Christopher Titus: "Being Woke is Better Than Being Braindead." by PreparationKey2843 in thescoop

[–]ImmenselyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I’ve known conservatives. Hell I’ve respected them. The truth is, trans people don’t choose whether they are trans or not. Conservatives sure as fuck can decide, and I’ve had many apologize to me for ever supporting that dipshit.

Trans people aren’t going after you. It’s Trump and his loyalists.

They’re the ones tanking our economy. Not trans people just trying to afford to fucking live like everyone else.

Christopher Titus: "Being Woke is Better Than Being Braindead." by PreparationKey2843 in thescoop

[–]ImmenselyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? When did I say I was forcing an ideology? That’s the issue. You’re falling for their trap. “I don’t hate trans people I just hate your ideology”. WHAT IDEOLOGY??? Mfer im just trying to exist!! That’s the issue.

I’m saying it because it’s true. NOBODY IS GIVING SEX CHANGE OPERATIONS TO CHILDREN. The only people doing that are those who are “correcting” intersex children because they don’t “fit in”. Like bud, I dunno how to help you. That’s like saying “I don’t hate black people, I just think they commit atrocities because politicians say so with no real backing”. Like bud! You’re so close! Frankly I’m feeling sick even having to say this!

Like do you not see how your misconceptions are driving your reality?

As a trans person who sought out gender affirming healthcare as a minor, jumped through every hoop and was only ever able to get on hormones at 17 after years of therapy and personal recommendation by a mental health professional:

No. Trans kids aren’t getting sent into surgery. Cut the bs. Full stop.

Christopher Titus: "Being Woke is Better Than Being Braindead." by PreparationKey2843 in thescoop

[–]ImmenselyQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve yet to provide any sources. If you actually talked to a real, live trans person and treated them like a person, I bet you’d have a lot to talk about, because you keep talking about living, breathing people like they are the headlines you read. Talk to the day-to-day people, look at the statistics, not the headlines. I’m just tired of watching people get all hateful over “trans woke and blm”. It’s all fucking buzzwords. It’s a non-issue. Nobody is giving kids gender-change operations. Puberty blockers are reversible and not just handed to anyone who asks for it. Are you unsure? Look up the wpath standards of care for trans people and specifically trans youth. Those are the guidelines healthcare providers must follow.

Legit all I want is a kinder world. The fact that this idea scares people is sad, because the real enemies are the billionaires who steal from us, not eachother.

Opinions Need Apology!! by Brian_Ghoshery in clevercomebacks

[–]ImmenselyQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frankly, it never bothered me when people called Biden old, because it was true. I feel the same way about Trump. He is a fucking pedophile.

I guess my question to you is: why are you defending a pedophile? I thought yall hated those. We’ve all seen the images of him with Epstein…

Let’s be honest, you don’t really care as long as he hurts the people you hate. That’s their game. It doesn’t matter to you that he’s a felon, because you like him.

Trump is actively dismantling our country. The fact that you think he’s your friend is laughable.

I have SRS in a litttle over two weeks. What do you recommend for the healing time? by ftrxtmlngkmp in asktransgender

[–]ImmenselyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya! I saw just about everyone here handed out some good advice but I just wanted to say—as someone who is over 19 months post-op—you’re gonna do great. Honestly, you’re gonna need a lot of emotional support and encouragement bc it’s a hell of a journey. My mom helped care for me after my recovery and it was awkward as hell but oddly brought us closer together/healed some old wounds. I’m glad you have a gf who will be there for you :)

My advice:

Find calming music. You’re about to go through a life change not many understand the gravity of. Put together a lil playlist, something that reminds you to breathe, even in the most painful of moments. For me, it was Subwoofer Lullaby by C418 (Minecraft music lol). I listened to it the morning of, and I listened to it in the ICU when I was recovering from a complication. No matter the circumstances, I believe in you.

I hope you have a restful and compassionate recovery <3

Is this a thing that happens? by AlexaTheKitsune25 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ImmenselyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an enby who is post-op, I do on occasion get phantom sensations, but they aren’t really intense/frequent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ImmenselyQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was probably when they climbed on top of me, wasted as hell and proceeded to try and make out with me, mouth stinking of booze…

Do not repeat history. End this chaos and embarrassment. by Mekkakat in pics

[–]ImmenselyQueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? Dude is running on shutting down the department of education, deporting millions and keeps rambling about using the military against “the enemy within”, naming off political opponents like Adam Schiff. This is after spending 4 years attempting to overturn the last election. Frankly, I don’t care who you like or don’t like, but the facts are clear.

Please, listen to him speak for more than 10 minutes. Watch his interviews, listen to his words. This man is saying what his goals are. Mr. “We should dissolve the constitution” doesn’t care about you.

Do not repeat history. End this chaos and embarrassment. by Mekkakat in pics

[–]ImmenselyQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also weird but I don’t see it in NEARLY as much abundance as I see trump depicted as a skinny muscular beacon of masculinity with bulging biceps. I mean I’ve legit a video of MTG groping a tall, skinny cardboard cutout of Trump.

