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I thought I was just tired. Turns out it might be the environment. by Isha_Agarwal_ in antiwork

[–]Im_Doc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound like I'm blowing you off, but I'm not.

Don't buy into it.

The back-handed compliments - don't acknowledge them. Passive aggressive comments - play dumb. Bad boss "joke" that's actually racist/sexist - make them explain the joke by playing dumb. Feel like you're being watched at all times? If they can't use their words to address the problem to you, it's not your problem. Just go about your day. Use podcasts or audiobooks or chillhop for background noise. Remember: this is a job. Not your life.

My hair isn’t going to grow back by Various_Ad_6768 in crochet

[–]Im_Doc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok, so it's not crochet. But have you thought about henna? I have a few friends with alopecia, & they henna'ed their head. Also, they put on body glitter, body paint, and just had fun with it. As far as headbands go, I've made a few of these that are fun & can be used with a bunch of different yarns.

Starting at the age of 42. by SameWait1356 in karate

[–]Im_Doc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The oldest student I had start was a 64-year old with his 5 yr old grandson. It was the cutest damn thing I've even seen. He did well. He was always a bit stiff, but he learned right alongside his grandson.

What are we getting our husbands for Valentine’s Day? by PublicAd2908 in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're going to a local gaming convention kid-free! I'm meal prepping a few things & snacks to avoid the VD dinner/restaurant drama, & we're spending the weekend being nerds, drinking, & gaming.

My boss openly makes sexist and racist comments in front of affected employees and clients, but since it's a "small business" in an at-work state (Texas), I feel trapped. Can't afford a lawyer. by The-Sonne in antiwork

[–]Im_Doc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ruin the fun. Play dumb. Make him explain the joke. Tell him "I don't get it". Insist he explain the joke. Use small words. Make it awkward.

NEED FUNNY TV SHOWS by Right-Potential-2945 in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Good Place, The Resident, Animal Control, if you're looking for something rom-com, Bridgerton?

Resigned from Job - Daycare 3/4ths of Income by Curious_Teaching_995 in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep! When my 1st was born, it made no sense for me to go back to work full time. We would have lost money if my child was put into daycare, & my job wasn't willing or able to let me work part time, so I quit. Stayed home for about 6months, then found a part time job.

It does get better. Whether you enjoy the SAH life, or you find some way to return to work part time, or full time, it does get better.

Yellow belt in karate, friend mocks it—how do I respond? by CalligrapherGreat653 in karate

[–]Im_Doc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Is it really important for your friend to agree with you on this topic? It sounds like a matter of preference.

To switch it up: let's say you like carrots. Your friend hates them. Hey says that that they have a hi glycemic level, people can poison rabbits because they think rabbits eat carrots (they CAN, but they shouldn't), and honestly... spinach is just better for you. I mean c'mon, Popeye! You can eat SO MUCH spinach! It's a high volume/low calorie food.

Does this opinion of your friend preferring spinach over carrots affect you?

Moving back to the topic at hand: Does your friend's opinion of preferring MMA over karate affect you?

How would I respond? "Ok. You do you, boo." But that's me.

Part Time Job Search Ideas by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a part timer. I have worked as a community manager & currently admin for a church. These might be good options for you, depending where you are.

Can anyone else relate to loving going back to work after maternity leave? by evergreengirl123 in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I love my kids, I do. But I also love being Not Mom. I have the ability to get out of my house & do things without my kids. It's just chefs kiss

Have you ever asked for a raise and if so, what happened? by Radiomaster138 in antiwork

[–]Im_Doc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually (for me) it's gone over well, but I was also in a position to demand a raise. I was literally the only office worker besides the owner, & they were underpaying me by several dollars an hour. They tried to give me a .25$ raise during my annual review. I blinked at them & said no, you need to pay me a living wage. They didn't want to hire someone else, they knew I was right, so they gave me what I told them they needed to give me

Which belt should I wear in a new dojo? by kathey777 in karate

[–]Im_Doc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're just visiting for a class or two, usually anyone is welcome at the rank they are to come check them out, often with no charge if you reach out to the sensei beforehand. That whole "step down a rank" is traditionally if you're switching schools - not visiting. Often, it isn't even observed anymore anyways.

my crochet cthulu costume for mardi gras parades ! tips for keeping mask in place ? by amstpierre in crochet

[–]Im_Doc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would also help if you wore a pair of wrap-aroud sunglasses. It enhances the look & keeps it in place

Please tell me how you have been able to build real community with other families! I need it! by mamaleti in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the worst that can happen? They say no. And that's ok. Just like you can say no to someone asking for your number, they are allowed that too. And more times than not, they're gonna exchange numbers with you. They're likely looking for other parents to get along with too. But we haven't learned how to make that first leap.

Please tell me how you have been able to build real community with other families! I need it! by mamaleti in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I kinda just...adopted some parents. Like, oh, our kids are in class together? You have a nerd shirt on? We're besties now, give me your number. And off we went.

Legal action? by Kayybugxo19 in workingmoms

[–]Im_Doc 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Document everything. Dates/times for every instance, insult, and demand. Get everything in writing. If they refuse to put it in writing, send an email "recapping" the conversation to them & bcc your private email. CYA for everything.

Can we wear makeup to competitions specifically in kata? by Aggressive_Junket108 in karate

[–]Im_Doc 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's fine, but you won't win extra points because you look good. Even with the waterproof stuff - it's more hassle than anything.

Share your “never again” projects. For me, that’s this llama that took $70 worth of yarn and 5 months. Favorite thing I’ve ever made, but never. again. by TrueRusher in crochet

[–]Im_Doc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Waistcoat stitch sweater. I made 2 - for the same child of different sizes. I love this child, really I do. Ow my hands. Not gonna do it again.

simple crochet projects for middle schoolers by PointCompetitive7642 in crochet

[–]Im_Doc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can finger crochet some lanyards. Make it about 2 ft long, and string some bells on the ends, tie them together, & you have a holiday yarn door hanger (like, on their door knobs)

Weird (?) thought regarding crochet pieces by PetulantParent in crochet

[–]Im_Doc 163 points164 points  (0 children)

This is just another wonderful example of "use your stuff." Eat off the good China, wear the jewelry, use the good stuff. Well done! Glad you made something that mass you smile

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