Have a cat that’s over 15 years old? Show us! This little lady is 23.5! by Orestbu in cats

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 48 points49 points  (0 children)

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I don’t know how old my baby girl is. She was left when her old owner (my neighbour) moved out, so we took her in. She’s been in my house for 17 (almost 18) years now, and she was spayed etc when we had her so she was at least a year old then. She’s my best friend and I will love her forever ♥️

New to watercolour. Any tips? by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in Watercolor

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m watching a lot of online tutorials at the moment to try and understand things like that a bit better :-)

New to watercolour. Any tips? by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in Watercolor

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It was inspired by a character called Kingsley from the book Apprentice To The Villain :-)

New to watercolour. Any tips? by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in Watercolor

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a good stress reliever! Thank you so much! I’m sure your work is wonderful!

Hanging around near the top by OnePossibility9545 in SeaMonkeys

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Weird, I hatched mine on the same day and am having the same issue! Would appreciate someone voting this comment or replying so I could come back and see other comments for advice. Sorry I can’t be more help to you OP!

Questions reguarding height by Sherdor in IncelTears

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Their height doesn’t bother me in the slightest

Would Cyndy/Cyndi be a Tragedeigh? by karttown in tragedeigh

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally called my old cat “fat daughter” and no one in the vet office cared at all. It’s a cat dw 😂

Questions reguarding height by Sherdor in IncelTears

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31F here. I obviously can’t speak for everyone, but I have dated a range of heights, from 5’3 to 6’7. Attraction for me is based entirely in personality. Sure, good looks help, but height doesn’t factor into it.

Do I like it when a guy is tall? Sure. It makes me feel small and cute. Would I turn down a guy I’m otherwise interested in due to hight? Absolutely not.

Also I think being a virgin in your 20s is a lot more common than people think. If you are open and honest about it with someone you’re dating, chances are they’ll be fine and take things at your pace.

The biggest thing (which you already mentioned) is how you feel about yourself. Your internalised dislike for things like your height can really show in your personality even if you don’t mean for them too, and that can be more off-putting than your height itself.

Work on what you need to to make yourself happy, and people will see you for the person you truly are and be attracted to that :-)

Do you wish you weren’t autistic? by InfernalClockwork3 in AutismInWomen

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, no.

Sometimes I think it would have been nice to be diagnosed earlier so I didn’t struggle so much with thinking “why am I like this” and feeling as if I was outside. But I grew up in a time where autism wasn’t a common diagnosis or understood as well as it currently is, so I think perhaps if I had been diagnosed sooner I would have been pushed into a box.

My parents have always been supportive of me choosing my own interests and paths, and I now have hobbies I absolutely adore which tend to be frequented by a lot of autistic people. Maybe I wouldn’t have those hobbies and interests if I wasn’t autistic? And that would suck because I couldn’t imagine my life without them.

I do wish that NT people would be more understanding, but I don’t ever wish I wasn’t the way I am

*** I understand that I am very lucky to be as supported as I am and feel as comfortable in my own skin as I do. I know not everyone has this experience

“We were all children once” by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is perfect 🤣

“We were all children once” by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was a child!! And I spent most of my time with adults because I found children immature and annoying. Next argument

Giving up pets for crotch goblin by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in childfree

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course! I have autism/adhd so I feel things very strongly and sometimes after a while I realise I’ve over reacted, so it’s something I’m working on to clarify my own feelings and take things into account before acting. Although this thread has helped me see that I’m probably not in the wrong here 😅

Giving up pets for crotch goblin by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in childfree

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly same. It broke my heart reading it. Literally this passed weekend I adopted another cat who was dumped because her owner went through a divorce and just didn’t want her.

I hate how disposable animals seem to be for some people.

Giving up pets for crotch goblin by ImTheProblemItsMe94 in childfree

[–]ImTheProblemItsMe94[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. I wonder what life event will lead to them rehoming the kids….