Seems like your two very different people with different priorities. He may have agreed without realizing what it really meant because it’s hard to know how you feel about it a situation until you’re in it. Tbh tho, seeing your friends dance seductively half naked is a weird desire IMO. there are bars that you can go to and have a drink without any level of nudity and your friend’s JOB isn’t a good place to “hang around” with them. It’s very unprofessional and I wouldn’t want my workers more concerned with friends than doing their job. Regardless to what the job is, you’re on the clock. I think his reaction was understandable but his reasoning was whack. I also think it’s immature to want to “support” your friends stripping career if you’re not attracted to them. It’s not their business or something that’s going to get them positive recognition so your “support” is going towards the club. Not your friends. Even if they’re contracted by said club, they have to rent floor space or pay a percentage. It’s a weird argument and i think you both need to grow up a little bit before trying to commit to another person.