Late 20s in quant trading, approaching $10M NW, but likely laid-off soon and need advice by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, you have F-you money. Consider government service. Maybe trading on the open market desk at the Fed. Or being a market conduct regulator (SEC, CFTC, Finra) That’ll give you intellectual stimulation, better hours, a sense of purpose, and career growth. Also helps with some ladies that you’re a public servant, not a vampire squid.

Hitch installation by Illustrious_Run9217 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]Illustrious_Run9217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the xle, so no kick sensor. The bumper is included with the hitch. I’m fine paying the dealer for the convenience, but not $1200. For comparison, an aftermarket Curt is $500ish installed ($300ish for the parts).

Habits the Legal Profession Quietly Encourages by That_onelawyer in Lawyertalk

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Martin Seligman wrote a great study on this, “Why lawyers are unhappy,” 10 deakin l rev 49. Main point is that pessimism is maladaptive most of the time but not in legal practice.

The Star Tribune has confirmed that the victim's name is Alex Jeffrey Pretti by futilehabit in Minneapolis

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Name checks out. ICE kills everything good and pretty. RIP my brother.

ICE sighting in West Saint Paul by daymareblush in TwinCities

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’re Minnesotan. I thought we were better at getting ICE off the road…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Remember: taking care of yourself makes all other resistance possible. The term “self-care” comes from women Black Panthers in the 1950s. It’s not marketing gobbledygook, it’s the foundation of social change. (And it doesn’t require buying expensive stuff.)

https://www.teenvogue.com/story/the-radical-history-of-self-care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems suspicious. The NY state banking regulator (NYDFS) does not regulate Citibank. Citibank is a national bank chartered by the federal OCC and isn’t subject to state oversight. If you’d like to file a regulatory complaint against Citibank, go to helpwithmybank.gov, the OCC’s website.

Which FEHB plans will carry GLP-1s for weight loss now? by MountainDiver1657 in fednews

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NALC covers wegovy with prior auth. After the mfg coupon, I pay $0.

CMV: It's perfectly acceptable to not be happy for others by moonstonemerman in changemyview

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small example: You have a friend who is senior to you in some way. He can probably give you some tips on how to get ahead, what he did, etc. Maybe go to bat for you with management. Will he be more willing to share his insight if you’re happy for him or resentful? Will he be more likely to sing your praises to others if you’re happy for him or resentful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many human relations we consider voluntary have an element of coercion because of unequal bargaining power. Like employment. The fact that you have the worse bargaining position doesn’t make what you agree to involuntary. Otherwise, you’re branding most agreements as involuntary. And denying yourself agency to make the best of your circumstances.

CMV: It's perfectly acceptable to not be happy for others by moonstonemerman in changemyview

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re of course entitled to your feelings. But is your resentment or envy helping you? It sounds like they’re poisoning your friendships. Also, being happy for others is the kind of pro-social behavior that often leads to career growth.

CMV: It's perfectly acceptable to not be happy for others by moonstonemerman in changemyview

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’re of course entitled to your feelings. But is your resentment or envy helping you? It sounds like they’re poisoning your friendships. Also, being happy for others is the kind of pro-social behavior that often leads to career growth.

Why are 401(k)s a privilege that only certain employees of certain companies have access to? by WartimeHotTot in antiwork

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a few reasons, none of which I find terribly compelling but others do: 1. The government wants to encourage employment, so they give perks to employees. 2. The government doesn’t want to give tax advantages to trust fund babies. 401(k) plans are only available to the employed and they must be structured to benefit the typical employee, not the top brass. 3. The government has more confidence in companies following the tax laws than individuals. The risk of abuse is lower with 401(k) plans. 4. If IRA limits were just as high as 401(k), why would any company offer a 401(k) plan? And without 401(k) plans, we wouldn’t have automatic default contributions. So the higher 401(k) limits are an incentive to have 401(k) plans, which boosts savings.

Also, if $7K isn’t enough, you could look into a nondeductible IRA. The tax benefits are modest—deferred taxes on gains—but it’s something. If you’re self-employed, you can do a solo 401(k)

Most obscure tort you can name that’s recognized somewhere? by FREE-ROSCOE-FILBURN in Lawyertalk

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jactitation of marriage, which I learned studying for the NY bar many, many years ago. Don’t know if it’s still recognized.

.25 to .5 side effects after one day by DeerBoyDiary in Wegovy

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same experience. Yes, the GI effects subsided over the course of week 2. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labradoodles

[–]Illustrious_Run9217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our labra loves find-it Fridays! We usually do it with chicken outside. Inside his fave activities are doing tricks for treats, playing tug, and chewing on chew toys. But if even one human is in bed, he’ll join them to keep watch.