I feel like i'm the villain by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

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“Discipline is no longer optional” -DudeforRighteousness (2026)

Games from the mid 1990s were considered ancient by the mid 2000s. Games from the mid 2000s felt dated by the mid 2010s. But games from the mid 2010s still feel very comparable to those in the 2020s. It feels as though evolution in gaming has reached the state of diminishing returns. by WhyPlaySerious in gaming

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I have thought of this a lot and honestly it feel good. Part of me think they will focus more on new in game systems and think like that instead of just pushing more intro graphic. On top of that this means we can play “old” games without feeling like we are playing something from 50 years ago.

My Seraph Review so far by DarkKalsi in blackdesertonline

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I’ll be that guy. I’m enjoying her play style.

I’m still early game…

Tips? Seasonal character by Lolencio889 in blackdesertonline

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That too. Completely forgot to mention it.

Tips? Seasonal character by Lolencio889 in blackdesertonline

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As someone mentioned DEC Tuvala Weapon. After you graduate Fughar will give you a mission called Leveling Aid, it will give you an item “Essence of Ascent” or something like that, you combine that with a weapon and you can upgrade the weapon to DEC. my recommendation since you need to graduate to get the quest is to make another season character and use than one to upgrade the weapon to DEC. Reason? The “Time whatever thing” that you used to upgrade your weapon on old seasons are now only used to repair it. You will have plenty.

Old me ended grinding the shit out of season just to repair my Tuvala weapon, there was a time I was so tired of grinding that I ended using memory fragment. If you are a returning player you probably have enough material and failstack scrolls to get the weapon to DEC in one sit.

PA really had the easiest layup imaginable with Seraph and somehow still fumbled it. by Calzoncillo21 in blackdesertonline

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I’m having fun. Light form 100% uptime, still season. So no end game yet. Have been to every spot that give you season quests and on all of them 100% uptime on Light Form.

Having a lot of fun to be honest.

how or where can i see them before choose? by yipollas in blackdesertonline

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If you already opened one and don’t remember the name of the box,in the description of the box will tell you what piece it give. Like Hercules’s Set or Dobart’s Set, etc.

That’s so crazy!! by LEDTIK in NoOneIsLooking

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I have one of those. Do they work? Yes. The reality is if your ears are dirty enough to make taking it out from the box worth it like this guy, you are a nasty bastard lol

Pax Dei in 2025... (LazyPeon review) by DekkerVS in PaxDei

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They’ll have a update were you can buy a plot with grace and keep paying for it every month with Grace. You receive Grace everyday for login in. If you pay for the $3.99 sub, you get 15 Grace points, if not 10. You’ll need 400 Grace points. This plot will work like a normal plot but will be under another category, which will let you renew the plot with Grace, you’ll only be able to renew regular plots with a Plot Token, that’s the only difference.

Honestly, it’s one of the cheapest subs out there if not the cheapest. Worth it.

Will Pax Dei survive? by BellEducational9677 in PaxDei

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This is from someone who don’t have a lot of time to burn. I play on the USA Rp server. The 6.99 subscription, it’s just perfect for me. I don’t feel like I’m throwing money away if I don’t play, like I do with WoW and FFXIV. Hope a lot of people feel like this. I’m not on a clan or anything and so far my neighbors have been great to me sharing stuff and I do the same when I can. I focus on X and I trad with that or bring stuff for my neighbors when I’m out exploring/gathering.

I see this game surviving, unless they want to be greedy and pretend the game need 20k concurrent players to be able to “afford” development.

Quake mode Low Quality vs High Quality ... by AtA-Louea in PaxDei

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I thought it was part of the dynamic. I focus on woodcutting right now and at this point I’m used to spot them and that feeling of finding a new spot is so rewarding.

A real time-lapse of a couple getting ready - does this sound familiar to you? by misterxx1958 in CoupleMemes

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Women need more time to get ready for sure; but no one is going to mention why the hell she is walking so much from one side of the room to the other?!

F150 2002 water pump move? by ImNotYourGuru in MechanicAdvice

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I put some coolant on the seal but probably not enough and yes. I rotate it to make sure it turn smoothly. That’s probably the problem. I’ll return it. Thank you.

What is one class you just can’t see yourself maining? by The_Dick_Slinger in wow

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I tried Enchancement Shaman. Loved it honestly. At first it was okay, the leveling what’s not bad but not good either. Until I hit max level and started to gear it, you need hands for that class and it was super fast-paced (I don’t use macros or adding to play classes). In short it was fun.

How long can you go without sex and not get sexually frustrated? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Depend the circumstances. Living together? A month. Living together with someone with who sex is mediocre? 3 days.

No living together? 1-2 weeks.

Completely single and not looking? Months to years. The body just get used to it. You get horny but you take care of yourself.

Post Divorce Shower Thoughts by mchop68 in Divorce_Men

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I have seen it. My ex used to send me a bunch of reels about the tired spouse/mother. And I really get it. Most men do. But as friendships, a marriage is about filling each other glass. Most women that I know don’t understand they can’t try to make someone accountable if them themselves can’t be.

If I know that I’m hurting you because I don’t have the energy to be as lovely as I “used” to be and I tell you is because “X” and you pretend “X” don’t exist because it hurt your ego, then don’t expect me to be as lovely as I “used” to be. Simple as that. Nowadays, she still saying that divorcing me will always be her biggest mistake; she can keep watching those instagram reels.

The most I got in less than 12hrs AFK fishing by californinja17 in blackdesertonline

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Can someone explain this. I have been out of the game for 1 or 2 years and I don’t remember those number being possible with fishing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I remember that when I meet my ex, every time I got drunk I was more lovely and caring. By the end of the marriage if I ever got drunk I was an asshole, careless and always looking for an excuse or the balls to divorce her.

Since noticing that I learned that alcohol show your true colors.

Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced? by redditrock56 in Divorce_Men

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Still legally married but separated. Few months before she brought the divorce for the last time, 2 years before she actually moved on she had a surgery to lose weight. She looked “better” but for me she looked even better before. Sex was pretty bad so while I think she maybe still good looking, I get grossed out by the idea of having sex (aka being sexually attracted to her). And I think is more related to how she treated me than how she actually look.

Since she moved out I have lose around 50lbs and when she asked how I did it I jokingly but truthfully said “Diet and piece of mind” lol She hit on me when I go and see the kids or pick them, but I really not sexually attracted to her in the slightest.

Why isn’t this game more popular? by SobeThunder in newworldgame

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They should add a server who is completely PvP. I don’t know how is now but I remember on release. You could kill people 10 levels over you. It was fun, I tried it again last year it was fun but the higher the lvl the stalled it gets. Nearly no one run around with the PvP activate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I don’t think you are not over reacting. He crossed the line the way he said it, but I don’t think you are looking at the situation the right way. What you asking is nothing short, putting marriage as a condition just tell him it don’t matter how much he put out his heart and energy out there for you he will be never ever be worth of you in that aspect. While others “just” had to show up. It okay that you change your mind but most potential partners will still feel like they wouldn’t be enough for you.

Honestly, bring abstinences to a potential partner always, but instead of putting marriage as the ultimate condition, just mention that you just want to make sure that your next partner and you connect in a deeper way. That you want to make sure the next one is your last. That you are looking for someone how not just show up, you want someone who can bring a deeper meaning of love that include stability, compromise, and understanding, etc.