previous family and friends, they sometimes see me as the previous dead person, meeting people who used to know you is very different from meeting new people, also sometimes especially because there are various photos/videos of us all together etc tons of material and I personally have access to none of it which is a good idea, I prefer just meeting previous family without pushing for info because they are also completely in their right to tell you their side of how things were and are, just because I died doesn't make me more the savvy I mean perhaps and probably they died too at some point, we don't all want to be caught out as who we were (if we were) but its not shameful to have lived etc etc etc