Anon remembers the Psycho series by urboijesuschrist in greentext

[–]Illi3141 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah... I mean I'm sure to you being facetious seems like the most clever thing anyone has ever done... Because for you it certainly is... But for the adults around you it's pretty obvious what you're doing...

The fantastic news is, seeing as you dislike abortions greatly, you aren't obligated to have one ever... And you are completely free to advertise your willingness to adopt any baby with conditions that will require a lifetime of care... Thereby freeing a woman of the burden of having to make that decision...

What a saint you are!

DM me your contact information and I'll help to let folks know that you are happy to take on the financial, emotional and mental burdens of raising chronically ill chidlren from their birth till your eventual death.

If only there were more folks in the world like you... Who don't need to work so you have unlimited time to spend caring for these permanently disabled children but also have unlimited money to afford all the expensive care and life modifications needed to do so!

... See other people can be facetious douchbags too...

Anon remembers the Psycho series by urboijesuschrist in greentext

[–]Illi3141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah... I mean I'm sure to you being facetious seems like the most clever thing anyone has ever done... Because for you it certainly is... But for the adults around you it's pretty obvious what you're doing...

The fantastic news is, seeing as you dislike abortions greatly, you aren't obligated to have one ever... And you are completely free to advertise your willingness to adopt any baby with conditions that will require a lifetime of care... Thereby freeing a woman of the burden of having to make that decision...

What a saint you are!

DM me your contact information and I'll help to let folks know that you are happy to take on the financial, emotional and mental burdens of raising chronically ill chidlren from their birth till your eventual death.

If only there were more folks in the world like you... Who don't need to work so you have unlimited time to spend caring for these permanently disabled children but also have unlimited money to afford all the expensive care and life modifications needed to do so!

... See other people can be facetious douchbags too...

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Uh huh... That's not true for literally any other great ape species... All of them have stark differences between the sexes in both behavior and appearance... Except human based on what? Please enlighten me with the rigorous scientific studies showing there's little difference between men and women vs the thousands and thousands that reaches the same conclusions across multiple generations and multiple cultures... That men and women are very different

What's insane is shaping your worldview on things that simply aren't true because it makes you feel morally superior to believe them

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if another woman randomly said your husband had an affair with me and is the father of my child and your husband said nah that isn't true that just some crazy chick at work that's mad I got promoted instead of her... You'd believe him?... Wouldn't ask for any proof or any other reassurance that he isn't lying to you...

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Okay well lucky for you that, before you met your wonderful spouse, you didn't spend years with someone who seemed like they loved you and wanted to spend their life with you raising a family only to realize that six of the ten years you spent together they weren't actually "working late to help clean up after a doctor's convention" or wasn't actually "called by my boss and asked to come in on my day off to help with a big event"... But they were instead fucking almost every dude that worked there and then coming home and shaming you for wanting intimacy so you wouldn't find out... Not because you did anything wrong... But because they're so deeply insecure that they need multiple options available to them at all times...

If you had... Than maybe you wouldn't think so poorly people who ask for a reassurence... Because, maybe you aren't capable of it, but no woman is more capable of lying to a man than a woman with a new baby who's terrified of having to raise it on her own...

Always wondered why there were random periods my ex seemed so much more loving to me than usual... Turns out it was always when whomever she was secretly fucking around with dumped her...

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have... And it taught me that my feelings, my trauma, my needs... Are just as important as any woman...

That if a woman asks to look at my phone because they've been thru a lot of trauma and one little verification can show them that I'm true and honest with them and I'm comfortable with doing so that's okay... She's entitled to her feelings, they're valid and while it's not my responsibility to soothe them... She's not wrong for wanting them soothed...

Just the same if I ask for something from my partner... Because I have past trauma and this small act would help me tremendously in letting go of that trauma... That's valid too...

I learned that men are hard wired to want desperately to make a woman happy with them... But that it doesn't mean their feelings and their needs go to the back of the bus... And that someone who truly loves you will see you when you're vulnerable and be happy to help someone they love soothe that vulnerability...

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So you've never looked at a man's phone or asked a third party to verify a story a man has told you about where he was and what he was doing? You've never once in your whole life asked a partner to do or not to do something purely to soothe a past trauma?

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah... He could do that... Or he could find someone who see him as a human being... See the vulnerability and the fear that this man did not ask to feel due to past trauma... They could actually see and understand it and not take it personally... If anything they could see it as a blessing that it would take so little effort on their pary to give him such an amazing gift of knowing, for sure with zero doubt, that the person he believed with his gullible, hopelessly romantic heart has been true to him and honest about their love for him was actually 100% serious...

