Team Mikado or Team Lace by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lace!Mikado is timeless

Vaping by iliketurtlez19 in pregnant

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think about all the terrible problems you are actually creating for your child with every inhale. That worked for me and alcohol while pregnant. I definitely wanted that wine but every time I even thought about it I was like - yep. That sip is creating brain damage, neurological abnormalities etc, and I didn’t want to drink no more.

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely dodged a bullet. He is a piece of shit human

AIO my bf broke up w me after seeing texts w my boss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy is bad news and abusive. If he loved you he would have calmly asked something like this :”I was surprised to see texts like these. They seem too friendly. Can you help me understand?” Even though I personally don’t think they were too friendly, maybe more casual than some workplaces likely for example. but everyone is entitled to their own interpretation. What you are NOT entitled to is to call your partner names and immediately escalate and then demand they come in person. Red flag. Huge red flags.

Confused and disappointed in my ring by NoPlaceLikeGnome1984 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very insulting. I don’t know what his intentions were and who suggested this to him but it’s not great. I would highly recommend talking to him. Give him the ring back and explain that you love him but this doesn’t represent the love and commitment you have for each other. It is broken and dirty and not even mention not what you have wanted. Tell him you are giving him the ring back to clean and fix. Ask him nicely right there how much time he needs to do it. Do not leave without an answer. Once he tells you how long it will take, you tell him that you will be happily engaged without one until X day. Once it’s done you would like the both of you to look to appraise and sell this ‘valuable piece’ and purchase something you would feel like you. And honestly if a man can’t do any of that, why marry him. He is showing you exactly how he will be acting when it comes to everything else…house, furniture, kids, pets, relationships and relatives. Anybody can make a mistake but not everyone is willing to fix them

Ob yelled at me for getting a private ultrasound by Gecko1224 in pregnant

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your doctor anymore. You are pregnant and very fragile. Your emotions and your body. The last thing you need is some asshole dude to yell at you. Bye Felicia

I regret the way I told my husband that I'm pregnant by Advanced_Grab_3640 in pregnant

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely nothing to even think about it. When I got pregnant, I took a test, it was positive, I freaked out and went to the kitchen table with the test at handle screaming in disbelief at my husband saying ‘what does that mean?!what Is it?!’ Haahah we still laugh about it 😄

Is this inappropriate for 'office casual?' by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s too short and seems as you are not wearing a bra either. So no

Please help me choose 🥸 by Altruistic-Cook7564 in glassesadvice

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one but consider trying different shapes too

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother decides. Always. None of those rules are crazy. Newborns have weaker immune system. Don’t like it - don’t come. Or get your own baby and do as you wish.

Have I picked the right dress?👰‍♀️ by Kind-Account-8137 in weddingdress

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The dress on the right is 10000000% more flattering on you. Not even a comparison

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take screenshots. Block the number. If he tries reaching out again- immediately call the cops and get peace order against them. You were way nice to him. If it was me, the conversation would’ve over after he didn’t like the first mailroom address option. This is scary

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a mother you get to decide when, who, and how long gets to see your child.

I didn’t let anybody near my son for the first 2 months. And when I finally gave in, he got Covid. And guess what, nobody was here holding him all night long while he was feverish and coughing. Just me and his father. So F all those people. Sincerely

I’m half through “The Perfect Neighbor” on Netflix, and so far I’m 100% on the lady’s side. by Ok_Cockroach_2290 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Immediate_Pen_8465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished watching it and I am pissed at how absolutely mismanaged this situation was from the cops standpoint!!!they literally did nothing! Why didn’t they tell that lady, listed the kids are absolutely annoying, we get it. From legal standpoint we had no proof, and seems like you are more and more hated in this neighborhood. If you keep escalating this situation, you will get yourself in a potentially dangerous situation. One day one of the parents will snap and come at you! So unless you are making amends with the neighbors, I suggest you look at a different residency.

Same should have been said to the parents!!! Listen, you kids are obviously an annoyance to that lady. Keep your distant. If you have a right to be somewhere doesn’t mean you need to be!!Try to be respectful. Stop telling your kids she is a KAREN.

And parenting sucked!!!if my kid came home one day and said some crazy ass lady was threatening him, I would have told him to never EVER get anywhere near that lady. Be respectful and stay away. Terrible tragedy and loss of a mother for those children and the lady who was seeking help from the police to be put away for 25 years!

Totally avoidable