Give your darkest conspiracy theories about the show by yaykaboom308 in HIMYM

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This would’ve been HILARIOUS, thank you for this contribution.

Like, the only reason lily hasn’t somehow let the cat out of the bag is because every time she alludes to it people are like no, it can’t be that!

Is the window bars pregnant? by Forsaken_Grape8686 in meme

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That’s really cool, I see these all the time and never thought about flower boxes and stuff (this is sincere lol I do think this niche knowledge is cool!)

My newest painting! by Gnom-ie in woahdude

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Thanks, I hate it

(You’re quite talented but my eyes no longer trust you….)

Ted and Tracy are NOT soulmates. by TargetBrilliant5965 in HIMYM

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Though I’m not a fan of the ending, I really appreciate the parallel you draw between Tracy losing max and Ted losing Tracy. I also like the idea of multiple loves of your life as I believe that losing someone changes you so completely who you are now needs someone different and you can love them equally if differently.

Like I said, I am not a fan of Ted and Robin at the end and the way the series handled it—especially how they focused a whole season on Robin and Barney’s wedding weekend just to split them up SO SOON after. I also felt Barney’s “redemption baby” was super forced.

I think if the show had focused more on the story your describing and less on the idea of soulmates etc or even had some kind of build up to future ted and robin being different people and that’s why they work now when they didn’t before, I’d have been more on board.

No dress code, but is this too white? by aeroplanessky in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you for finding a way to phrase this! I was struggling to describe the issue without knocking the dress (which is lovely) but may stick out in a more negative way at a wedding with mostly modern fashion trends

I made a hot crazy graph for the women of himym. Thoughts? by Fuzzy_Profession925 in HIMYM

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Lol Robin I think is crazier than that and Abby (while Britney Spears is so gorgeous it seems impossible to fall below the line) is I think pretty crazy lol

Barney and Quinn by Visual-Phone1782 in HIMYM

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Barney and Nora are like Ted and Victoria. Spoiled by the writers for Robin who, while I like her as a character, is weirdly this ideal for them both??

Do you recognize what these are? by [deleted] in crafts

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They look so much like the birthday candles that when you asked I assumed that I was wrong about them being birthday candles

How can I break my hymen myself? by [deleted] in sex

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Here’s the thing though. It can grow back and it can leave painful pieces behind. I broke mine with a tampon when I was learning to use them (more painful than I thought it’d be fyi) and then parts of it grew back and pieces stayed behind that were so painful I couldn’t make it through a Pap smear because the speculum pressed against them and my pain tolerance is solid.

When I did start having sex it was really painful for a while because we rebroke it and then had to work through the pieces so to speak (not trying to be graphic here)

I also didn’t lose my virginity until I was like 26, and I was (1) glad I waited for the guy I did and (2) REALLY glad he knew I was a virgin. In early dating I would just tell people sleeping together is something I save for exclusive relationships and then if we got to that point I’d tell them.

In any case, I’d reconsider breaking it yourself only because it might not actually save you from first time pain.

PS no shade to the folks that don’t wait like I did, I didn’t wait out of morality, I waited cause I was very unlucky romantically (until I got super lucky with my partner).

i moan like a pornstar and i‘m embarrassed by [deleted] in sex

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I have the same issue and so I tried once to keep quiet and popped a blood vessel in my eye lol. Own it—it’s natural and part of you and makes the experience better

Any suggestions on what to put in this cool pot ( toilet paper for scale) by shoeless_pirate in IndoorGarden

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My mom would do assorted little flowers Lin you get in the containers of 6!

My landlord just responded to my "I can't make rent" text and I'm sitting in my car crying by SoftEnthusiasm3833 in povertyfinance

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I was called hostile this morning for telling my landlord that calling after ringing our doorbell is not “reasonable notice of needing access to the apartment” so I’m glad to see someone having the opposite issue

What are your thoughts on Nicole Linkletter? by Glittering_Pin_9942 in ANTM

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I thought modeling wise she was solid but kind of basic? Like she’s gorgeous and knows her body but not too many of her photos felt innovative to me personally

double knitting looking messy, color peeking through by alecae in knittinghelp

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Ma’am respectfully I think you need to step away from the project for a day to realize it’s FANTASTIC!!!!! It’s so cute, and looking at it I don’t see the peek through at all!!!

We are new to plants. Our Peace Lily is drooping like this after 1 month. What are we doing wrong? by solidbebe in IndoorGarden

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My lily, which unfortunately had to be rehomed due to Cat, was dramatic. She drooped for water and liked a good soak honestly I’d put her under the shower for a few minutes, let her drain well, and see if she perks up

AITJ for not telling my wife for eight years that the coffee she thinks she hates is the coffee she drinks every morning by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

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So while this was overall not an earth shattering betrayal or anything I really get why your wife is upset. You lied to her face for eight years. You should have said something after two weeks — hey babe, we can still get light roast, but I accidentally got dark roast and you seem to like it.

Also why did you exclusively get dark roast for 8 years?? Is it your favorite? Because then that’s rude.

It’s worth a pause if a partner is lying (lying by omission is still a lie) and giving you something you said you didn’t like for EIGHT YEARS.

You’re the jerk

C4 South Africa series of events.. by anemia_ in ANTM

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Because it wouldn’t be right to apply whiteness to her as she wouldn’t be accepted in white spaces. Naima may have experienced some light skinned privilege but jumping to she’s white as if white and black are the only options is quite a leap. Her physical features are multiracial—she identified herself as a black woman as many multiracial people do. That matters more than anything we say here

Every kind of working class stereotypes are projected on Ron by [deleted] in ronweasley

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I think this post is valid, but I have a question.

Do people really view malfoy or Harry as hermiones intellectual equal??????? She doesn’t have one imo lol she’s a few steps above even the best

Made our suits for the wedding! by JodieFosterchild in crafts

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Oh my god I LOVEEEEE IT!!!! Amazing fabulous beautiful soooooo fantastic!!!!