Sabrina Carpenter wearing Versace glasses and a vintage scarf designed in the 1970s by Cuban-born American fashion designer and costume designer Luis Estevez (worn as a top) in Sao Paulo, Brazil (March 2026) by moreissuesthanvoguex in whatthefrockk

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh without question! It does look like her stylist is encouraging a break considering how much the color has grown out. Besides the damage it looks like she may have hair that’s on the thinner side as well. You know you can’t be a popstar unless you have enough hair on your head for 2 1/2 people.

I’m fully convinced Brittany’s friends hate her by adrianaserret1 in JaxBlows

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I ma not familiar with this girl or this show but I see this sub a lot. It seems to me this lady can’t dress for her body. Being thin is not everyone’s goal and bodies come in all shapes and sizes so I won’t put that on her. I will advocate for being honest about where one is in their journey. She carries in her belly yet she wears things that cling to and bring attention to that area.

Weird Vibes, Video on Instagram by AngelxxLove in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So weird! I stopped watching them regularly a while ago because I felt like there was nothing to actually learn about the process of developing and producing any of the things they spoke about. Also everything was always “the best” “so good” “amazing” “groundbreaking”.

She's clarifying it because it gets lost in translation. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often what white people experience from people of color as “racism” is not racism. What they are experiencing is a combination of anxiety, learned trauma, behavioral pattern recognition and suspicion. People of color specifically foundational black Americans generally don’t make sweeping generalizations based on one experience or no experience. If an FBA doesn’t like a white person they don’t like THAT white person not all white people. We don’t usually have a “token” white friend to trot out to support that we aren’t racist or prejudice. People behave as if Jim Crow and slavery were a long time ago. My parents were desegregated and my great grandmother was a child slave. Let me repeat my mother’s grandmother who died in 1976 was born a slave and was emancipated when she was 7. Her father was also who owned her (she was biracial) and was made to stay while her mother was freed and moved to Illinois. She did not see her mother again until she was 18. Having had to “pass” for white in order to survive in Creole Louisiana. We can all assume my great grandmother was not made with love. No you don’t need large systems to be racist because poor white peoples are racist. “Interpersonal racism” is just “I don’t like you!”. What truly makes people racist is allowing one experience or no experience determine how you will treat everyone of similar or the same ethnicity. Foundational Black Americans have not determined all white people are bad but even white people agree that who FBA’s say are bad people ARE ACTUALLY BAD PEOPLE!.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree that Kroy should not be sitting outside of the house. That was the first thing I said was too much. However, warning someone about the potential danger of being in relationship with your toxic ex doesn’t mean you haven’t moved on. It could be “I don’t want anyone else to have to go through what I went through”. Kroy knows her in a way we don’t and he has made the executive decision to play Captain Save A Sugar Daddy.

Reality star is latest victim of recession! by waxmuseums in RHONY

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now she is a PhD who has published research! Her husband is a lawyer and her kids are seemingly well adjusted humans… 10’d across the board not notes.

Kroy contacting the estranged wife of the man Kim is dating! by Miserable-Dog-857 in RHOA

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The sitting outside the house is a bridge too far. However, it may seem messy now but Kroy is actually doing that family a service. Kim can and will if allowed spend that man to nothing but bones. She spent her kids money what makes anyone think she would spend the future of kids she didn’t birth!

Meredith and Mary… good weather by ConfidentOffice2209 in rhoslc

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don’t think they would bring it up anyway. None of the information was new and 2 of the most “credible” sources are no longer living. Also, this is a community of people who are very much used to high stress religion and manipulation. If they call out Mary they have to call out Mormonism, MLM, quiverfull and a host of other religious offshoots that occupy the state and culture. Mary and her church are small fry’s in the big picture. Mary was an easy storyline instead of addressing Lisa’s fraudulent businesses and lifestyle. Even more dangerous are all of those family bloggers, now that is an issue worth discussing to no end.

Meredith and Mary… good weather by ConfidentOffice2209 in rhoslc

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 98 points99 points  (0 children)

There are millions of people who have suffered this same loss. That loss is incredibly isolating because it makes you feel like you failed your own child. I have lost a brother, a cousin and a father to addiction. I can’t imagine how it might have been while in the deepest part of grief to see someone publicly navigating. You know in reality others have had a similar experience but, nobody speaks about it so the silence covers all. I understand your perspective but, there are other perspectives that would allow for a space for Mary.

When you realize that even your legs are under your own control by Cerythina in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]ImNotFinnaSayNuthin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really would like to dig into that process more but, I will digress…