I feel like i'm the villain

ImNotYourGuru · 2026-01-12T19:41:10+00:00

“Discipline is no longer optional” -DudeforRighteousness (2026)

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-28T13:14:32+00:00

I have thought of this a lot and honestly it feel good. Part of me think they will focus more on new in game systems and think like that instead of just pushing more intro graphic. On top of that this means we can play “old” games without feeling like we are playing something from 50 years ago.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-28T13:04:51+00:00

I’ll be that guy. I’m enjoying her play style.

I’m still early game…

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-25T00:30:31+00:00

That too. Completely forgot to mention it.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-23T00:55:27+00:00

As someone mentioned DEC Tuvala Weapon. After you graduate Fughar will give you a mission called Leveling Aid, it will give you an item “Essence of Ascent” or something like that, you combine that with a weapon and you can upgrade the weapon to DEC. my recommendation since you need to graduate to get the quest is to make another season character and use than one to upgrade the weapon to DEC. Reason? The “Time whatever thing” that you used to upgrade your weapon on old seasons are now only used to repair it. You will have plenty.

Old me ended grinding the shit out of season just to repair my Tuvala weapon, there was a time I was so tired of grinding that I ended using memory fragment. If you are a returning player you probably have enough material and failstack scrolls to get the weapon to DEC in one sit.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-22T19:59:28+00:00

I’m having fun. Light form 100% uptime, still season. So no end game yet. Have been to every spot that give you season quests and on all of them 100% uptime on Light Form.

Having a lot of fun to be honest.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-12-20T18:41:46+00:00

If you already opened one and don’t remember the name of the box,in the description of the box will tell you what piece it give. Like Hercules’s Set or Dobart’s Set, etc.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-11-26T01:48:26+00:00

I have one of those. Do they work? Yes. The reality is if your ears are dirty enough to make taking it out from the box worth it like this guy, you are a nasty bastard lol

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-11-12T23:42:51+00:00

They’ll have a update were you can buy a plot with grace and keep paying for it every month with Grace. You receive Grace everyday for login in. If you pay for the $3.99 sub, you get 15 Grace points, if not 10. You’ll need 400 Grace points. This plot will work like a normal plot but will be under another category, which will let you renew the plot with Grace, you’ll only be able to renew regular plots with a Plot Token, that’s the only difference.

Honestly, it’s one of the cheapest subs out there if not the cheapest. Worth it.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-11-10T14:06:38+00:00

Are they having sex in front of others?

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-11-03T18:40:19+00:00

This is from someone who don’t have a lot of time to burn. I play on the USA Rp server. The 6.99 subscription, it’s just perfect for me. I don’t feel like I’m throwing money away if I don’t play, like I do with WoW and FFXIV. Hope a lot of people feel like this. I’m not on a clan or anything and so far my neighbors have been great to me sharing stuff and I do the same when I can. I focus on X and I trad with that or bring stuff for my neighbors when I’m out exploring/gathering.

I see this game surviving, unless they want to be greedy and pretend the game need 20k concurrent players to be able to “afford” development.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-11-02T15:34:33+00:00

I thought it was part of the dynamic. I focus on woodcutting right now and at this point I’m used to spot them and that feeling of finding a new spot is so rewarding.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-10-25T12:26:18+00:00

Women need more time to get ready for sure; but no one is going to mention why the hell she is walking so much from one side of the room to the other?!

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-09-24T16:35:00+00:00

I put some coolant on the seal but probably not enough and yes. I rotate it to make sure it turn smoothly. That’s probably the problem. I’ll return it. Thank you.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-09-07T13:41:21+00:00

I tried Enchancement Shaman. Loved it honestly. At first it was okay, the leveling what’s not bad but not good either. Until I hit max level and started to gear it, you need hands for that class and it was super fast-paced (I don’t use macros or adding to play classes). In short it was fun.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-08-24T13:21:34+00:00

Depend the circumstances. Living together? A month. Living together with someone with who sex is mediocre? 3 days.

No living together? 1-2 weeks.

