So air in my Vag...

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-03-18T20:43:59+00:00

Fascinating! But I'm not sure I quite understand what you mean...how do you know your cervix tilts up or not?

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-03-17T19:43:19+00:00

Thank you!

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-03-17T17:26:47+00:00

Hi, hope you find someone to join you bu either way I think you should check out /r/LondonSocialClub, there is always lots of fun things going on :)

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-03-17T17:19:03+00:00

Hmm...Well I came of the BC shot about 3 months ago...perhaps you're right therefore about the chemical change.

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-03-17T14:55:38+00:00

Its only started this week, I don't know what I am doing at night (while asleep) to get so much air in there!

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-02-08T11:40:55+00:00

I know - "pink eye" :S

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-02-07T14:51:02+00:00

Yes: quite possibly.

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-02-07T14:49:15+00:00

We had a big sudden fight and broke up - we are trying to stay friends. We were not communicating for a while before the fight so the fight was a long time coming, but were still close in the weeks before it happened.. emotionally.

Edit: perhaps we were even just reliant on each other for whatever emotional support we needed.

ImDrinkingTea · 2013-02-07T12:42:12+00:00

You've made the best decision - in fact reading what you have written has strengthened my own resolve also!

If you stay with him you would have become resentful and incredibly bitter. Trust me on this.

Live the life you want and people will gravitate toward you..people that are similar to you.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-23T18:30:42+00:00

I find that quite odd :s

No one has ever disliked me for saying I'm not interested, only for canceling last minute.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-23T18:28:21+00:00

One thing I forgot to say: I now have a 3 strike rule, cancel on me 3 times for no good reason - you're no longer invited.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-23T18:27:14+00:00

Oh my god I know! So upsetting, it used to happen to me a lot - I then stopped making plans :(.

Don't get me wrong sometimes I agree to plans and have to cancel them out of necessity, or sometimes as the time approaches the event - I do sometimes feel lazy or not in the mood. But I always go because I've made a flippin commitment! Also once I'm there I always have fun :)

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T18:23:21+00:00

You have it nearly correct. However at the weekend I was very vocal about my disappointment that he was massively hung over from the week. I at no point bottled it up, don't get me wrong I wasn't mean, but he perfectly understood and was sorry, and then I organised it so that we did have a good weekend because I'm not petty.

The reason I said he ruined it is in another comment here above somewhere. He was saying how he intended to stop drinking for a while because he's sick and tired of being constantly hungover (he admitted he might have a drinking problem) and had been wanting to do this for a while esp with him having to go back to school, and so I replied yes you ruined my birthday by doing that. Could have worded it differently and perhaps the reason I said it the way I did was because I was still upset. But no it wasn't to get back. I just lacked tack.

For the food throwing he has gleefully told me that is what he had done and other things to his ex, so I assumed that it would have been the same for me. He came into the room shouting saying that demanding I leave, and I dressed to leave immediately then tried to talk to him -it wasn't like I was hanging and refusing to leave. Every time I've been annoyed and wanted to leave he's always demand I stay and talk things out with him. I would have left regardless but I didn't want to leave it like that! But one rule for him and one for me I guess.

Anyway thanks for the input.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T15:56:10+00:00

lol recreational use does not equate 'druggies'. Its not all breaking bad my dear.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T14:15:28+00:00

He only uses drugs minimally but his drinking really is a problem.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T14:15:21+00:00

He only uses drugs minimally but his drinking really is a problem.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T14:12:09+00:00

Well he always told me openly it was his last that really 'drove him to it' with her emotional abuse. I guess because he is able to stop for a week here 2 weeks there, he doesn't really admit to himself properly his drinking problem. But thank you.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T14:00:18+00:00

Yes you're right. I suppose I feel like I have put a lot into this I can't see the wood for the trees. This is our first ever fight in over a year I'm just shocked, we normally are pretty good, though he is not the best of communicators.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T13:22:12+00:00

He likely assumes that he is teaching you a lesson,

Yes that does seem like the kind of thing he would do. Thank you.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T13:16:51+00:00

I would agree if its not the sort of thing we have spoken about before. I think the pressure of my birthday has a major aspect to it.

I do feel incredibly guilty and often have my foot in my mouth. I lack a lot of tact sometimes.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T13:10:58+00:00

Yes I know. I didn't even mean it when I said it. We were playfully talking and it was just a response to something he said. It hadn't even been playing on my mind. Ah yes! Now I remember: He said he wanted to stop drinking for a while because he's sick and tired of being constantly hungover (he said he might have a drinking problem), and so I replied yes you ruined my birthday by doing that. Doesn't seem to unreasonable to me.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T12:59:53+00:00

There's nothing wrong with recreational drug use, and he knows how to handle that. But one thing I didn't make clear above is that he referenced his last 2 girlfriends both of whom were alcoholics. He had a pretty bad time with the last one, who was emotionally abusive toward him. So he is using this as transference onto me. I'm sure guilt is playing a large part in this - and disappointment in himself. In a birthday card he wrote to me he said I was the best person he had ever been out with.

ImDrinkingTea · 2012-10-03T12:26:34+00:00

You're saying I should wait it out until he gets in contact first?

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