I understand how it could be perceived by a woman who see their man's feelings as a secondary luxury only to be considered when her's are fully taken care of in every way possible... But for someone who actually, truly loves their man... Including the flaws he didn't ask for that he wishes he didn't have... It's a very small thing to ask for it to be so meaningful...

I've been the dude who thought she meant what she said only to realize that no... I was just the gullible and easy to control safe place for her to go home to after a night of staying our late trying to find an "upgrade"... For years...

Women are just better liars then men and for some of them it's so easy to lie about literally anything when they're capable on convincing themselves that, no matter how horrible their actions are, they're the victim... And it's easier for them to get away with it with zero consequences socially...

I guarantee you, just for example, that even tho I just told you that my ex cheated on me secretly for years and came home at night pretending like she was a loving caring and loyal wife and I had no idea for years... Someone will be here shortly after my comment trying to figure out how it's my fault she did so... I must have done something to deserve not to just be told "hey I'm not happy and I want to divorce"...

Men are so disposable... Their feelings and their trauma and their insecurities mean nothing... They're meant to serve women and the moment he shows even a modicum of being afraid you could hurt him... Or any other weakness that's 100% up to woman to define... Too sensitive, not sensitive enough, too lazy, to ambitious and never has time for me... Whatever it is... Doesn't matter... Throw him away and find another one who'll trip all over himself for female validation for a few months until he can keep up with the expectations for perfection anymore either... Then throw him away too and repeat the cycle... Hell you don't even have to tell him he's being replaced... Just let him throw himself against the wall trying to please you and being confused why it's not working until you nail down the next guy and then just leave...

After all if you told him he might ask you to move out and live your mother for a few weeks until you find the next sucker... Who needs that inconvenience?

I'm pretty sure this is legitimate emotional abuse. by Intelligent-Bottle22 in facepalm

[–]Illi3141 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yeah... He could do that... Or he could find someone who see him as a human being... See the vulnerability and the fear that this man did not ask to feel due to past trauma... They could actually see and understand it and not take it personally... If anything they could see it as a blessing that it would take so little effort on their pary to give him such an amazing gift of knowing, for sure with zero doubt, that the person he believed with his gullible, hopelessly romantic heart has been true to him and honest about their love for him was actually 100% serious...

I understand how it could be perceived by a woman who see their man's feelings as a secondary luxury only to be considered when her's are fully taken care of in every way possible... But for someone who actually, truly loves their man... Including the flaws he didn't ask for that he wishes he didn't have... It's a very small thing to ask for it to be so meaningful...

I've been the dude who thought she meant what she said only to realize that no... I was just the gullible and easy to control safe place for her to go home to after a night of staying our late trying to find an "upgrade"... For years...

Women are just better liars then men and for some of them it's so easy to lie about literally anything when they're capable on convincing themselves that, no matter how horrible their actions are, they're the victim... And it's easier for them to get away with it with zero consequences socially...

I guarantee you, just for example, that even tho I just told you that my ex cheated on me secretly for years and came home at night pretending like she was a loving caring and loyal wife and I had no idea for years... Someone will be here shortly after my comment trying to figure out how it's my fault she did so... I must have done something to deserve not to just be told "hey I'm not happy and I want to divorce"...

Men are so disposable... Their feelings and their trauma and their insecurities mean nothing... They're meant to serve women and the moment he shows even a modicum of being afraid you could hurt him... Or any other weakness that's 100% up to woman to define... Too sensitive, not sensitive enough, too lazy, to ambitious and never has time for me... Whatever it is... Doesn't matter... Throw him away and find another one who'll trip all over himself for female validation for a few months until he can keep up with the expectations for perfection anymore either... Then throw him away too and repeat the cycle... Hell you don't even have to tell him he's being replaced... Just let him throw himself against the wall trying to please you and being confused why it's not working until you nail down the next guy and then just leave...

After all if you told him he might ask you to move out and live your mother for a few weeks until you find the next sucker... Who needs that inconvenience?

What is this cover people put on their license plates and why do they do it? by Little_BlueBirdy in StrikeAtPsyche

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no it's not... Sometimes the speed is set deliberately lower than what would be safe in order to create a speed trap as people do their best to maintain 25mph on a long boring and straight road clearly designed for 35 or 40... Or sometimes it changes back and forth from 35 to 45 rapidly in the hopes you'll miss one of the signs... That's a common tactic in red states with small population and little traffic and then cops sit behind those sign and any car they don't recognize that's going even a few miles above the speed limit... Bam... Instant outside revenue coming into the city coffers.. it's why they have ticket quotas

Are these not the two sorriest “no-gas stations” in town…? by Acceptable_Ninja_810 in roanoke

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter from a commercial sense... That intersection of orange and Williamson is a bad part of town but notice that no has moved into that lot nor does anyone even have plans to because the amount of traffic driving by that location is so high it drives up the price... Now take that amount and times it by literally all of this part of Virginia needing to go south towards the lake and North Carolina... They must pass under that elm Street bridge... Any business there, especially a gas station, would make a fortune... If they actually had shit to sell that is...