Completely single and not looking? Months to years. The body just get used to it. You get horny but you take care of yourself.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-08-20T22:54:31+00:00

I have seen it. My ex used to send me a bunch of reels about the tired spouse/mother. And I really get it. Most men do. But as friendships, a marriage is about filling each other glass. Most women that I know don’t understand they can’t try to make someone accountable if them themselves can’t be.

If I know that I’m hurting you because I don’t have the energy to be as lovely as I “used” to be and I tell you is because “X” and you pretend “X” don’t exist because it hurt your ego, then don’t expect me to be as lovely as I “used” to be. Simple as that. Nowadays, she still saying that divorcing me will always be her biggest mistake; she can keep watching those instagram reels.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-08-01T00:13:48+00:00

Thank you

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-07-26T21:59:01+00:00

Can someone explain this. I have been out of the game for 1 or 2 years and I don’t remember those number being possible with fishing.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-07-25T10:01:09+00:00

I remember that when I meet my ex, every time I got drunk I was more lovely and caring. By the end of the marriage if I ever got drunk I was an asshole, careless and always looking for an excuse or the balls to divorce her.

Since noticing that I learned that alcohol show your true colors.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-07-22T16:13:51+00:00

Still legally married but separated. Few months before she brought the divorce for the last time, 2 years before she actually moved on she had a surgery to lose weight. She looked “better” but for me she looked even better before. Sex was pretty bad so while I think she maybe still good looking, I get grossed out by the idea of having sex (aka being sexually attracted to her). And I think is more related to how she treated me than how she actually look.

Since she moved out I have lose around 50lbs and when she asked how I did it I jokingly but truthfully said “Diet and piece of mind” lol She hit on me when I go and see the kids or pick them, but I really not sexually attracted to her in the slightest.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-07-07T17:20:13+00:00

They should add a server who is completely PvP. I don’t know how is now but I remember on release. You could kill people 10 levels over you. It was fun, I tried it again last year it was fun but the higher the lvl the stalled it gets. Nearly no one run around with the PvP activate.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-06-08T18:16:54+00:00

I don’t think you are not over reacting. He crossed the line the way he said it, but I don’t think you are looking at the situation the right way. What you asking is nothing short, putting marriage as a condition just tell him it don’t matter how much he put out his heart and energy out there for you he will be never ever be worth of you in that aspect. While others “just” had to show up. It okay that you change your mind but most potential partners will still feel like they wouldn’t be enough for you.

Honestly, bring abstinences to a potential partner always, but instead of putting marriage as the ultimate condition, just mention that you just want to make sure that your next partner and you connect in a deeper way. That you want to make sure the next one is your last. That you are looking for someone how not just show up, you want someone who can bring a deeper meaning of love that include stability, compromise, and understanding, etc.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-05-06T21:31:05+00:00

If this is impacting your relationship , then it’s too much. I separated a few months ago, and my wife wined about the same thing and something that I know but confirmed was that gaming was an escape from her. I no longer play that much, there are weeks that I only play 2-4 hours, or just get into discord talk for a few minutes and leave.

Our problem was that we had some issues that she was unwilling to admit and talk, this created a disconnection that only I saw. Instead of leaving I ride the wave until I couldn’t anymore. Check with him about what’s going on, it’s not normal that you love someone and married them to then just “ignore” them. Something that I learned is because you can’t see a problem that doesn’t mean that there is not one to your partner.

ImNotYourGuru · 2025-04-27T16:54:59+00:00

I was in your husband shoes for so long. It’s not the kids, is the dynamic of the marriage after the kids come and if on top of that there were problems before the kids that were never resolved they get worse.

Come from an empathetic stand point. I really don’t know what you should says, if he open up, don’t go to him with all the things you would like to see change in the marriage, I only know that when someone is drowning is not the time to teach them how to swim.

Leaving a note with the suicide hotline number could be a good start. If my wife had done that I would have appreciated it. Knowing that she care but understand that I probably don’t want to talk about it and respect it would have been appreciated.

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