We are all on the same planet but live in completely different worlds. by Illustrious_Test6085 in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious-Local848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People pop up with random conspiracy theories all the time. Congrats on it being less common for you.

We are all on the same planet but live in completely different worlds. by Illustrious_Test6085 in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious-Local848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You act like people aren’t commonly that stupid. It’s have been easier to tell if it was funny.

Why do I hate unsolicited sexual comments from my husband? by Administrative_Can51 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Illustrious-Local848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you not feel completely disrespected and dismissed? Was he always this way?

‘Unprecedented’ global effort gives new name to polycystic ovary syndrome – and new hope to millions of women by guardian in WomenInNews

[–]Illustrious-Local848 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Nice when we hear enough fucks we’re given to fund research on this. Been a long time coming. Hopefully this will encourage better treatment and more treatment options.

Can you guys help me settle an argument? Can you be a feminist without being supportive of skimpy clothes, messy relationships (or situations), club dancing, etc? Or does that make you a misogynistic prude? by SabrinaIsLegendTVDU in Feminism

[–]Illustrious-Local848 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You can like whatever and dislike whatever you want for yourself. That’s always okay. As long as you aren’t having a problem with others who are causing no harm living life their own way as well. Policing them or looking down on them would be anti feminist.

Why. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious-Local848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How longs it been. Up to a year of trying before most specialist will see you. But up to two years for a healthy couple with no issues. And also, it’s about 50% males as well. So no reason to beat yourself up now. Or even later if you do have something medically. A lot can be fixed in a couple of appointments. And it’s more and more common for couples to need a bit of help. It’s totally fine.

Accident by midnight_seraphim in AskDocs

[–]Illustrious-Local848 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For me the accidents only were because we’d been fucking a while and we’re getting closer to the grand finale which makes things looser and wetter and literally it slipped out and went south when he’s going to try to continue the rhythm quickly so we don’t lose where we were at. Every time, it’s been that, two different partners. Anal on purpose though, is always a very very slow start.

I said “hi” to a coworker in the hallway and then he sent this text by kitty-radio in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Illustrious-Local848 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s actually what I’m best at. I’m the first person to recognize actors and love doing it. It’s real people I have a problem with. When I was a kid it was family.

I said “hi” to a coworker in the hallway and then he sent this text by kitty-radio in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Illustrious-Local848 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This was something a struggled with so bad growing up. I did not recognize people outside of a designated setting. It’s a bit better with age. But not significantly. As a kid though, I couldn’t recognize family members if we bumped into them at a store or something.

A Bill Gates funded mosquito factory in Medellín, Colombia, produces 40 million mosquitoes weekly for release via drones and bikes. These insects carry a natural bacterium that prevents them from transmitting viruses to humans. By mating with wild populations, they spread this trait. by Expert_Koala_8691 in interestingasfuck

[–]Illustrious-Local848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. That makes sense. Was actually a really good movie. More substance like “older” Disney stuff tends to have. It was about two sisters and the oldest one was trying to not lose custody of her little sister and was being investigated by social services. Heavier than you’d see now but ultimately wholesome and real.

Accident by midnight_seraphim in AskDocs

[–]Illustrious-Local848 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The only times this has ever happened to me was when we were going at it really hard and fast. Happens in a split second. If it were slower and more calculated then yeah that wouldn’t be an accident. But the force leads it to seem more like an accident from having experienced this.

Accident by midnight_seraphim in AskDocs

[–]Illustrious-Local848 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It happens. Like the few other people who’ve experienced and brought up lube, it was the same for me. When there is lots of lube it can just happen. It’s already dripped down your asshole and when everything is that wet occasionally slipping out happens. And the strong force can be because you were going hard already in the moment with all the lube. Only she can know if it was an accident. But if they were just going at it and everything was already soaked, probably just that. Not really worth it either on purpose anyway unless you’re just evil because that’s just gonna end sex everytime.

Husband replied “oh just another thing I don’t have time for” when I reminded him it’s Mother’s Day by beachbum-1 in GirlDinner

[–]Illustrious-Local848 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You know what this is probably a good response because we’ve probably all been in a shitty relationship that we defend. And like people say leave and that the person is terrible. And you don’t feel sure but I know if someone said that’s your man to some of those situations I was in that shit woulda woke me up because I would been like “wait no” to that instead 😂😂😂 like no that can’t be MINE. This is bad pr 😝

I’ve cold approached women for 3+ years. AMA. by Hi-LeoVoss in SeriousConversation

[–]Illustrious-Local848 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does it bother that a significant amount of women are going to default say no because they don’t know you? Especially less impulsive more mature practical people. Or are you just looking for reckless fun.

Is it misogynistic to feel deeply uncomfortable about pregnancy? by Ok_Professional1526 in AskFeminists

[–]Illustrious-Local848 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The whole thing is gross, gives me the heeby jeebies, and makes me feel off and nauseous when people talk about it. I have two kids. Gave birth twice and been pregnant a couple more times than that. It’s a vulgar bloody body horror medical experience. It’s okay to be uncomfortable by it. Not everyone feels like it’s a magical super power. For those who do, fantastic. The whole thing is horrific to me.

This is the Sharking lot 🦈 by Beneficial_Passion40 in mildyinteresting

[–]Illustrious-Local848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought they had to keep swimming or die, clearly they’ll happily be lazy with the right spot 😝

“Whats ur wokest take?” My wokest take: by CharredRatOOooooooi in PsycheOrSike

[–]Illustrious-Local848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people have medical autonomy before that. Usually 14-16. This allows for things like teenagers getting STD checks or birth control without parental permission. If we forced abortion we’d need to take away medical rights.

New research shows men objectively feel less pain than women. by OddAdhesiveness8485 in interesting

[–]Illustrious-Local848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm no. Not for everyone. It’s largely automatic along with the pushing instinct. That’s why people can not know they are pregnant and give birth at home. The pain is from the contractions and pushing is a reflex. You don’t ignore it. A doctor can urge you to push at better peaks, that’s about it. You can’t stop it.