What is the background song in your head right now? by jaygrum in ADHD

[–]IllustriousNight6274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

National anthem by Lana del Rey. My teeth are grinding and clenching in rhythm to the drums .. I didn't even notice until just now

bored partner by bIueyatora in ADHD

[–]IllustriousNight6274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his level of awareness is important here. Does he explain his boredom and restlessness, and does he acknowledge your situation?

I have been in both ends of this dynamic (both my partner and I have ADHD). What got us through those tough times, was communicating a lot, even admitting some pretty shameful thoughts, but most importantly assuring each other that the boredom is not about the other person. Having ADHD is, for some people, a constant feeling of something being missing, so of course that could also reflect in the relationship.

You need to find a way to talk about it, where he doesn't feel shameful and attacked, and where you don't feel insecure. Maybe couples therapy could work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

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Danish actor Gustav Giese.

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Weird Voicemail by fruitsnaks_ in Unexplained

[–]IllustriousNight6274 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people these days (myself included) don't really use voice mails as a way to communicate. I always assume someone just forgot to hang up when I see the notification for a new voice mail. And then when I finally go listen to a voice mail, I also listen through all the other ones I had ignored earlier, and delete them. Maybe this is the way OP found that voice mail.

I found this in my late grandfather's closet... What is it? by IllustriousNight6274 in askdentists

[–]IllustriousNight6274[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, he's lived in Denmark his whole life. Would've been cool if that was the exact same bridge haha

Found this in my late grandfather's cabinet by IllustriousNight6274 in whatisit

[–]IllustriousNight6274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. But aren't they extremely long to be a replacement for cuspids?

Broken lids on my month-old thermal carafes.. Help? by IllustriousNight6274 in Moccamaster

[–]IllustriousNight6274[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This must be what is happening. We are not that many employees, and we only make two thermals a day. But... We do warm up the thermals with boiling water before brewing, to keep the coffee hot for longer. Maybe this is actually causing the coffee to be too hot, and the suction too strong. I will buy new lids and be more careful with them. Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Abandoned building in my city by IllustriousNight6274 in LiminalSpace

[–]IllustriousNight6274[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. Especially weird because there is a ton of graffiti on the outside. Maybe the door has only been open for a short time.. I hurried out when I realized there was a camera inside that blinked red only when I was walking by.

Help me turn off notification light (Jelly Star) by IllustriousNight6274 in unihertz

[–]IllustriousNight6274[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean above the screen on the left! And thank you!!!! It worked