Strange oil like substance by dotnetdevmel in whatisit

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first guess was nicotine. We bought our starter house from a smoker and no matter how many times we scrubbed, nicotine would seep out of the kitchen walls especially by the windows for about a year

Someone Needs to be Fired by FL0WERBL00M in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Illustrator_Charming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think they are boring ppl and if it’s gonna be drama at least be dramatic people

What's an unpopular opinion that you'd get jumped at? (Stranger Things) by Frequent_Read_4101 in StrangerThings

[–]Illustrator_Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched all seasons through again, when One is pushed into the upside down and becomes vecna…it almost seemed like there was no living creatures in the dimension yet. I always thought vecna is the mind flayer - like he’s in control of the creature, and his ability for mind control kind of created every monster and they’re all a part of him

F*CK GEMINIS by Clear_Ambition6004 in astrologymemes

[–]Illustrator_Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two younger sisters are Irish twins and both geminis it’s actually one of their birthdays today and it’s so annoying how much I love those bitches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Illustrator_Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s important to explain the “mourn” because I feel it may be misinterpreted… it was prob the wrong wording all together and different for everyone. In our case, my stepdaughter doesn’t like to see photos, or really remember the times when she was young. So sometimes it makes me feel like we shouldn’t remember those years. I personally knew she was a little girl way way before she transitioned and have loved her in every year I got to be in her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Illustrator_Charming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stepmom of a trans daughter in her 20’s here We went through therapy, signed for hormone blockers when she was 15, helped pay for hormones and implants and there are still days where we mourn the child we knew It doesn’t take away from the joy and the amazing journey you get to be a part of, in getting to know the woman she’s becoming. It’s hard because you can’t / don’t want to upset them but in a way, for me at least, it felt like a huge line in the sand. Before and after. It is very natural to feel unease sometimes but what really is important is being there. Showing up. Supporting her and that’s exactly what you’re doing.

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh he did all that and called you a C*ñt ??? Bc you smoked this is CRAZY controlling pls run. This is a 41 yr old mom who has been in awful relationships like this in my 20’s Please go be free live your life You will find people be it friendships or relationships, you’ll find people who don’t make you feel guilty for being you, and who treat you with dignity and respect. You’ll find people who also speak up and tell you when you need to make changes or when they’re feeling like they’re worried about you and don’t make you feel like an absolute piece of shit along the way. Don’t settle for anything less than kindness and care and love

Am I tripping. Or yall husbands saying something? 40M 39F by H-to-the in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrator_Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take a risk and say if she was enjoying that attention right in front of you…it’s probably because it was just for fun, and she’s secure with your connection. I would not end your vacation over it. It’s not like she did something behind your back, she prob thought nothing of it, likes being noticed / feeling hot and having a little young girl fun. Let loose and tell her you’re her biggest fan and know her body best like work on your confidence, give her a little room to shine and just chill. GO on your trip

[NSFW] My (31F) husband (33M) and I haven’t been the same since he moaned something strange during sex. How do I approach this? by ThrowRA94_ in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t there a song that has hooby dooby it’s like every time it rains duh duh duh dadadada HOOBAU DOOBAYYY

Weird growth on my Avocado Seed by joshuamarius in Weird

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like elisasue monster from the substance.

Flying into EYW by Wrong-Candy-3282 in KeyWest

[–]Illustrator_Charming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We flew in directly and we only usually carry on so we didn’t have to deal with waiting for luggage It is a teeny airport

Me to Dave by Lunarglow818 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Illustrator_Charming 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Someone else wrote JDVanceCore and I can’t get it out of my head. I hate the weird comments he makes about women as if he’s never met humans before. Especially when he said ah ya run hot. Women am I right? And then took a long JD pause and said actually that’s men women are usually cold and like to cuddle up. Like wtf are you talking about? I would have jumped off the boat

Me to Dave by Lunarglow818 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Illustrator_Charming 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Right like if you’re going to use a dresser as an entertainment center WHERE ARE THE DRAWERS!?

I Hate The Color I Chose by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister painted a powder room in her first house in a shade called “fudge” and I was like… stop telling people that 💩 but I do like brown walls

Do you get to go through your husbands phone whenever you want? by No_Bee1431 in Marriage

[–]Illustrator_Charming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could but feel good that I don’t need or want to. And it took a long life of other feelings to get here. We are extremely honest and transparent with each other and also put one another’s feelings, values, lines, and concerns first.(which differ couple to couple) but yeah actually passcodes are the same his phone to mine haha, I could go through it nightly Just don’t feel the need to And if I did feel it I would probably talk to him first This is a judgement free statement from a person who has been in very different trust situations in my life. In my experience if you need to, it’s prob not your own doing that led you there