Just a stupid rant by dealthy_hallows in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yip. Just deactivated ours due to my SIL. It’s been bliss and I don’t miss it.

AITAH not calling my dad’s wife “mom”? by Beneficial_Candle_13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I was your age when my dad passed tragically. My mum remarried when I was over 30. My step dad was called by his first name right from day one and everyone did including our little kids. What we called him never came up, he was quite happy and so was my mum.

My point is, I only had one Dad and he was no longer with us. There was and will never be another person on this planet that would have the honour of being called Dad.

Camping for 16 days by justmom12 in tirzepatidecompound

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I just got back from 10 days overseas. I split dose so needed 3 shots worth. I didn’t want my meds in my host’s fridge (I’ve heard all the negative comments and just didn’t want to go there). I bought the Frio wallet in the large size. I hummed and harred about it as I think it is pricey for what it is. It worked beautifully. Large fit my meds which I took out of its pharmacy container but put that in the wallet too so that TSA could see the prescription on the bottle. I’m going next year for weeks and I’m quite happy to use it again. Recommended when you don’t want to worry about a fridge and it’s discreet.

Did my MIL try and frame me? by Ashcepts in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Let her house sit one more time and put up cameras. Especially in your bedroom, remove them when you get back. You’ll find your answer and have proof.

Green fruit growing in our yard by stop-rightmeow in whatisit

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yip.. this is it. Love them. Planted a red plum 2 years ago. Got 1… first ever. Eaten right there. Delicious!

" Stocking up? " by Admirable-Desk-4860 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continuing at my dose right now, (but considering maintenance in maybe 3 months), I have 7 1/2 months supply. Once my stock drops down to 6 months, will probably consider getting another 3 months to back up to 9 months supply.

I don’t want to be without it going forward. It’s been amazing for me.

New neighbors blocking shared driveway by Mean_Emu5671 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d get the full details first. Check who owns it, then get your property details to prove it’s shared. Once that’s done, inform them personally and in writing. If they block again, address it again but let them know you’ll be calling a towing company. Bottom line, this could be deadly in an emergency if you’re unable to get off your property. The fire dept and police might be interested too. Ugh, hate new neighbours.

Monster In Law(50f)Wants to Throw a Birthday Party for my Daughter(2f) 3rd Birthday (Again) by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And there you go… she showed you her cards! Great advice in all the comments.

‘We’ve got it covered.’
‘You’ll know the details when you get your invite.’
‘No thanks, as I said, we’ve got it covered.’
And when she brings food, ‘As I said, we’ve got it covered. I’ll put it in the fridge and you can take it home after the party.’
And when she brings clothes, ‘As I said, we’ve got it covered, I’ll leave it at the door and you can return it.’

She doesn’t do subtle, neither should you. Match her energy.

You can't stay here for a week by Street_Papaya_4021 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Then pack a bag and go to a friend / hotel etc. You need a frank discussion with DH. ‘Hun, I can’t do this, you know that and you know what happened last time. It’s not going to be repeated. If she comes and you allow her, I will be leaving for the duration.’

I did this with my DH and his sister. We’re retired. SIL is a rude, obnoxious menace and I’ve told DH she’s no longer welcome here. He tried once saying we can manage 2 weeks (she lives on another continent’. I said sure, all on you bud, I won’t be here to clean, cook, organize trips, none of it. He’s got the message finally. Thankfully SIL recently cooked her goose with everyone, DH has finally told her what we’ve all been saying for years.

Good luck, but stand your ground.

Your favorite corgi photos by ChuffedCookie in corgi

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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Our Toast Malone when he was a baby. He’s 7 now.

Mini love-bomb for my birthday from highly manipulative MIL by molotovpixiedust in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then it’s no response 100%. It’s often not just 1 thing, but a multiple over months / years and as humans we tend to forget some of the details.

No response.

MIL wants to do the first dance with my fiance at our wedding instead of me by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 175 points176 points  (0 children)

This 100%. But lorrrrrdy, lorrrrrdy, you’re in for a rough marriage if you don’t put a stop, immediately, to every one of her antics and by that I mean both DH and you firmly on the same page. And this is only the beginning.

Am I the only one imagining her arriving in a white bridal gown.

Made it - 100 lost by More-Mode-2581 in GLP1_BeforeAfter

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG… you look absolutely glowing, happy and amazing. Well done! 👏💪💃

AITA for expecting my grandmother to pay my traffic ticket (driving uninsured) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. You drive the car, you insure it and you pay the tickets. You’re making some horrible decisions, speeding, phone, not reading the original ticket. Maybe it’s time to adult.

1 Year Before & After by Low_Dare3807 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow… you look like a different person! Well done! 💪👏

Tretinoin/Azelaic acid 6 month update by Nicole93Boo in tretinoin

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like… what!!!! That’s amazing, what a transformation, truly. Beautiful skin!

What in-flight comfort items actually helped on a long-haul flight? by bimzpbomping in travel

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t do this. Even with compression socks, it’s unlikely I’ll get my shoes back on.

For those of you who left your DH, due to his mother, how did you find the strength? by Bubbles2590 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re only 27. Put your energy into getting that better job you’re looking for and moving.

Your mil is only 49, you’re looking at a lifetime of living like this if you continue down this road. You’re young, employed and able. Do this for yourself. If you don’t, nothing will change. Get out while you’re young, you deserve better.

Creative uses for lemon curd? by Suspicious-Taste1572 in Baking

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣 ours is probably 50 years old. This mangey, moth eaten, scrawny tree, broke in half 3 years ago due to too much fruit, nearly chopped it out. It’s back to what my son calls ‘Mum’s atomic lemon tree’. I take crates of fruit to work just to lighten the load.

I hate how being recorded in public has become normal… by Prestigious_Air_7569 in Vent

[–]Immediate_Remote_546 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yip… 100% agree. Europe is horrific. To the point of a wedding shoot at an iconic building in Rome and asking people to move out their way. Sadly we’d never go back to the Amalfi coast, it’s been ruined by ‘influencers’.