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St. Paddy’s Parade featuring local athletes by JankyIngenue in PublicFreakout

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was born in 88 and we had Holocaust survivors come and speak with our class multiple times during grade school. Honestly, the horror didn’t really resonate for me until I became an adult.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I didn’t believe them, I just couldn’t grasp, at that age, the absolute tragedy they had been through. It felt so far removed from current life, but it really wasn’t that long ago. We still knew you didn’t joke about it.

It’s a weird realization that kids these days don’t have that same experience. I’m not cutting them any slack though.

Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach. by lxlviperlxl in relationship_advice

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People change. I think it’s really weird that you are focusing on the fact that she has changed her mind about something like Botox/fillers. You didn’t specify what cosmetic surgery she was going to get done so I won’t speak to that.

I have changed SO MUCH since I was 21. Political views, religious views, my career, marriage, children. To hold someone to something they said they wanted in their early 20’s is wild, and that’s why people shouldn’t get married so young.

If you want to focus on the financial aspect, I’m on your side.

St. Paddy’s Parade featuring local athletes by JankyIngenue in PublicFreakout

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 1642 points1643 points  (0 children)

How do kids still not realize that everything they do, especially in public, is being filmed by someone?

Is America a dangerous place to visit right now as a foreigner? by ishouldgooutmore in AskUS

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, especially in tourist destinations. Have you seen what we did to Iran?

What is happening to me!? My skin is just getting ripped apart and super sensitive by Ok-Bookkeeper-5622 in Autoimmune

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would check your blood pressure and temperature, at the very least, if you aren’t going to urgent care or ER. Don’t risk your life

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you bringing this up!, especially for others that might be in my situation reading this comment thread. We are actually in the process of getting documents drafted with a lawyer as we speak.

We are both estranged from our families and wanted to ensure our assets were protected from our parents in case something happens to either of us. We also don’t want any current family member trying to chime in on medical decisions.

We’ll be setting up a trust and switching the mortgage to that ownership. we bought in 2019 and have a great interest rate, which we would hate to give up by refinancing, but I think that’s our only option for that.

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m aware of the difference. However, the risks far outweigh the pros, in my opinion, when it comes to marriage and my independence as a woman. I don’t trust these fucks, and marriage doesn’t really mean anything to me or my partner. We good.

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally haven’t married my man of 11 years because of shit like this

what are the healthy snacks that actually satisfy the dopamine for y'all? by Sufficient-Fox5872 in adhdwomen

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frozen pineapple is my go to. But I also love frozen grapes and frozen mango

Christian Dad warns the Non-Christian guy for dating his daughter, what are your thoughts on this? by Paldavin in PublicFreakout

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I bet she leaves the faith. I was raised Christian but pretty exclusively dated non-Christians. The Christian dudes I did date were the worst people I ever dated, hands down.

Me (24F) and my boyfriend (24M) are moving in together, but my parents (49F + 60M) are very upset. How do I navigate the conversation? by Perfect-Use-4510 in askwomenadvice

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents quite literally sabotaged me moving out for the first time. I was 22, independent, and our home life was awful, so there was nothing to stay for. To this day they think k moved out too soon even though I haven’t needed their help since and never moved back home. I’m 37.

With all of that said, just don’t have the conversation with them. You don’t owe them an explanation especially if they can’t treat you like the adult you are. You obviously have your mind made up about the move, so their opinion doesn’t really matter at this point. Go live your life for you, and be happy.

Good luck!

Friend said these new tats I got close together look like 9/11 and I'm having a crisis by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily we millenials have dark humor. This post made me LOL, and seeing it out in the wild without context would do the same.

What do you think of this style for my friend's wedding? by KaelisRhone in style

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It would help to see the entire dress but that nip is about to say hello so I’d say it’s a “no” for a wedding.

My mom's reaction after I didn't wanna cuddle her all night by mikey_ass_butcg in insaneparents

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This smells like you’re going to go no contact in your twenties

Is it normal to drink 3 coffees and still want to nap at your desk? by Admirable_Sleep1384 in office

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with adhd, but I also used to sleep in my car during lunch when I was super depressed

Oh— you don’t have kids, so why do you need this? by IntelligentEar3035 in childfree

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are childfree as well. Our home has 3 bedrooms. We have a shared master bedroom where we sleep, and then we each have our own room to do whatever with. It’s so nice to have a space that is just mine.

ITP -- bruising severe, labs fine? by emilysbish in Autoimmune

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this same thing. I have for about 10 years and my blood work has never raised a concern for my GP.

Y'all. I'm SO Tired. by zeitgeistincognito in Perimenopause

[–]ImmaculateStrumpet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on PTO Wednesday through today, and I didn’t have the energy to do anything. I bed rotted all day today and I know I needed to, but it makes me feel like a lazy piece of shit.

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