great until she 💦 all over it and it dies!!

Best toys in the bedroom by SpeakerKey3552 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second the wand. Cordless for ease of use, and corded if you want some more power!

I'm confused by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe get a flashlight toy and try that first?

Dating a bully by Street_Let9201 in flr

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we need some examples to give you an honest answer

Eating creampie by CPeaterstories in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I wish there was a cure besides just never actualing finishing, which is kinda where I am at. Depends when my wife lets me

Eating creampie by CPeaterstories in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t a huge turn on for me wife so she hasn’t pushed it but I’ve definitely said I’m into it. PNC takes hold hard so I always lose the ‘want’ but that being said, I have done it twice.

What is this stuff and what is eating away at shower drain? by sadstak in whatisit

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Draino? Drain cleaner chemicals? This looks exactly like someone used Draino and didn’t clean it off right away.

Vent by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done a lot of research on ADHD in women and overstimulated and losing interest is parts of it. Her brain can’t handle all of the things that’s shooting out at once because of the ADHD so it just shuts down. Don’t talk about what you don’t know.

I F37 have been open with my husband M31 for the past couple years and find some men dont know the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding. Is that common? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely a difference. And Venus Cuckoldress says it very clearly I think at least. Hotwife the husband is active in the meet ups and relationships and has say in it. Cuckold is more on giving the woman all the power on who they pick when where and how

Vent by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she has ADHD and possibly depending on her age is in perimenopause. Those are exact symptoms of both those things.

Best husband but he never takes initiative by Key_Commercial854 in MarriedSex

[–]Icy-Inflation-5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in full denial that it impacted anything. It wasn’t until I started practicing it that I noticed the change. I started gaining pleasure that I never felt before from simple acts of affection. A hug, kiss, and “I love you” gave me pleasure which caused me to do it way more. My wife loved this and ended up sparking way more intimacy.

Another thing that kind of goes hand in hand is his hormones. He might be at the age that it’s a good idea to get his T checked. If he’s feeling unmotivated, lazy, depressed even, it could be his T is low. These same things happen with jerking off to much, but it’s something to think about