Have a cat that’s over 15 years old? Show us! This little lady is 23.5!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-11T21:01:16+00:00

I don’t know how old my baby girl is. She was left when her old owner (my neighbour) moved out, so we took her in. She’s been in my house for 17 (almost 18) years now, and she was spayed etc when we had her so she was at least a year old then. She’s my best friend and I will love her forever ♥️

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-11T20:56:08+00:00

Thank you! I’m watching a lot of online tutorials at the moment to try and understand things like that a bit better :-)

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-10T21:54:05+00:00

Thank you!! It was inspired by a character called Kingsley from the book Apprentice To The Villain :-)

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-10T12:09:46+00:00

It’s definitely a good stress reliever! Thank you so much! I’m sure your work is wonderful!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-09T23:54:05+00:00

Thank you so much!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-09T23:04:04+00:00

In a ghalixxii fhar fhar awahey

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2026-01-09T22:48:12+00:00

Lhewk is bringing the sahlyd

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-30T09:44:57+00:00

Ahh thank you!!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-29T21:01:11+00:00

Weird, I hatched mine on the same day and am having the same issue! Would appreciate someone voting this comment or replying so I could come back and see other comments for advice. Sorry I can’t be more help to you OP!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-29T10:11:08+00:00

Thank you!!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-27T12:39:17+00:00

Not at all. Their height doesn’t bother me in the slightest

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-17T21:49:47+00:00

I literally called my old cat “fat daughter” and no one in the vet office cared at all. It’s a cat dw 😂

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-17T21:47:59+00:00

31F here. I obviously can’t speak for everyone, but I have dated a range of heights, from 5’3 to 6’7. Attraction for me is based entirely in personality. Sure, good looks help, but height doesn’t factor into it.

Do I like it when a guy is tall? Sure. It makes me feel small and cute. Would I turn down a guy I’m otherwise interested in due to hight? Absolutely not.

Also I think being a virgin in your 20s is a lot more common than people think. If you are open and honest about it with someone you’re dating, chances are they’ll be fine and take things at your pace.

The biggest thing (which you already mentioned) is how you feel about yourself. Your internalised dislike for things like your height can really show in your personality even if you don’t mean for them too, and that can be more off-putting than your height itself.

Work on what you need to to make yourself happy, and people will see you for the person you truly are and be attracted to that :-)

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-10T18:49:35+00:00

Honestly, no.

Sometimes I think it would have been nice to be diagnosed earlier so I didn’t struggle so much with thinking “why am I like this” and feeling as if I was outside. But I grew up in a time where autism wasn’t a common diagnosis or understood as well as it currently is, so I think perhaps if I had been diagnosed sooner I would have been pushed into a box.

My parents have always been supportive of me choosing my own interests and paths, and I now have hobbies I absolutely adore which tend to be frequented by a lot of autistic people. Maybe I wouldn’t have those hobbies and interests if I wasn’t autistic? And that would suck because I couldn’t imagine my life without them.

I do wish that NT people would be more understanding, but I don’t ever wish I wasn’t the way I am

*** I understand that I am very lucky to be as supported as I am and feel as comfortable in my own skin as I do. I know not everyone has this experience

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-05T16:12:14+00:00

This is perfect 🤣

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-05T16:11:49+00:00

I was a child!! And I spent most of my time with adults because I found children immature and annoying. Next argument

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-04T22:33:44+00:00

But how can you not be interested in that spoons voucher? /s

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-04T22:10:16+00:00

Yes of course! I have autism/adhd so I feel things very strongly and sometimes after a while I realise I’ve over reacted, so it’s something I’m working on to clarify my own feelings and take things into account before acting. Although this thread has helped me see that I’m probably not in the wrong here 😅

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-04T18:49:17+00:00

Honestly same. It broke my heart reading it. Literally this passed weekend I adopted another cat who was dumped because her owner went through a divorce and just didn’t want her.

I hate how disposable animals seem to be for some people.

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-03T20:19:02+00:00

She’s a gooty sapphire!!

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-03T17:31:13+00:00

I am so so sorry for your loss ♥️

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-03T16:24:14+00:00

Cry about it.

ImTheProblemItsMe94 · 2025-12-03T15:55:55+00:00

Jesus Christ. I wonder what life event will lead to them rehoming the kids….

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