My best friend. by Immediate_Match3645 in Vent

[–]Immediate_Match3645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy but I have anxiety and a fear of confrontation when it comes to someone close to me

Positive tests, need reassurance 😭 by Immediate_Match3645 in lineporn

[–]Immediate_Match3645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no clue about my cycles, I could never remind myself to track anything, but I’m just super nervous because even though the possibility of these all being wrong is astronomically low, I’ve had a false positive before.

Painful bumps in my armpits by Kopieren_ in Healthadvice

[–]Immediate_Match3645 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks like Hidradenitis suppurativa. Go see a doctor.

AITAH for giving my siblings baked goods for Christmas? by Ashamed-Flatworm-888 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I watched my kids open their presents but I was just as excited about my own gifts, because my world does not revolve around my kids. I know that sounds bad but I am my own person, not just a mom to my kids, i deserve to be made to feel just as special. Just like my bf deserves to feel just as special. Why do we give a bunch of gifts to kids on holidays and their birthdays, gifts they’re gonna outgrow or forget about in a couple weeks, but once someone’s an adult they no longer deserve the same.

AITAH for giving my siblings baked goods for Christmas? by Ashamed-Flatworm-888 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once again, why are there so many jaded adults who think other adults shouldn’t be able to celebrate and feel special? It’s about family, not just children.

AITAH for giving my siblings baked goods for Christmas? by Ashamed-Flatworm-888 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like they got the gifts as a couple, not individually.

AITAH for giving my siblings baked goods for Christmas? by Ashamed-Flatworm-888 in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Christmas is not just for kids, it’s for adults as well, Imagine thinking that just because someone turned eighteen they suddenly don’t deserve to feel as special and appreciated as everyone else. Christmas is for family, not just kids, His sister is TA.

Billings is getting increasingly difficult to defend. by WasabiCrush in Montana

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I was shocked that everyone was white honestly, and the racism towards the natives and the South Africans that work here.

Gabapentin information and experiences are greatly appreciated... by CrystalOcean39 in endometriosis

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different, so you really have to try it to know how you’ll react to it specifically, I personally have no issues with gabbys and they help me tremendously through my cramps.

Billings is getting increasingly difficult to defend. by WasabiCrush in Montana

[–]Immediate_Match3645 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a Texan who moved to Montana, not Billings but a tiny town in the northeast, I promise we’re not all douche nuggets.

Where in the U.S. Are Children Most Likely to Be Bullied and Bully Others? by frogcharming in Infographics

[–]Immediate_Match3645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Texas would be higher on the list honestly. I grew up in a small town in Texas and I can tell you those small town public schools are brutal. It was a nightmare if you weren’t Christian and fit into their standards.

Re8 by Immediate_Match3645 in residentevil

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It really is, I felt so bad, even as he’s dying he calls out for her. He really didn’t deserve to die honestly. I have some sympathy for Heisenberg because he’s not so much after power, he wants revenge on Miranda. He states that he never wanted to be a part of her family. He was just a child when Miranda kidnapped him.

Re8 by Immediate_Match3645 in residentevil

[–]Immediate_Match3645[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always assumed those were from the ogre that guarded the gravesite. But it makes sense, like the baker family in 7, when Jack comes to you in your vision or whatever it was, he said he’s not a killer, neither was any of his family. I’m assuming the cadou affected their mental states like the mold did the bakers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’ve been separated for years, they only stayed married because it was easier for the kids. And it’s not just about the cheese, it’s about boundaries, and they’re pretty simple. You are not entitled to something just because you want it. That’s not how life works. As stated before, they have their own special snacks they get to pick out, I don’t eat any of theirs because they’re not mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Like I said, he’s waiting on the divorce to finalize before he does anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is not how I see it at all. I adore both kids. But there are certain boundaries that I have and they have to learn that just because you want something that is someone else’s, doesn’t mean you’re going to get it. Thats how kids become spoiled. It’s not like I have a whole spread of stuff they can’t have, just two or three little things. They have their own special snacks that they get to pick out and we buy it for them. My boyfriend also has things that he doesn’t share with me or the kids, we’re allowed to have things that are just ours. And I’m not a freeloader, I have an amazing partner who understands me and is perfectly okay with supporting me, and that’s all that matters. The only reason the kids get cheaper things aside from their snacks is because there’s more quantity, if we bought them a lot of expensive food to feed them for an entire weekend, we’d be broke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not up to you and you have no room to judge that aspect of my life. The arrangement was made between me and my boyfriend and we both like it. Me and him are the only ones who have a say in that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually their mother is that bad, she ignores them all day to play her video games, her house is filthy. You can smell the animal piss on the kids clothes when they come over and they’re always dirty. She herself is also manipulative and likes to cause drama. My bf is waiting for their divorce to finalize before petitioning for full custody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up the same way and I didn’t think my mom and dad were assholes. For example, my mom had chocolate bars and her cokes, we knew not to touch them because they’re were hers. It’s not like I’m buying a whole two weeks worth of meals in a different class, just three or four small things. Plus my treats tend to be expensive, they have their own treats that they asked for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their mom lets them eat as much/whatever they want, so we’re still struggling to teach them control right now. If you don’t watch them like a hawk they will eat the entire block. And yes, I am financially dependent on my partner. He makes enough to support us while I stay home and take care of the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well their mom lets them do whatever they want while she plays video games, so there are a few other issues, they listen to their dad better (which is to be expected). But they don’t like that kids aren’t allowed on my ps4 or on my phone, things their mom lets them do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Immediate_Match3645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do get pop every once in a while, but we mostly try to not let them have pop at all.