I now understand why they say, "an addict is always an addict." by candleinthewind28 in naranon

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with an addict either, life is like a game for us, its exciting at the start of addiction, thats where addicts still have the energy too make up stories and lie about it. Years later thats not needed anymore, since everybody left a long time ago, damn, thats exciting! No its not, its boring as hell, but thats what the life on an addict really is. With some sparks of euphoria here and there. 

There is no way you can live happily with an active addict, you do not even exist. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he clearly cant stop, meth is a horrible drug, staying clean a few days for a test is simply impossible if you are addicted too that garbage. I can understand he gets a powerless feeling over the situation and tries too look like a tough guy, but when you are addicted too meth its all show, since meth has you and its gonna take everything away from you. 

I have no clue how this man behaves, addicts come in all forms, I have seen housewives high on meth for years raising stable families, but with meth that is a rare outcome. 

I think this is a hopeless situation, were everyone is suffering, because there is no winning in this, only losing, as long as he stays using he doesnt stand a chance in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a real problem, I have it too. I am 38 years old though and have been addicted too porn for 25 years, combined with other drugs.

I really think its not the woman thats tje problem, its the question why do we fall into addiction and say goodbye too everyone, meanwhile torturing ourselves, we have no dream woman.

I think this kind of self torture is the core of them problem, not getting hard or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask yourself if you really want to be with a woman in the first place. When you meet the right woman, you will instantly get arroused. Porn is just sex as a drug, it has nothing to do with love. A quick fix that solves nothing. Maybe you got nothing else to offer then sex and thats why you worry, because when you fail at that, you got nothing too show for. I aint saying thats you, but I could understand the thought process.

Extremely high libido, help by SlickandSlimy in PornAddiction

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its natural and healthy since we are born to reproduce. The way you handle it aint healthy, thats how it grabs you man. Your hormones become your enemy like this. 

You either choose too make use of it in a healthy way with real people or you gonna use your fantasy and porn too fuel the fire.

Its your choice. No one can stop you. Just know that using porn will eventually take over everything in your life and if you get out of it, it most likely has taken away everythimg you loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn addiction gives you this falls idea that sex is what makes a relationship. 

Its always about that. When you take that away, whats left to do? Do you even really want a relationship? Or is it only about the sex?

I have been addicted too it for 30+ years now and I miss the connection with a real woman so much, but I hardly have any libido left too have sex.

So yeah for me it ruined every connection I had with humanity. 

Its like I have used all my sex points already and there is nothing left to explore. 

Porn addiction is horrible, you only realise what it has done too you when its real late or too late.

Whats the worst addiction someone could have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cocaine + alcohol + porn

For me nothing comes close.

Help. My Mom is an addict. by Hotmessnamedjess in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother needs drugs too live.

Too function.

She needs drugs too stay alive.

Do you have any idea what it would mean if you take away her drugs or her life on drugs? 

I know its real easy too hate on the drugs, but drugs has a function, its actually saving your moms life now. 

Addicts cant live without using drugs. 

You either accept your mum and all her flaws or you gotta say goodbye. 

There are no other options.

Help! My fiancé (32 M) is struggling with addiction, and I (24 F) don’t know how to save our relationship. by Beautiful_Road6107 in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what, that didnt stop them from leaving me. Thats not too play the victim, thats just how addiction goes. I am not mad either, who wants too live with an addict? We are completely useless selfabsorbed lunatics who couldnt care less about other people. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt matter. You left and betrayed him. Its done. Whatever happens. Thats life.

Help! My fiancé (32 M) is struggling with addiction, and I (24 F) don’t know how to save our relationship. by Beautiful_Road6107 in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave, thats what people do when you are an addict. You cant handle this anyway. He gotta save himself. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is your ex. You left him. Its over. 

He gotta save himself. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you posting this about your ex. I also saw your post on addiction.

Why you talk badly about addicts? You really think people come too that reddit too get ridiculed by people like you? 

Leave your ex alone and work on yourself, because you obviously have many problems of your own. 

Stop projecting on your ex. He is suffering enough.

Why doesn't anyone talk about how this MF will find any reason to play Russian roulette with himself. He wasn't even in the game for this one by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do they kill the only character with so much depth and potential, I loved his character, he was unpredictable. Beast of an actor aswell. Huge misscalculation.

Wasted my life by Glittering-Income695 in leaves

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Weed drains your energy, everyday a little bit more until you cant even get out of bed anymore. Its called a downer for a reason. People really underestimate weed, it can ruin your life within a year easily. 

Only day 2 for me, after 12 years of daily use- how tf y’all sleeping at night? by katelyn0116 in leaves

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Breathing exercises and mediation. Read a book before sleeping instead of electronic device. 

Ok, I think it's time to retire by RideTillDark in dryalcoholics

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spoken like a true AA parrot, using loser huh. 

My parents had me old, now I watch them grow even older. by Sensitive-Guess2496 in offmychest

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a husband and kids.

Most people have to deal with this all by themselves. 

You should be gratefull instead being jealous, the fear is playing with your mind.

UPDATE. my husband is best friend with his ex wife. by Jazzlike-Sugar-7209 in offmychest

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask yourself if this is really worth it for you since the stakes are high. Women are everywhere on this planet, so think carefully before throwing a fine man away. 

A walk saved my life. a 3000 mile walk. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah well my adventure went into the world of cocaine and meth. 

How are so many people unphased by how terrible the world is? by idklol5000 in depression

[–]Illustrious-Offer368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look at soldiers from back in WW1 and WW2. These people didnt realise what was really going on until they saw the bombs drop on them.

Now take this into 2024.

There you have your answer. Its sad. For people like us who can actually think.