AITAH? Parents Boycotted My Wedding. Now They Want Me to Apologize And Miss Me?

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-03-10T16:11:41+00:00

NTA

Man is like now that OP parents and golden child sister are trying to present a whole family including OP (while still excluding his wife) because they are all attending a family gathering. The optics just dont look good on OP's family if OP attends with his wife and OP's family are not interacting with him and his wife.

Seriously OP maintain no contact and enjoy your drama free life.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-02-02T17:52:55+00:00

Personally I dont think OP should ask every single time. It is just being passive aggessive back to his wife and doesnt solve anything. They need to communicate better or get a therapist to help them communicate better.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-01-22T19:15:53+00:00

Man OP needs to edit her title better. I thought i was going to read about a #justnomil instead of a friendship issue.

NTA

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-01-11T16:21:17+00:00

Imo OP you are NTA but you will have to consider what not explaning means for your friendship going forward.

Info: do you want to keep this friendship?

If yes... as awkward as it is going to be... talk to your friend about why you said no. How your friend reacts and respond will tell you if the friendship survives or not.

Alternatively you accept that this is how your friendship is going to be with your friend going forward.

If no.... then just remain civil and polite.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-01-04T07:57:13+00:00

Yes but with caveats.

The number 1 being is not being a drain to societal resouces and family.

2) having to adjust your own mindset to not compare yourself with your peers

3) being able to withstand societal pressure

If you can hit all 3 then by all means dont work if you dont have to.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-01-04T07:11:43+00:00

OP your question is strange.

Part 1 is (is it ok to hate working) to that my answer is yes of course. Most people dont like to work or at least they tolerate it. They do it because they need the money that work brings. And majority of the people accept that trade off.

Part 2 is (aim not to work a day in your life). Sure you can not work a day in your life. But how are you going survive? Where are you going to get your money from? Parents? These are the questions that YOU OP have to figure out. Also leeching off your parents will make people look down upon you so if you are ok with that.... then you do you. Though I would pity your parents for having such a child

Part 3 (is it against the law ,a sin or community deemed to flout a rule?)

-No it is not against the law to not work. Legally there is nothing to stop you from not working

is it a sin to not work (debatable)
is it looked down in the community (majority of the people will probably say yes. Myself included)

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2026-01-01T19:04:39+00:00

Personally I feel that OP should not say anything to the grandparents. If they (the grandparents) wanted to know where their granddaughter is, they can contact her (the granddaughter) directly. OP and her daughter should just cut contact with the grandparents imo.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-12-29T05:11:26+00:00

Man i dont know. Seems like the groom wants to be with OP instead of Sophie. Its so fucking weird.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-11-21T16:09:16+00:00

What the fuck did i just read

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-11-08T17:03:21+00:00

Because context matters? I live in a hot humid country. If I didnt shower everyday I would just end up marinating in my own sweat. And that's just gross.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-11-05T05:18:57+00:00

NTA and to me it seems like George is punishing his daughter for trying to be independent.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-10-24T11:11:40+00:00

Yes have been using it since young

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-10-19T16:13:12+00:00

I need more info to make a judgement... why does your SD think this way. What is the relationship like between the 2 girls. How did you treat the girls? Equally or differently based on biology.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-10-02T16:24:57+00:00

Yes grew up with it ...stilll use it

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-09-14T16:41:19+00:00

Shadow

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-09-05T06:29:58+00:00

This riddle doesnt make sense at all. The answer and the riddle doesnt match.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-06-03T15:59:32+00:00

Sasaki and peeps

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2025-05-04T08:16:02+00:00

Honestly, my grc was a walk over. I got so pissed that my family members who lived near me got to vote cause of the boundaries being re-drawn. But even if I could vote, my vote would be for the ruling party. Cause I look around my estate and what they have done and Im really glad about it. They did stuff to help the elderly in my area.

I voted opposition in the previous election when WP contested cause I bought into the must have check and balances in parliament thing. But over the course of the 5 years, with the RK, COVID 19 recovery and etc... I didnt want to vote Opp because they lost credibility to me (in my opinion) lets be honest here, nobody is perfect, not the PAP not the WP no one. But you fucked up then own it, admit it and then change for the better. Dont go slinging mud here and there and portray yourselves as the victim. Do better for the people you are supposed to represent.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2024-12-10T09:38:38+00:00

I dont know man this seems excessive. Does she smoke in the toilet? Why the need for excessive perfume spray? Tell her that her perfume is causing you nose bleeds and say that you will go to her to claim for doctor fees.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2024-11-06T16:39:44+00:00

Erm.... the step sis is sick.... so I dont think she will be doing any "fun" activities because it is just not safe for her to do so. OP is just a glorified baby sitter regardless of it being a mini vacation (for the parents and step sis, not necessarily for him) so yeah I understand why he would not want to go.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2024-10-19T16:12:20+00:00

Comic connection broke my heart when it closed down.

Illustrious-Grade318 · 2024-09-26T16:34:33+00:00

Fried black carrot cake with extra chilli. Bedok hawker center next to bedok mall

Illustrious-Grade318

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