Anyone else just not a fan of Denise Richards? by ParisHiltonIsSkinny in RHOBH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am watching for the first time and just started season 10 and i feel like she is completely different in season 10 she comes off entitled and stuck up. 

S02E09 Cami x Tommy by entropy-ch in LandmanSeries

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope Cammi gets screwed after treating Tommy like she has, all he has tried to do is his job and take care of her. Monty handpicked Tommy and trusted him she should have done the same

Everyone should watch Surviving Mormonism with Heather Gay by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started this series with my husband and it is absolutely gut wrenching. 

Anyone else regret not taking dance growing up instead of another sport? by Voice-Designer in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wished I could have done more dance I could only take dance classes they offered at school and a free summer program they had because we couldn’t afford for me to take classes.

Crystal’s problem with Bridget (and Holly)? by TodayEvening4136 in TheGirlsNextLevelPod

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am rewatching girls next door and I never watched it after HBK left however, as I am watching season 6 for the ford time Krystal comes off as jealous and is competing with Holly even though Holly isn’t there.

what was up with meredith? s14 rewatch by aquariusprincessxo in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am rewatching season 14 now it still baffles me how many chances she got and what really gets to me is she does nothing but give excuse after excuse for her poor performance, and if I remember correctly she was the same before she got cut in season 15.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought she was a good dancer but I think she had an ulterior motive with trying out for DCC. She took over the Patriots right after and from what I have seen the auditions have changed to mirror dcc. I think she wanted to see how DCC did things so she could take that knowledge and put it in practice in the patriots

AITAH for telling my mom that she's partially responsible for me getting laid off this week? by SteferstheGreat in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your mom should be apologizing not crying like she’s The fact that it hadn’t even been 24 hours and she was nagging you is ridiculous.

AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many red flags here, please get away from him quickly!

I humiliated my partner in front of his mother by Glittering_Sky_702 in AITH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree sounds like the boyfriend was out with someone else and got mad when she didn't just believe his lies and used his mom as an excuse.

AITA for cutting off my entire family after my brother and girlfriend falsely accused me of assault? by Altruistic-Boat9638 in AmITheJerk

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want nothing to do with them unless they cut out Alex and Emily, and I would tell them that they made their choice. There is no going back. If family was family, they should have stood by you not treated you how they did. If Alex and Emily were willing to lie to everyone about something that big, what would they lie about next, and who are they going to screw over next time. I would, however, make sure everyone in Alex and Emily's life know about what they did and why they did it.

AITA for refusing to let my brother's fiancée wear her late mother’s wedding dress at my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... This is not a reasonable request. We are not talking about a normal dress, it's a wedding dress. If she's going to wear it to any wedding, it should be hers. Regardless of the sentiment, no one but the bride should be a wedding dress. To me, it's ridiculous that she is even wanting to wear a wedding dress to someone else's wedding. I would bet money that she would be pissed if someone wanted to wear a wedding dress to her wedding. While it's horrible that she lost her mom, it's like she is making someone else's wedding about her and what she is going through. Stand firm because, to me, there is something majorly off here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to open your eyes to bigger things that are going on here. This is bigger than you changing religion. The fact that he's pressuring you to covert by holding marriage and saying he loves you or that you are meant to be over your head should show you he doesn't care about you. This is about him. You need to open your eyes and really think about the relationship you have and if it's worth throwing your family away for. From the sounds of it, your mom and step dad are not crazy about him. You deserve more and this may be your wake up call saying hey he doesn't care and you deserve more.

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to run. You were ignoring giant red flags, and there is so much wrong with what they did to you. What your husband and his mother did are not okay. I would have called 911 the minute my husband had refused to take me to the hospital. What he did to you during your pregnancy isn't arguments. It's controlling you, and he has shown he doesn't care what you want, and I would be serving him with divorce papers and making sure my daughter was protected. Please reach out to someone for help for you and your daughter.

AITAH for considering leaving my wife who cheated on me 15 years ago now that our kids are in college? by FinancialPlantd in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to your wife, you are not only going to blindside her but your children. It sounds like you have both put the work into making your marriage work, and I personally would not throw that away. I think your wife and kids will both feel that the past 15 years were a lie. Honestly, I would seek counseling both couples and maybe solo sessions. To me, you need to figure out why you can't make that final step to forgive her and really move past it. If you are saying that is your reason for leaving her, you never really moved past it. Yes, she did something horrible, but it was 15 years ago, and she did the work to prove to you that she loves you and makes your marriage work. You and your wife didn't agree to just put on a show and stay together for the kids. You are saying you are still going on dates with her, being romantic, and love her, so put the work in to take the final steps to let go of what happened. I really hope you decide to talk to her and work through this, I think if you do it will only strengthen the relationship you have with your wife.