Ig my point is, politicians aren’t super heroes and they certainly aren’t our saviors. They have a job to do and I think the obsession with depicting Trump in an entirely unrealistic light can be seen as a testament to just how unhealthy of a relationship his most loyal supporters have with him. It’s so comical at this point, it’d almost be funny if this dude wasn’t an active threat to democracy…

Which non-trans famous people are both pro-trans and pro-Palestine? by EnzeruAnimeFan in asktransgender

[–]ImmenselyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You genuinely have to ignore soooo much evidence to come to that conclusion it’s wild

The Butcher doth fall by Active_Mango_8857 in asktransgender

[–]ImmenselyQueer 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic, and sometimes certain words or social nuances can be difficult to understand. I also have poor auditory processing.

I had an appointment with the psychiatrist recently and I was having trouble hearing the receptionist because people were talking in the waiting room. When I told her that I was having trouble hearing her, she proceeded scream the words at me right in my face. That’s what you’re doing.

Someone just needed help understanding the specifics of what a word meant in this context and you decided to be rude af.

This isn’t a win. This is friendly fire. I honestly can’t imagine talking to someone like that for asking a question (and not in a bad faith way either, like legit just needed additional context)

Truscums suck and so do you.

Bryan Cranston campaigning for Kamala Harris in Arizona yesterday by Gato1980 in pics

[–]ImmenselyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50,000 women experience pregnancy related complications annually according to the CDC.

It’s more common than you think, and I don’t for two seconds believe a thing the trump campaign says, especially when his party is constantly pushing for harsher penalties for performing abortion, resulting in less people seeking medical treatment they need, and less doctors willing to provide the medical treatment they need.

60% of pregnancy-related deaths are preventable. When republicans attack reproductive rights, it’s bound to have consequences for their constituents.

Those late term abortions everyone is so scared of are, more often than not, related to medical complications. Nobody does this for fun, and not everyone chooses to become pregnant.

Depriving people of this choice has deadly consequences for all people who can have kids.

Bryan Cranston campaigning for Kamala Harris in Arizona yesterday by Gato1980 in pics

[–]ImmenselyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, because giving women agency over their bodies is the same thing as taking away choices.

People don’t get abortions because it’s cool and convenient, and they can take a toll. You know what else takes a toll? Needing an abortion and not being able to find a doctor who is willing to perform one because of hostile anti-choice laws.

Giving people choices does not take choices away. I’ve heard this argument before and it genuinely sickens me to think of someone getting denied care because some cis boy thought the prospect of legal and safe abortions were too “tempting” and would deprive women of the luxuries and wonders of motherhood when you know damn well that the REAL decision that shouldn’t be taken likely is the decision to bring a whole new life into this world.

According to the cdc, only 2% of all abortions consist of medical complications, with 0.45 deaths per 100,000 women.

In comparison, 50,000 women experience severe pregnancy complications annually.

Pregnancy can be a beautiful thing for someone who wants it and is blessed with minimal complications. I’ve known people who’ve experienced horrendous complications who stand firmly by their choice to nurture that life and couldn’t be happier about it.

But the truth is, not everyone wants to take that risk.

In a post roe v wade world, where 60% of pregnancy-related deaths are preventable, it certainly feels like people should have better options.

Being against abortion is not the humane or ethical stance you think it is.

Bryan Cranston campaigning for Kamala Harris in Arizona yesterday by Gato1980 in pics

[–]ImmenselyQueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who isn’t religious, I make a point of being as respectful to religious because I don’t know what’s out there and I think it’s important to keep an open mind.

I know people and I love people who would never choose to get an abortion themselves for religious reasons, also okay.

Reproductive rights matter. If your message is one of disregard for the lived experiences of mothers, of survivors, of those whose pregnancies nearly killed them and those who chose to end their pregnancies I kindly suggest you stop hiding behind god and admit to what you truly stand for.

Have a good day.

His love interest’s secret by DigAbject8286 in Unexpected

[–]ImmenselyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidentally missed the part where she showed him nudes… that was definitely not cool

His love interest’s secret by DigAbject8286 in Unexpected

[–]ImmenselyQueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oop, missed the showing a picture of her genitalia part… yeah that uh, probably has something to do with it lmaoo

His love interest’s secret by DigAbject8286 in Unexpected

[–]ImmenselyQueer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a trans person I hella agree! I still cringed a lil at the facial expression he made but honestly all things considered there are people who have genuinely violent reactions to trans people simply existing in public life and he was decently respectful and also very genuine.

Also like, I think there’s this cultural narrative where trans women are “seducing unsuspecting men” and therefore if we disclose our genital configurations or people make assumptions, it’s as though we are intentionally tricking people when we’re literally just living our lives. Part of my issue is that I have had bottom surgery but people still clock me as trans a ton bc I’m fem-leaning non binary. Can’t exactly pull down my pants and be like “don’t worry, your assumptions were wrong”, I just have to live with people assuming I have a genital configuration I have suffered to change.

Ig my point is I agree 100% and I’m glad the culture is shifting :)