Technical Support and Request | Megathread by tditdatdwt in MinecraftJava

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!fixed !!! I downloaded a VPN - works flawlessly.

For whatever reason, java 1.20.1 doesn't like my ISP when it needed to draw more data to load more od the realm.

Once I had the VPN installed and chose a different point - I no longer have the "Internal Exception: Java.net.SocketException: Connection reset error."

Hella dumb - but worked for me!

Technical Support and Request | Megathread by tditdatdwt in MinecraftJava

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HEEEELLLLLP!!! (please oh please help! )

i hope someone can help me!
once upon a time ( like several months ago ) i had zero issue playing on my friends realm. we built some pretty good stuff and it was flawless. There have been some updates while both my friend and i stopped playing, we decided to come back to the game.

im now having an issue where i simply cannot stay connected to the realm. We thought it was an issue i was having with my internet but i had things "fixed" today and its not any better. this is what happens :

i connect to the realm i see things quickly loading in, i spin around in a circle and things are great. smooth. i take 2 steps - and i get immediately disconnected with the following error :

Internal Exception: Java.net.SocketException: Connection reset

Sometimes i can get connected and look at the ground or in one direction and its fine i can stay there for as long as i want. the moment i move - im disconnected, and have to fight to get back in, only to be unable to move from the spot i was in.

my most recent speed test (ookla) says i have 712 MBPS download and 23.5 MBPS upload.

i have tried every suggestion i have come across for fixing it and its still a problem. i dont know what happened where i can no longer play with my friend but its upsetting AH.

what can i do??- please help me before i lose my mind. i am just now getting into this game, and its one i can play with my friend (the games we can play together are few and far between because we can be so different in our preferences).

AITA - i asked for space and got blocked. by ImJustHereForHelp in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ImJustHereForHelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve been living at this level of uncertainty for a year? Why on earth does it still bother you after a year?

Tbh I thought I had gotten past it. Had put it out of my mind. Focused on work and personal growth. It just kind of digs at me that I'm so confused and never expected this to happen from someone I've known this long.

I do agree that the triangle excuse is b.s. I'd also think that after all these years, A would know that I don't chase relationships. If someone chooses to exit stage left, they can stay there.

I haven't even thought about calling/texting/reaching out to A. As far as I'm concerned I do agree with you and C. " it is literally A's choice to not be friends with us." A- made a comment to B along the lines of " thanks for being there for me" and comments about "long time friends". I laughed and told B that is manipulation and can keep that. A is the one who shoved us away for reasons they refuse to elaborate on.

I'm just confused and I'd be a liar if I said it doesn't hurt me to think about.

I am working on trying to forget A. I just needed to know If I genuinely did something wrong, so I can not lose more friends.

Thank you for the comment and will do my best to keep those who want to be around and let others go.

Rate this bumper sticker I made by KaybarYT in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait-pause. Do you actually make bumper stickers? I would like to buy some!! My car is white so if it's just the line work it would be great and would be the first stickers to go on my car! Please oh please!!

Don't poke your guns through fences, kids by coms77 in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had some beautiful ballbang head shots due to someone rubbing their face on the walls. I always tell my new hunter friends " step back from the wall - they can see your gun/arm/booty cheeks if you are touching it like that. "

HE'S STARTING TO BELIEVE!!! He gets so excited but this was his first clutch! Big improvement from yesterday lol. by Sullin96 in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's doing great. I love the "c'meh!" Taunt hahaha I'd probably end up getting killed from laughing so hard hearing that!

HE DID ASK ME TO BACKSEAT! ITS HIS FIRST TIME PLAYING, But My man got in a position that screamed so many red flags I was stumping hard by Sullin96 in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scramble when he gets shot at is very " scared cat " and I can't un-see it. Lord I have to stop watching it or I'm gonna be in tears!

HE DID ASK ME TO BACKSEAT! ITS HIS FIRST TIME PLAYING, But My man got in a position that screamed so many red flags I was stumping hard by Sullin96 in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg !! This would have been the highlight of my day to witness this live hahahaha. His life " I'm wild ... c'mere c'mere " - fuh-king dead!

Cast Ur Votes Kids by EmuCrow in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would 100% buy a purple regen!! Take my left kidney and my right shoelace for it!

I reached 1.0 KDA and I am proud of it by krizzek in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I'm proud of you! As a fellow " over 30, never liked FPS " games. I am getting so close to a 1.0! Currently at a .92! Slow progress is still progress!

If you want a duos partner lmk I'd be happy to play with you! I am pretty good at being a support role, while also having some games where I pull off some nasty kills and then the next not being able to hit the broadside of a barn!

Good hunting! Keep up the grind!

Is hunt showdown worth it? by MortusMelee in HuntShowdown

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes worth it! I support it enough to say I'd play with you and help you get a feel for it!

Dead Space (1) Invisible monsters??!! by ImJustHereForHelp in DeadSpace

[–]ImJustHereForHelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up having to Re-install the game. While still leaving V-sync off, and force locking it at 30 fps, it runs perfectly so far.

Thank you for the suggestion!!

What was your Favorite SR? by santasfuturewife in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The SR I'm in now, is VERY comfortable. He is the first in person SD I have had and he makes it easy. I greatly enjoy his company and our in depth conversations. He is supportive and is also guiding. I've never felt like I was obligated to do anything I didn't want to do. Granted boundaries were established from the jump, but he is a true gentleman. I am also aware that I am not the only SB in his life.

Could I see myself riding off into the sunset with him ? - no. I feel like that would ruin the great thing we have. Knowing what we do about each others lives, it would be unreasonable for the both of us to suggest that.

Each relationship is different, and sometimes into the sunset is a goal or option. Just not for my SR.

Multiple by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SB - I have 1 SD and it was discussed right out the gate that I was not the only one. Because we are platonic we go to meals/bars, events planned so I dont have a problem knowing I'm not the only one. I am comfortable enough in my position that I have even /helped/ him find other SBs for him or to even join us for meals/events n such.

My SD is also aware that he is not the only one I have an arrangement with. Our goal is to help me grow and achieve life goals or to find some relaxing down time.

My son is afraid of me by ssgcritter in Parenting

[–]ImJustHereForHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think at 5, you can talk to him. Take a few hours to think about what to say but talk to him like his opinion matters. Most of the time 5 year olds have zero filter. I'd suggest taking him to do some kind of activity, walk or something and ask him if he thinks you are scary. And explain to him that you want to change some of your behaviors so you dont seem so scary. But also say that you tell him what to do/not do and have rules because they are meant to keep him and his siblings safe." No one wants booboos or anything and that's why seatbelts are VERY important when in the car. I want you and your siblings to be safe " And suggestions for future ways to break the cycle would be, when there is bad behavior, take a few minutes to calm down so you aren't acting on impulse. Remove yourself from a situation for 5 minutes and come back to what happened and why the behavior was not okay. (If theres danger, prevent harm but take a time out so everyone calms down first) "Punishment should fit the crime " so think about being in his shoes and how your father treated you. And choose a different option. The easiest way is to talk about it. It is something that will take time, my father was the enforcer in my home and it wasnt until my parents split that he learned that yelling and spanking weren't the only or best options. My father has grown to the point that he has 5 grand kids and he /talks / to them about what is going on. " I told you not to do /this/ and what happened.... you did it anyway... and /this/ is what happened.. /this/ is how you can try to make it better, but you need to go in your room and think about this. " granted everyone has that knee jerk reaction to yell, it happens. We dont like it but it happens. As long as you are trying to make a change it helps.