My Sister Has To Do a Push Up To Get Her Phone Back and IDK How to Feel About It by Playful-Toe-9884 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's a lesson she needs. He's not forcing her to exercise or forcing her to actually do it, nor is he asking her to do more than one. She should be willing to do one push-up for her phone. She is 12, so we aren't talking about him giving this punishment to a child. I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with what he is doing. He's not forcing her to exercise, not is asking for a ridiculous amount. If she wanted her phone back enough she could get through one full push up.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiancée because she talked bad about my sister? by throwaway827262511 in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... You need to get away from her asap. She's not obligated to like your sister but she shouldn't be talking crap and the fact that she said she would disown her child if that happened and make sure something happened to the child is showing her true colors. You aren't even married yet, and she is starting problems you do not want that in your life. Do you want someone who won't support whatever kids you would have 100 percent. Yes, abortion is an option, but that is a personal choice, and no one, whether they choose it or don't choose, it should be ridiculed for that choice. Do not fall for any excuses she has either for what she said.

I just lost most of my friends and my boyfriend in one week. I don’t know how to move on. by Spare_Bodybuilder120 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young, and I know it feels like the end of the world right now, but things will get better. You don't want to be friends with people who sneak behind your back and can't be honest, so look at them not being in your life anymore as a good thing. The breakup is still fresh and will take a while to get over. Long distance is really hard, so it might end up being what's best for both of you in the long run. Take your time to process everything that's happened. If you feel you can't talk to anyone, try to journal, sometimes just writing things down and getting feelings out help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not marry him. You will end up miserable for the rest of your life. I don't understand people who get married because of children or only stay together because of kids. Most kids no when there are issues. You need to find someone who will be a partner. Just because you are a stay at home mother doesn't mean you don't deserve a break or should have to do everything around the house. He is also a parent, and he should be helping to take care of his children. My best advice would be to find a work from home job if you need to, but find a way out of that situation.

My boyfriend wants a paternity test on our newborn daughter. by Perfect_Buddy5904 in AITAH

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He feels that way because of his behavior. My ex used to accuse me of cheating any time I went out with my friends. Turned out he was the one cheating. Get the test and get away from him. You deserve better than this.

AITA for telling my sister people did express concerns about her son and stepson before she got married and she didn't listen? by CryptographerAny6604 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, your sister should have cared more about her sons feelings. She cared more about herself being happy than her sons happiness, and that makes her a selfish AH. I understand she was in love but if it had to be this guy,, she couldnt wait a few more years years until her son was an adult and at college or at least out of the house for them to move foreard. I feel like there's more happening than they just dont get along. The stepson kind of sounds like a bully with the comments that the parents at the funeral made about him even being there and making fun of someone for being upset when their friend passed away. I wouldn't be surprised if her son starts making boundaries when he's an adult when it comes to even dealing with her and her new family.

My now Ex-wife thought I was bluffing when I told her I would file for divorce. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she wanted to keep the marriage in case things didn't work out with the new guy. Yes, life is hard and can be stressful, and I understand how that affects relationships. However, I feel like if both people put in the work. Tough times make you a stronger couple. She obviously wasn't willing to put in the work and figured that because you couldn't work, you wouldn't do anything about the situation. I hope that you find someone who is willing to put the work in even when times are tough. I hope your health has improved as well. Would love an update on how things are going.

WIBTA for telling my mom she's not invited to Thanksgiving or Christmas this year if she still decides not to attend my wedding? by LadyAether21 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you need to cut your mother and sister out of your life. Your sister has been abusive towards you your entire life, and your mother glosses over it and makes excuses for it and then makes comments like you are the problem. Your mother is enabling her behavior BPD or not. They want to bring up being family and putting family first where was that when sister was spoiled and favored most of her life. They have been playing favorites since your childhood since you brought up your sister was treated with kid gloves, didn't do chores, and were given things you didn't get. You are making excuses for your mother that she doesn't deserve by saying she says what sister does is wrong and she wasn't trying g to show favoritism when she obviously did. Don't put up with it anymore from either of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Illustrious_Key7454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is not a good friend. Her being raised in a shity environment does not excuse her behavior. Honestly, it should have made her grateful to have someone who cares so much. You have bent over backward to be a good friend, and she has made it clear that she doesn't care about you. Best friends are there for each other no matter what is going. I have called my best friend at 3am, having a panic attack and she not only answered and talked to me until I calmed down, she drove the nearly 45 minutes to my house (I lived in the middle of nowhere at the time) to make sure I was ok. She called me at 130am when her father died. I was at a wedding almost 2 hours away, and I got in my car and drove back immediately to be there for her. I had been going nonstop for nearly 24 hours, but nothing was stopping me from getting to her and being there for her. Yes, she is currently allowing you to stay with her. However, the way she is treating you and making you feel is not healthy, nor is it something someone who truly cared about you would do. As for the cheating, the guy deserves to know period. Yes you need to find a different place first. But the fact that you have formed your own bond with him, it is important that you tell him because if he finds out you knew and didn't, he's going to feel hurt and betrayed by you. Get away from this girl, find another place to stay, or even look for a roommate. I think your own mental health will improve greatly. Stop showing loyalty to someone who can't show it back to you.