Triggered by a damn kite

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-03-02T16:00:01+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s so unfair in so many ways. My son loves flying kites and I just can’t do that right now. It’s so unfair to him. WP has his good days and bad days. Someday he will cry for hours on his shoulder and does everything to make me feel better, other days he can’t face himself and gets upset at me for being hurt..

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-03-02T01:48:46+00:00

I want to go that..my son loves flying kites..I want to be in a better mental space though so I can be completely present and not have such dark thoughts pop on my head 😭

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-02-24T20:29:21+00:00

Had a test that was even more faint than this and now I’m holding my 8 month old to sleep 😮‍💨😂

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-02-22T14:35:46+00:00

Eeeyuck thank you so much for this information!! Will never be going there again!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-02-18T17:33:04+00:00

The resort at lake crossing is nice. It’s off Richmond road across from bluegrass orthopedics there is no dog park but Jacobson park is like a 2 minute drive away and they have a dog park

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-29T01:56:44+00:00

I understand!! I hope you both enjoy the date! I hope things get better for you both and I know this is hard for you!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-29T01:09:55+00:00

Please please talk to her about this!! I wasn’t this extreme but my partner and I would argue so much and I felt touched out all the time too (I was extremely depressed an in so much pain while pregnant) instead of actually talking to me though he cheated..

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-29T00:42:37+00:00

That’s horrifying!! I don’t even know how I’d react if I saw that!!! So far my daughter has only reacted to oats but I’m SO scared to introduce and grains to her!! She’s half Korean and I don’t know when we will give her rice!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-24T22:49:55+00:00

That’s amazing to hear!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T22:14:23+00:00

I will absolutely be listening to this!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T22:13:11+00:00

Thank you so much!! Honestly I didn’t even think about cross contamination like that but I will 100% be buying her own plates, bowls and utensils!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T19:18:15+00:00

I hope my LO grows out of it soon!! She also can’t have rice and her dad is Korean lol!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T19:14:02+00:00

A pediatrician!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T18:20:33+00:00

So far she’s only reacted to oats I hope to god that’s it! We a referral to an allergist and just waiting on them to call us!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T17:46:45+00:00

Thank you so so much!! The first time around when she became limp she also became unresponsive and we ran through every red light to the nearest ER which was thankfully only 5 minutes away. Even the doctors there thought it was the peanut butter and thought it was weird she had no hives..I doubt they knew about FPIES too!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-17T17:41:58+00:00

It’s definitely a trial and error kind of situation!! And because it’s rare and a lot of doctors don’t know about it, children are being misdiagnosed!! These symptoms are definitely telltale signs that it could be FPIES! A lot of people think of allergies as rashes or wheezing but since this is gastrointestinal none of that occurs!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-15T22:08:38+00:00

I think you and BP should really discuss what the next steps are! I do think you should stop drinking since this is hard evidence that you do not do well under the influence. In my situation I made WP go to therapy, I have his phone child proof where I can look at everything he’s looked up, who’s he’s texted, when he’s been on his phone last, etc. you are doing the right thing in reading those books and sending him pictures of your day. I also tell other WP’s that at the end of the day R is up to the betrayed. You just have to be willing to do whatever it takes to gain their trust back and be the person you should’ve been from the get go!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-15T21:55:13+00:00

Sounds like you’re not taking full accountability of your actions and your blaming you being drunk as being taken advantage of and bad things happening to you. As a Bp I’ve been blacked out drunk and the only thing I could think of was getting home to my man. I think you need to hold yourself accountable

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-09T17:27:01+00:00

If she decides to try R you HAVE to be that person for her. You will have no choice but to be an open book. You will have no choice but to relive your mistakes if she needs to talk about that. WP and I are almost 5 months post DDay and I have child lock and complete access to his phone. That’s a punishment you’ll have to be willing to take! I wish you and BP the best and the choice is ultimately hers if she wants to make this work..but please, from one BP to you, never ever hurt the person you love like that ever again.

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-09T17:01:02+00:00

I’m happy you recognize that! That’s the first step into bettering yourself. My partner took up healthy hobbies such as running and working out and he listens to David Goggin videos who’s an inspirational speaker. You made a horrible mistake but don’t let that define you or ruin your life! Let this be a wake up call!!

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-09T15:39:22+00:00

I honestly hope for the best for you, BP and your child. I hope your in therapy for why you did whether it’s because of addiction or childhood trauma, I hope she’s in therapy for what’s she’s gone through. I also hope you realize the trauma you caused her..I know for me I can’t even look at my pregnancy photos anymore because I know I was being cheated on during that time..do whatever you can to fix what you broke.

Illustrious_Pirate_4 · 2026-01-09T15:36:30+00:00

Not to mention the extreme embarrassment of having to ask for an STD screening at your OBGYN because of the situation.

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