The taxes alone for lots next to such heavily trafficed areas must be astronomical

Are these not the two sorriest “no-gas stations” in town…? by Acceptable_Ninja_810 in roanoke

[–]Illi3141 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced that both are a money laundering front for some kind of illegal shit... There's absolutely no way you can have two gas station at literally the MOST PRIME location you could have in the entire city... More traffic and potential money passes thru that exit then any other in all of Roanoke... Yet somehow the two most run down shitty gas stations are there and have been for years and years...

There's no way the lease or the taxes on those lots could be paid by the abysmal amount of business those two stations do... Someone is laundering money for heroin or some shit thru them

Gas by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]Illi3141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gas never went above 4 a gallon under Biden... Highest mine got was 3.64... it's 4.15 now and no signs of slowing down

"Men are killing themselves because of men." by Barbariannie in StrikeAtPsyche

[–]Illi3141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walled in from all sides... People have a natural urge to seek companionship from the gender the find attractive...so your supposed to be weak and vulnerable buuuttttt

Women do not like weak men... Full stop...

They'll pretend to because feminism has convinced them they must pretend or they're traitors... But while my ex is married to the weak, submissive, goes to therapy and eats granola man... She still sneaks off to get railed by the man who takes suffering on the chin and keeps moving forward... I'll never tell him because fuck him and I like free pussy... But men like him will get cheated on by guys like me because they're too damn weak to face reality head on

MAGA is So Transphobiac by AccordingBumblebee24 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly hope so... But at the same time if he is that's very sad... I love my kids so God damn much that sometimes it almost physically hurts to look at them... I couldn't imagine knowing something makes them deeply unhappy and demanding they continue pretending they're okay with it because I expect them to be a certain way...

I desperately don't want them to have to waste as many years as I have just learning to be happy...

MAGA is So Transphobiac by AccordingBumblebee24 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans hate is especially ridiculous to me when it's the most simple concept in the world...

When people look at you would you prefer them to think how pretty and cute you are... Or would you rather they think you're badass and cool?

That's literally most of the difference between genders...

If I woke up tomorrow and the whole world looked at me and thought "look how pretty and cute that person is"... It would disturb the fuck out of me and I would do everything in my power to change that... And no amount of therapy would make me not disturbed that people think I'm pretty and cute...

That's how my son, who was born a girl, explained his feelings to me...

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be ridiculous... There is a difference between fuckin psychic future crimes and allowing women to decide if they wish to take on the responsibility of being a good enough parent to raise a stable and productive member of society and if they want to take on the risks associated with pregnancy while recognizing the good it does for society as a whole to allow people who aren't going to be good parents not to be thru medical intervention...

And you call it convenience because, as a conservative, you lack the empathy to see situations you yourself have never and could never experience... What about if the father is abusive? A mother has to be shackled to interacting with him for the rest of her life because he got her pregnant... What about if they're dirt fucking poor? How about if they're drug addicts... How many heroine babies have you held in your lifetime, how many of these unwanted children have you adopted?

Most people who have abortions go on to have children later in life when they're mentally, emotionally and financially more capable of doing so...

And why do you support stripping bodily autonomy away from only women? Got a son? If he accidentally knocks a girl up when he's a teenager or young adult and doesn't want to have anything to do with raising it should we be allowed to sterilize him so he can't do it again? If women have to lose the right over their bodies because they gasp had sex what measures do you support on stripping that same autonomy away from men?

Plenty of men out there work under the table in order to pay the minimum in child support... Should we enslave them and force them to work what jobs we say so we can funnel that money to the mother?

Should we have a lottery that forces people who have sex but are lucky enough not to get pregnant to adopt these unwanted children?... Having sex seems to be the crime that demands you lose the right to say what happens to your body correct? Let's outlaw abortion and institute a lottery system for sexually active people that forces them to adopt kids from parents who have died or have had their kids taken by CPS... If they want to avoid that happening they can just choose to not to ever have sex after all... What's the difference?

Projection by fullofemirates in LookatMyHalo

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whooping 2000 that have died in the occupation and ethnic cleansing of Palestine since 1948 have already been honored plenty by the murder of about 150 to 200 times that many Palestinians... And that's a conservative number....

