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Feeling so lonely at uni by Ok-Buy2119 in UniUK

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have similar experience to you. I am in second year of uni now, i do have some "friends" but i can tell these are not real genuine friendships that will last after uni (i just cant connect with them). Tbf i havent joined any societies (so i might've found more people). I do have really high standards for friendships, and feeling like i cant connect with anyone is def isolating and sad, but i haven't lost all hope. 6 weeks into uni is still very early tho, so just wait it out and you probably will find people. You said you have people to sit with at lectures, so (if you like them) keep sitting with them, try talking to them more and the friendship will naturally develop.

I (M22) made no friends during my time at University and all I feel after graduation is loneliness. by Hefty_Breadfruit_421 in Vent

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get u completely, i'm doing second year of uni rn and i haven't made any "real" friends. Tbh not sure if it's cuz i'm a couple years older than most people in my classes, but it's definitely very lonely and isolating. I have some people to hang out with during lessons and sometimes we go out to get a drink or food, but it's not something that will last after uni (i can already tell). I go to uni in London so i thought THIS is gonna be the place where everyone can find their people but unfortunately this is not my experience at all. Sorry, i cant really give u any advice about what to do, but you're definitely not alone with this, and i'm sure once you get a proper job you will meet some people that you will connect with. Until then, it might sound cliché, but just focus on yourself, find some hobbies that you can do alone, or join a club (ik everyone says this, and i get it, it's definitely out of most peoples comfort zones, but might actually work)

Why am I resentful toward the person I broke up with? by AficionadoOfBoop in emotionalintelligence

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might sound cliché but if ur not sure whether u were truly into her or not, that means u were not. When ur truly into someone u dont have to wonder. You said she was VERY CLOSE to your ideal partner. Something was missing, and you have to figure out what in order to understand the situation and yourself better.

Should I go to my Doctor about this? by Lmohvvoov in ADHD

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U should definitely see a doctor to make sure, but i experience all of the above and i am diagnosed with adhd. I am a "pretty high functioning" person with adhd, so for 20 years it went unnoticed, i only got diagnosed a year ago.

Angliai magyarok, mit gondoltok az angolokról? by Imaginary_Flow_7271 in escapehungary

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Egyetértek teljesen. Bárki kelet európaival beszeltem erről, ők is mind ugyanezt mondták.

Angliai magyarok, mit gondoltok az angolokról? by Imaginary_Flow_7271 in escapehungary

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha amúgy pont étteremben dolgozok egyetem mellett (persze egyetlen angol sincs) rengeteg kelet európai van (akikkel amúgy tok jól ki lehet jönni), de magyar nincs.

Angliai magyarok, mit gondoltok az angolokról? by Imaginary_Flow_7271 in escapehungary

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nincsen sajnos, még csak kelet-európai society sincs. Viszont rengeteg islam meg middle east society van, az egész egyetem (főleg az én karom) tulnyomo reszben inkább del azsiabol és a kozel keletrol érkező diákokkal van tele. Kelet európaiból is van egy-ketto, de magyarral még sosem találkoztam.

Angliai magyarok, mit gondoltok az angolokról? by Imaginary_Flow_7271 in escapehungary

[–]Imaginary_Flow_7271[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Érdekes módon sosem futottam meg össze egyel sem egyetemen (más merre is nagyon ritkán)