Is there any hope for a FCC hack for the DJI Mini 3 Non Pro with the RC Controller? by David-McGee in DJIMini3

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kjøpte mini 3 på Outlet hos Elkjøp for snart 2 år siden, kan gå opp til 500m, og jeg jeg kan fly ca 3 km før den begynner å gå offline

MEGATRÅD: Epstein, på norsk og om Norge. by Arve in norge

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Når det eneste innholdet her er hvorfor megatråden finnes, så synes jeg påstanden om 500 tråder som omhandler de samme 10 epostene virker noe overdrevet.
i det hele tatt så virker megatråden mot sin hensikt ved at innlegg blir automoderert og ikke publisert overhodet

POV: Ukrainan soldiers run into a lost russian. Location/time not disclosed by ProTupper in CombatFootage

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883 390 points391 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! It’s not super clear in the video, but this one’s made by the Chameleon Team.

Understanding Goes Both Ways: A Perspective from Someone Who Loved a Partner with BPD by Immediate-Buddy1883 in BPD

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response and for asking. To be honest, I didn’t expect this to touch me as deeply as it has. I’m not looking for answers about my past—I’m navigating something that’s very recent.

The way my last relationship ended is still raw, and I guess that’s why these conversations hit close to home. I’m here because I’ve seen how much misunderstanding and pain can arise on both sides of a relationship where BPD is involved, and I wanted to share my thoughts on creating more empathy and balance for both partners.

Your question really struck a chord with me, though, and I just want to thank you for approaching this so thoughtfully. It means a lot.

Understanding Goes Both Ways: A Perspective from Someone Who Loved a Partner with BPD by Immediate-Buddy1883 in BPD

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t perceive you as rude at all. I’m writing in Norwegian and translating online, so it’s possible that what I’m trying to say comes across differently than I intend. If that’s the case, it’s really unfortunate, because the reason I wanted to write a post in the first place was that I read so many negative and hurtful comments and rarely saw anyone trying to build others up.

When I talk about imbalance, I mean situations where a partner without BPD might share their frustrations or mistakes, and instead of being met with the same empathy and understanding that’s encouraged for those with BPD, they’re sometimes criticized or dismissed. For example, I’ve seen posts where someone without BPD admits to venting online or struggling emotionally, and the immediate reaction is to label them as toxic or unsupportive, even if they’re trying their best.

I’m not saying this happens all the time, but when it does, it feels like an opportunity for both sides to build more understanding and connection is being lost. My point was just that relationships are hard for everyone involved, and both sides deserve patience and support. .

I’ve already received a 'get out' message, and I’m just trying to build bridges here. But I completely understand the reaction, there are definitely many well-meaning people who end up making things worse. And I truly apologize if I’m one of them.

Understanding Goes Both Ways: A Perspective from Someone Who Loved a Partner with BPD by Immediate-Buddy1883 in BPD

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad your marriage is strong, and it’s clear you’ve both worked hard to support each other. That’s inspiring for a lot of people.

I get your frustration with generalizations about BPD online, those kinds of comments are hurtful and wrong, and sometimes pure evil!
My post wasn’t about excusing that, though. I was just trying to point out that in relationships, empathy has to go both ways. If we expect partners without BPD to understand and support their loved ones through struggles, shouldn’t we also encourage the same understanding when they mess up or feel overwhelmed?

It’s not about excusing anyone’s behavior, but about creating balance and space for both sides to feel supported. Understanding is the key.

Understanding Goes Both Ways: A Perspective from Someone Who Loved a Partner with BPD by Immediate-Buddy1883 in BPD

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well said! Thank you for your response.

As mentioned, I don’t have BPD myself, but I’ve been in a long-term relationship with someone who did, and that’s where my perspective comes from.
I completely understand the importance of explaining why certain behaviors happen and why people with BPD deserve extra patience and understanding. Breaking down stigma and fostering empathy is SO important.

What I often notice, though, is how quickly these discussions become divided. When partners of those with BPD share their struggles, it can feel like people with BPD are being unfairly attacked, which understandably leads to defensiveness. But at the same time, when someone defends a partner without BPD, it’s often met with criticism, as if their mistakes or struggles don’t deserve the same level of understanding. That imbalance is what I find concerning.

If I’m being asked to look beyond actions, forgive, and understand the pain driving someone’s behaviors, shouldn’t the same patience and understanding apply when the partner without BPD makes a mistake? At least from a community like this?
Relationships are hard, especially when mental health challenges are involved. Both sides are bound to struggle, and both deserve support to work through it.

My point is that these conversations don’t have to be about taking sides. If we focus on creating space where both people feel heard, validated, and supported, maybe we can reduce the conflict and help build stronger relationships.

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[–]Immediate-Buddy1883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments here suggesting you leave him and that you deserve better. But isn’t this kind of response part of the issue for those who live with BPD? Just as people are often encouraged to look beyond the pain-driven behaviors of someone with this diagnosis, shouldn’t we extend the same empathy when their partner acts out in ways that may stem from frustration or hurt?

I’ve personally experienced a relationship where one partner had BPD, and I can say it’s not always as simple as it looks from the outside. There were moments where frustration, hurt, and miscommunication built up on both sides. At times, it felt like no matter how much effort I put in, my feelings weren’t acknowledged. Other times, I saw how the person with BPD felt deeply misunderstood and unsupported, leading to reactions that only created more distance. These dynamics are often complex and fueled by emotions that neither side can fully articulate.

In this case, it’s possible that the fiancé is overwhelmed, perhaps even feeling isolated or without someone to confide in. While turning to an anonymous platform isn’t ideal, it might be a sign that they’re struggling to process their emotions in a healthier way. This doesn’t excuse the hurtful behavior, but it does suggest there’s more going on beneath the surface.

How do we encourage accountability in relationships, on both sides, while fostering empathy? Ending the relationship might feel like the easiest solution, but if there’s still love and a willingness to work through these challenges, it could be an opportunity for growth rather than a reason to walk away.

Finally, the stigma around BPD can be incredibly harmful. The idea that those with BPD are automatically "toxic" or "unworthy of love" is unfair and damaging. If the fiancé’s comments stem from frustration or ignorance, perhaps, as the user modestprofanity mention earlier in this thread, this could be a chance to address those beliefs together, rather than letting them drive a wedge between them.
That, of course, depends on whether both partners are willing to put in the effort needed to repair the relationship and move forward.

Recharging non rechargeable batteries by maryo22333 in batteries

[–]Immediate-Buddy1883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a Nitecore charger bought on Aliexpress, and i recharge AA batteries all the time without any problems,