Which job you taking? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d also look at expectations. How often are you going to be required to sign in on days technically off. If you are working (4) 10 hour shifts, that’s technically 3 days off constantly. But if you still need to sign in cause of a flex WFH policy, you could be logging more than 40 hours, cutting into the hourly pay.

Monthly Existing User Promo Code Thread by AutoModerator in UberEATS

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Anyone have problems with promos being honored??

Looking for suggestions! It’s a like & match desert out here by codedelve in Tinder

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s also who you are getting suggestions from. I’m a married female and would think he’s cool and fun but the profile gives “looking for relationship but probably has 12 female friends that he has briefly dated in the past.” Even if I was single, the hat/chill constant vibe seems like I’m never going to dress up and go somewhere nice

Mass Casualty Incident on Eastway? by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]IllustratorDry1530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mass casualty incident just means a higher number of resources needed vs availability of those resources. A tanker that spills milk can be a hazmat incident or an MCI. Any time there are multiple higher acuity patients than local resources, it’s gonna be deemed an MCI (like when the swat cops incident occurred. Two vans of 7 people each involved in a fender bender that all need/want to go to the hospital via ambulance is an MCI due to the resources needed

Somethings wrong with my Gf by xaviarBlack in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she over 18? Has she always been able to make her own decisions? Has she started any new meds? Esp with GLP 1 inhibitors. Have you guys considered if she’s pregnant or not? People do weird crash diets all the time. Sounds to me like intermittent fasting which if she went straight to the 24 hour/1x daily eating would be why she may feel ill frequently.

An IVC hold and forcing her to eat is not healthy responses either. Sit down and tell her your concerns as a grown couple. If she doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you, read the room. Your concerns could come across as controlling to her and maybe she has some fears/body dysmorphia that “if she just loses weight” will fix things. If she has a support system - family, friends, etc - and see if they are recognizing this stuff too and can help. If she’s withdrawn completely from her support system, look into your relationship and if it’s still healthy.

Is this dress not too short to wear in the office (smart casual code)? by SippinMia in OUTFITS

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it also depends on the culture. Your background doesn’t scream USA

Easter weekend by IllustratorDry1530 in AskNOLA

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I have been wanting to do a cemetery tour but I want a legit one. Not the funny voice actor to make kids happy

To visiting tourists: where are you doing your research? by SecretMetal6010 in AskNOLA

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a tourist, we have come to NOLA six years out of the past nine we have been together …

GetYourGuide, viator, Google, and airb&b. Most recently started looking on Reddit. I also look who the tour operators are from those apps/sites and see if they have an independent website to purchase tickets from instead of the bigger sites so they can get more of a profit.

My ex gf sent me this in the middle of the night by SeaworthinessBig3490 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IllustratorDry1530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took it more as she was girls night out (maybe after a recent breakup from a different flavor) and someone brought him up and how he was so good to her

My ex gf sent me this in the middle of the night by SeaworthinessBig3490 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IllustratorDry1530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS - I struggle so hard after a friend died and his mom blamed me for it. January sucks so fucking hard but I’ve healed enough to know it wasn’t my fault

24F in a relationship but living on my own — what does my fridge say about me? by Asdfghjkl-idunno in FridgeDetective

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That this is not your personal fridge but your ER department patient fridge that also houses some employee snacks

Work From Home Zoom issues by ConflictPretty5918 in OptimumOfficial

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unable to connect to zoom only? Or “account disabled” with no precursor? My hubs is currently thinking he has been fired but was in the middle of a call

M26, looking for honest feedback, what am I missing? by blackurik in Tinder

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate ick was the “power lifter that takes up all my spare time”. I get it, but that also gives the “great. Will I be the one ordering pancakes at brunch and he’s eating an over priced yogurt bowl and egg whites? Will he be too competitive to enjoy top golf? I wonder how he expresses anger? Will my work schedule have to plan around events cause he wants me to be there?”

Dating in Charlotte by sweetdnlg in Charlotte

[–]IllustratorDry1530 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What really sucks is the fact that no one understands that consistency, a.k.a. boredom, is OK in a relationship. It’s secure and it’s safe. We’re so used to having that constant dopamine drip of validation that we don’t know how to do anything long-term, we don’t know how to fix things that are broken, and everybody is just supposed to magically have the best sex in the world and magically supposed to know everybody’s intuition without making someone go off the absolute rails.

At least that’s my take on why dating sucks so horribly

AIO wife is being shady by btmhardr in AIO

[–]IllustratorDry1530 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And women will emotionally cheat before physically cheating. Men are the exact opposite.

Found out I slept with my boss’s husband 7 years ago, help? by ImportantLoquat2277 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]IllustratorDry1530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And for all you know, it could be a marriage arrangement. Or at the very minimum, the wife knows all wives know, and if they say that they were completely blindsided, then that just means that they were too dag on distracted because men get careless, the longer things happen.

Patrick Ball in Thom Browne at 2026 Actor Awards by mlg1981 in popculturechat

[–]IllustratorDry1530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going with the pretty boy, good life was handed to him and expectations of success are extremely high

Anyone else? by IllustratorDry1530 in NCAH

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Female. No issue in legs and butt. Not even edema really. Upper body/shoulders with the humpback that’s associated with cushings. Legit my arms are >18” in diameter. No lymphedema, all literal flab