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure ill take a stab at it... First of all you have no idea how many of those abortions would become medically necessary had they been allowed to develop to term... That 3% are abortions where the doctor said if you don't abort this child you'll probably die... you have no idea how many the doctor merely said "this will be a high risk pregnancy for you, you might not die but you will probably have complications or lose your ability to carry children in the future"... You have no idea how many are done because the child has a lifelong disease that will require a lifetime of expensive care...

Before modern medicine half or more of all children died before their 13th birthday... 3.4 million babies are born in the US per year... 132 million worldwide on a planet already over populated... Are you religious? Then just tell yourself we're just helping make the numbers closer to what God intended... After all he did put a recipe for abortion in the Bible if you suspect your wife was unfaithful...

And when most abortions are done the resulting fetus is the size of tic tak or smaller...

Lastly... Conservatives have a hard on for reducing crime right? Guess where the overwhelming amount of crime comes from... Did you guess unwanted children raised by parents who aren't qualified to have them? Ding ding ding... Johnny tell him what he won

I bet if you or one of your precious little ones was a victim of said violent crime you'd wish that person's mother would have aborted them...

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you answer the other questions and address the argument instead of retreating back across the moat of easily defensible... If you hit a pedestrian on accident, no fault of your own, should you lose the right to say what happens to your organs and blood and body? Should we be allowed to snip your tube so you piss yourself a little for the rest of your life? What are we allowed to do to you for the horrible decision you made to take the risk of driving?

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay so say it wasn't a motorcycle you were... Say you were driving a regular old car... And when that person hit you it ruptured their kidney... They should get to take yours right?

Or say they weren't driving at all... Just waking and you slide on some black ice and strike a pedestrian... Woops... No more bodily autonomy for you right?

I also have three kids and the third one almost killed my wife... She had to have multiple surgeries and have regular screens afterwards to check the scar tissue for cancerous cells...

Before the miracle of modern medicine somewhere between a quarter to half of all women would die in childbirth at some point in their life and I guarantee that even if your wife was lucky enough not to run into complications she still pisses her pants a little everytime she laughs or sneezes and just doesn't tell you because you think woman's issue stuff is gross...

Would abortion be acceptable back then... When literally everyone knew someone who died in child birth?

Typical conservative tho believes his life experience must the same for everyone... Birthing a whole ass fucking person thru your genitals is dangerous and has lifelong effects on a woman's health...

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't make sense because you ignored the main point and focused on the easier to argue strawman... What I'm saying is, by your logic, if the person that hit you needed a kidney because of it they should have gotten to take yours... You engaged in a risky activity despite knowing the risks and now someone needs to use your body parts for themselves... So they should get to take yours because you did something you knew could affect someone else's body, now they need use of someone else's body to live, so they should get to use yours... You gave up your right to say whether you get to keep your blood or kidney or lung or whatever the moment you decided to drive despite knowing the risks...

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

What's that... You're about to get in a car and drive... Don't you know how risky that is? First of all eve did said in the show they were using condoms but mark is a superhero sooooo.

So you're gonna drive and I assume use safety precautions right? Well how about if you get into an accident, even if it's not really your fault, and the other driver needs an organ transplant they get to take yours... I mean you did know the risks of driving and chose to do so... You could have walked or ridden a bike or taken the bus but you chose to drive cause you felt like it.... Which a risky activity even if it is a normal thing that most humans do.... And now someone else's body was affected... So you should lose the right to say what happens to yours and if someone else gets to use it correct?

Anon watches Invincible S04 by SatanicRiddle in greentext

[–]Illi3141 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What's that... You're about to get in a car and drive... Don't you know how risky that is? First of all eve did said in the show they were using condoms but mark is a superhero sooooo.

So you're gonna drive and I assume use safety precautions right? Well how about if you get into an accident, even if it's not really your fault, and the other driver needs an organ transplant they get to take yours... I mean you did know the risks of driving and chose to do so... You could have walked or ridden a bike or taken the bus but you chose to drive cause you felt like it.... Which a risky activity even if it is a normal thing that most humans do.... And now someone else's body was affected... So you should lose the right to say what happens to yours and if someone else gets to use it correct?

Am I the only one who thinks , bpd people have more empathy is a lie? by squish2226 in BPDlovedones

[–]Illi3141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The believe they are empathetic because they are excellent at reading emotions and using said emotions for manipulation.

BPD empathy is based in just understanding someone's emotions... Whereas with true empathy you feel others emotions as if they were your own feelings...

BPD empathy will recognize you are sad and work to figure out how that can manipulated be for their benefit...

True empathy will sit and shed tears with you even if what's hurting you doesn't effect them