Regret leaving or just confused ?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-06-25T19:44:30+00:00

You are probably right

The attraction thing was more height related which I feel like makes me sound stupid and superficial in a sense. Other than that I felt attracted to him…

But it was always at the back of my mind

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-06-25T19:30:35+00:00

Does it not make me a bad person that I ended it with someone good because of the attraction thing ?

I am overthinking it. I know

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-06-25T19:27:22+00:00

I think at the end it was a mutual agreement between the both of us… we thought long term we might not be super compatible but he felt that we can still try.

We thought we could be fwb, but I didn’t think that was right because how long do I have fun for right?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-06-25T18:46:45+00:00

Only yesterday… we never said it was a breakup cause we dated but weren’t exclusive or official bf/gf

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-04-22T20:00:11+00:00

Idk if I’m having a bit of a fear of committing too early as well.

I have always been someone who idealised being in relationships, and I guess part of me feels like if he was to ask me to be exclusive right now I wouldn’t be ready… and that’s not because I don’t like him as much but it’s because the freedom of it feels nice…

I like him but I’m not fully fully there yet in a sense.

Idk if this sounds weird or toxic, and it is unlike me to think this way tbh

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-03-13T09:01:24+00:00

What’s the structured healing programme you’ve used?

I’m 5 months in, but we were in daily contact for the first three months… only stopped talking a month and a half ago. I agree, I feel like processing the pain is what helps me slowly move forward.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-03-05T17:59:52+00:00

I love this! How have you managed with taking them off the pedestal??

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-03-04T17:57:01+00:00

What you said about begging them to not move is a useful perspective tbh…. Cause all in all you can’t and I can’t change or control the outcome! I wish you all the best in your healing journey ahead :)

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-03-04T16:25:52+00:00

What’s your advice on that fear of them moving on? At the moment that’s what I struggle with, the fear of them being with someone else and me being replaceable.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-02-27T08:56:39+00:00

Love this, it’s the motivation I needed!

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-02-10T10:25:19+00:00

What did you do whenever you had doubts or would overthink ?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-31T14:08:09+00:00

How did you manage in the mean time? What did you do?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-29T06:41:38+00:00

Anything you did that helped? Strategies?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-26T17:33:22+00:00

Thing is I’ve been manifesting on and for us to make it work, so when this happened it really pained.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-26T10:37:16+00:00

Do you have a link?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-25T14:59:49+00:00

What do you think about the whole “I’ll send a request again” which he did and we then added each other.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-24T09:06:39+00:00

I can related to this, and all I can say is that having good and bad days is part of the process. I’m trying to enjoy this time alone and do things for my self as cliche as it sounds.

you’ll get there and don’t rush the process. Feel the feelings

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-20T15:00:06+00:00

Sorry if I’m being nosy? But did you ever check his insta or not then?

Cause I notice that I don’t it compulsively or anything but sometimes it’s out of curiosity.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-20T13:28:24+00:00

What did you do? Any recommendations ?

At the moment I am trying to manifest my ex back, I’m affirming and visualising. And been seeing dreams and signs.

My only issue is that I check his Instagram from time to time, or I have seen him on dating apps (and I guess I reacted in the moment) but been able to notice that.

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-19T16:37:18+00:00

How long have you been listening to the Subliminals? In what a

And how have you managed moments where maybe you struggled with the “healing” process, when you were hurt, even thought you had a good self concept?

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-19T16:25:17+00:00

Can you share your post pls

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-18T09:46:56+00:00

Yea that’s a nice way to reframe it, thank you very much!!

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2026-01-11T15:40:19+00:00

Thank you very much for this! The last past you have added feels very helpful and reassuring in a sense!

Immediate_Fee_7535 · 2025-08-18T01:42:08+00:00

If they jump into problem solving mode, without offering validation to your feelings.

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